SassyMummy
17-05-2006, 14:04
At the moment, I'm a full-time SAHM single mother of a 9.5 month old. I live with my mother...STILL...because I'm unsure if I can really afford to move out yet.
Anyway, if I were to get a full-time job, I'm sure I'd be financially better off. I'd be able to move in with DP and afford to do a few "extras" (he's an apprentice so his wage is a joke!) here and there.
I won't try and get a job before next year because we're going away over Christmas and I don't want to have to negotiate time-off in a NEW job...that's expecting a bit much when you're newly hired...I'd also like more time at home with DD first...anyway...
I am mainly concerned with childcare in relation to getting a job. I DO NOT HAVE A JOB waiting for me...I will have to both find childcare AND get a job. I can't afford to put DD into childcare whilst I TRY and get a job, and I can't get a job and NOT put her into childcare. Is there any way I can apply for childcare, but not actually put her into it UNTIL I have a job to go to? I don't want them to go "yep, we have a vacancy now" and me have to put her in there and just do my best to get a job quickly.
Is there any way I can do it?
Anyway, if I were to get a full-time job, I'm sure I'd be financially better off. I'd be able to move in with DP and afford to do a few "extras" (he's an apprentice so his wage is a joke!) here and there.
I won't try and get a job before next year because we're going away over Christmas and I don't want to have to negotiate time-off in a NEW job...that's expecting a bit much when you're newly hired...I'd also like more time at home with DD first...anyway...
I am mainly concerned with childcare in relation to getting a job. I DO NOT HAVE A JOB waiting for me...I will have to both find childcare AND get a job. I can't afford to put DD into childcare whilst I TRY and get a job, and I can't get a job and NOT put her into childcare. Is there any way I can apply for childcare, but not actually put her into it UNTIL I have a job to go to? I don't want them to go "yep, we have a vacancy now" and me have to put her in there and just do my best to get a job quickly.
Is there any way I can do it?