BJJJ
16-10-2008, 01:44
I have just recently gotten married and I now want to try for another baby, number 3. Before we got married my husband and I talked about having another baby but I wanted to put it off until after the wedding. Now that we are married I really want to fall pregnant ASAP as our youngest has just turned 2 but lately my husband is saying that he doesn't want another baby yet.
I didn't want any more then 2 babies until I had 2 boys and now really want to try for one more to hopefully have a girl. My husband also wants a girl but is now saying that he doesn't want another baby right now. The problem is, I have told him the certain days we need to try and make a baby and he is happy to do that yet he says he doesn't want a baby now.
What do I do? Keep on trying to have a baby knowing that hubby knows I am trying to conceive on those days or just let it go knowing he knew full well that I could fall pregnant at the time?
Just for some more info, I want to fall pregnant ASAP as the gap between my eldest and youngest is quite big and I don't want the gap between my next one and my youngest to be so big. Also, so I can eventually go back to work (in no hurry even though I am still on maternity leave from previous son).
I didn't want any more then 2 babies until I had 2 boys and now really want to try for one more to hopefully have a girl. My husband also wants a girl but is now saying that he doesn't want another baby right now. The problem is, I have told him the certain days we need to try and make a baby and he is happy to do that yet he says he doesn't want a baby now.
What do I do? Keep on trying to have a baby knowing that hubby knows I am trying to conceive on those days or just let it go knowing he knew full well that I could fall pregnant at the time?
Just for some more info, I want to fall pregnant ASAP as the gap between my eldest and youngest is quite big and I don't want the gap between my next one and my youngest to be so big. Also, so I can eventually go back to work (in no hurry even though I am still on maternity leave from previous son).