Hi from Nth Qld

[lafsalot]

Hi, I have just stumbled across this site and thought i would pop my head in. I am a mum to a 5 year old girl and have just recently discovered I am 6 weeks pregnant. Unfortunately though, life has been a challenge for us as we lost our two year old son last year due to drowning. This pregnancy was planned but now I find myself overwhelmed with emotions....be it hormones or guilt or whatever it may be, they have hit me full force. So, why am I here? I guess I was hoping to find someone to talk to...someone who can keep me treading water. I know that hormones must be playing a HUGE part in my current state of mind but right now I should be elated. I should be bursting with happiness....yet I feel numb. Don't get me wrong, I want this child with all my heart, I just would love my son back too. So that's me, that's where I'm currently at.....would love a hand to hold on to for moment.

[Queen]

:wave: Welcome to the wonderful, addictive world of Bubhub!
You will find so much support, advice and friendship here, you will never want to leave!:p

I am so sorry for the loss of your son :( :hugs:

Hope to see you around the threads soon.
Take care
Rowie xox:hugs:

[Milktini]

Welcome to BubHub :)
Congrats on your 2nd pregnancy, I can definetly understand your mixed feelings though, thats tragic thing that happened to your son. There are so many lovely wmen on here, im sure you will make lots of new friends in no time, there is also a great section for mums and dads that have lost a loved one. Enjoy your time on Bubhub, look forward to reading your posts.

[Pina Colada]

Hi and welcome to Bub Hub :wave:

I am so sorry for your tragic loss, I can't even possibly imagine the pain and emotion you must be experiencing :gloomy: I sincerely hope you find a special friend here on Bub Hub that maybe knows something of what you are going through and can offer you the support and advice you are searching for.

And of course, congratulations and best wishes for a healthy pregnancy :goodvibes: :goodvibes:

PS. I am a North Qlder too!

[kayla]

welcome aboard :hugs:

[shellsbubs]

Hi and welcome!!!
Which part of NQ are you from?? I am at Innisfail.

Sorry to hear about your loss:hugs:

A big:smiliedance:on your new pregnancy journey!!!

[lafsalot]

Thanks for all the warm welcomes :)

Shellsbubs - I am in Townsville.

Sissy - Where abouts are you?

[shellsbubs]

You could maybe have a look in the Qld section under Nth Qld - there seems to be alot of Townsville people on here and i think they do meet ups:)

[zoe20]

hello welcome to the site :wave:

[Oh So Ready!]

HI :wave:
I am from Innisfail, I haven't got kids yet but I just wanted to say keep your chin up!:)

[WarriorMummy]

hey, im in townsville

i have a 4yo, 2yo and 7 week old

all boys

if you ever want to chat or meet up pm me

[twinkleprincess]

Im sorry to hear about your loss,

Welcome to BH here u will find all the love and support u need

Jen

[bAaM]

Hi and welcome to Bubhub, I am very sorry for your loss.:hugs:

Congrats on your pregnancy and i can understand your fears mate.

If you want any info PM me and i will let you know who to contact.

Good luck on your pregnancy.:flowerz:

[Shakey]

Hi lafsalot :wave: welcome to BH,

i'm sorry to hear about the loss of your son :hugs:

you'll find BH very helpfull, there are a ton of sections on here that you will find usefull, the due Oct 09 section (i'm guessing thats when your due), the North QLD section (great area to find friends nearby), we have a grief and breavment section which you may find helpfull, when/if you need to chat with people that have been through the same or something similar to your loss :hugs:

BTW congrats on your pregnancy :yelclap:

[Giddy Mama]

Hi :wave:

First of all Welcome and congratulations on your pregnancy and of course your 5 year old.

I am also from Townsville and am pregnant with our second bub. In July 07 my hubby and I lost our first son not long after he was born. He had a heart defect that was not picked up until he had died. I think what you are feeling is normal... I kind of felt the same way. I would love for my first son to be here, this bub would of had / has a fantastic big brother.

As this pregnancy has progressed though I started to feel better about things and am now getting really very excited.

Big :hugs: 's for you and if you want someone to talk to I am more then happy to listen.

Giddy Mama
(Donna)

[LittleLaini]

Welcome!

Congratulations on the pregnancy :yelclap: and sorry for your loss. :(

I actually live in Townsville aswell - Aitkenvale to be exact! So if u need a shoulder or support I'm here :)