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On Sunday i was cleaning the house up and i went to lay down, i had a sleep i woke up with cramps, i felt like i wet my self i went to the loo there was blood when i sat down on the loo the dear little thing come out...I had to flush it away, i was going to get it out of the loo but i decide to flush it (sorry bout the detail) i could not move i fall to the floor crying my eyes, FH was at work, he come home find me still in loo, he pick me up ask me what wrong i told him he went to the bedroom crying his eyes out,
I feel lost and numb and i dont know what to do with myself..I cant be by myself
Our 5 angel, i was 8 weeks :(:no:
This was very hard for me to type this, i have no one else to talk about this.
I feel like in a bad dream
I not sure if this is in the right spot
MissSookyLaLa
29-09-2008, 22:26
:hugs::hugs::hugs:
im so sorry you had to go through that...
so sorry for your loss...is your partner there to be with you?
bubbleyblossom
29-09-2008, 22:26
I am so sorry for your loss, I really am.
I am sending you so so so many hugs hun!!!!
Please PM me if you want to chat, about anything at all
im so sorry for you loss
:hugs::hugs::hugs:
sunnyflower
29-09-2008, 22:29
:hugs:
I'm sorry to hear of your loss too.
earthfairy
29-09-2008, 22:30
I am so very sorry for your loss hun:hugs:
I went through something similar, i lost my baby at home too just over a year ago.... be kind to yourself.... make sure you & your partner look after eachother...
The sun will shine again for you my sweet...
You are in my thoughts:hugs:
:hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs:
So Sorry for your loss
Ruby Slippers
29-09-2008, 22:40
:hugs::hugs::hugs::crying:
MellyMumma
29-09-2008, 22:43
I'm so sorry.
:hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs:
Jinglebells
29-09-2008, 22:46
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss :hugs::hugs:
:hugs:Hun, I am so sorry for your loss.:hugs:
I wish I could hug and you and take your pain away.
I lost a bub at 9 weeks, last September.
PM me anytime:hugs:
Take care:hugs:
Rowie xoxo
:hugs:
I don't really know what to say except I am so sorry you have to go through this.
:hugs:
susieq1969
30-09-2008, 08:55
I'm so so sorry, I can't even begin to imagine what you are going thru
My thoughts are with you
:hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs:
kiwibird27
30-09-2008, 08:57
I am sending you all my support...That little angle just wasn't mean't to be.... I don't know what your going thru but just wanted you to know you are not alone, You and DH are the most important things right now.:hugs:
the_original_duchess
30-09-2008, 09:01
im so sorry for your loss. a m/c is such a hard thing to deal with and you had to do it by yourself. i hope you and your partner are ok. my thoughts are with the both of you:hugs:
beaniebabez
30-09-2008, 09:01
Just want to say so so sorry...
I myself lost a baby in the same way you did last yr,look after yourself and your partner..im thinking about you both at this time.:hugs::hugs::hugs:
Thanks so much everyone
My DP and i not dealing with it, he wont talk about it, i numb i cant sleep i cant eat, we had a fight last night.
It feel like it my fault i know i should stop say that but it feel like it my fault. It feel like i wont ever make my DP and I wish to have a baby
Thanks again everyone
Thanks so much everyone
My DP and i not dealing with it, he wont talk about it, i numb i cant sleep i cant eat, we had a fight last night.
It feel like it my fault i know i should stop say that but it feel like it my fault. It feel like i wont ever make my DP and I wish to have a baby
Thanks again everyone
:hugs:Hun:hugs:
Let me just say, it has only just happened, its only been two days.
Everyone grieves differently, perhaps think about having a 'service' to acknowledge your loss.
We went to the beach one afternoon and threw some flowers in. Nothing huge just something to say, we are hurting and it is okay.
This is no way your fault, even though it does feel like it (I beat myself up too) you have done nothing wrong.
When DP gets home tonight, just hug him:hugs:tell him you love him:hugs:it is a hard time for you both.
Please take care of you and your DP. :hugs:
I am here if you want to chat:hugs:
Rowie xoxo
Oh hun,i'm so sorry :hugs:
This is in no way your fault,you're both hurting so much with grief right now.
My heart is breaking for you both :hugs:
I can't even imagine what you're going through right now but be kind to your self hun.
I like the PP idea about a little service of some kind,beautiful idea.
Take care.
FertileMertile
30-09-2008, 12:53
Im so sorry Lisa :hugs::hugs::hugs:
I really dont know what else to say :(
SomewhereOverTheRainbow
30-09-2008, 13:14
I'm so sorry Lisa. There is nothing to say, except that's just c**p. Come chat to us in the miscarriage thread if you like. :hugs:
http://www.bubhub.com.au/community/forums/showthread.php?t=160773
I hope you are taking care of yourself and taking it one day at a time. :hugs:
safarifun
30-09-2008, 13:37
Lisa, I'm so sorry to hear of your sad news.
In no way is it your fault, God just needed your little one to make into an Angel. I know that doesn't make you feel any better, but try to stay strong.
I'll be thinking of you and your partner.
Take care & be strong.
:hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs:
wanted to send you lots of :hugs:
Chickadee
30-09-2008, 13:57
Lisa, I know words cannot heal your heartache, but I wish they could help a little. :hugs::hugs::hugs:
May your angels watch over you and your DH and keep you safe together.
O my heart just aches for you. Go gently.
Oh darling :hugs::hugs::hugs:
I agree with everything KirstyB said, be kind to yourself.
much love
Gracie
maybe1more
30-09-2008, 17:42
Im so very sorry for the loss of your angel, maybe it was way to beautiful for this life.
My heart goes out to you sweetie, you`ll be in my prayers tonight:hugs::kiss::hugs::kiss:
Thanks Girls for your support
sweetsugardumplin'
05-10-2008, 11:50
I am so sorry for your loss:hugs: :hugs:
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