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summermermaid
21-09-2008, 01:33
:sunshine:Hello everyone
I hope i am writing in the right place here.
My man and I am in this strange predicament where we are looking for an amazing person to go to the trouble of donating her eggs to us.
We know it is a courageous act for you to do such a thing.

We have tried IVF 3 times with no luck and the suggestion to use donor eggs seems such a great hope with this amazing medical discovery.

So to tell you a bit about me, I am 45 years young and my partner is 38. I was lucky to meet him just 2 years ago. Luckily he wants to have a baby as much as i do so we are both going to these great lengths and making decisions we never thought we would have to make together. You simply can't plan this sort of thing, it just happens.

If you would like to be in touch with me, i'm sure you have lots of questions about donating and about us, please feel free to contact me,

From
Happy couple

jo-anne.36
21-09-2008, 18:24
:wave:there welcome to B&H and yes you are in the right section hon anyway good luck hon i hope you find:angel: thanks jojo:)

summermermaid
23-09-2008, 22:13
Dear Jojo
I just read your story and i certainly do wish you the best of luck after trying so hard for so long. What do you think your next course of action will be?
Suzanne

ACT1
24-09-2008, 13:10
Hi Summer and welcome, how wonderful that you were able to meet a loving partner who also wants to have children. I hope you find your ED angel to help bring the joy of children into your life. Good luck.

jo-anne.36
25-09-2008, 19:54
:wave:Suzanne thank you and our plan is to keep hoping to find DE becouse DH is classed as to old for adoption now. our only hope is for DE to fulfil our baby dreams and to make it come true to hold uor baby in our arms for every once again i want to wish you good luck for your :angel: to come along soon jojo

tummymummy30
26-09-2008, 21:44
Hi there and welcome to Buhub. :wave: GOODLUCK!
Kelly x
:flowerz:

summermermaid
28-09-2008, 10:57
:wave:Hi Kelly
I see you have been on a long journey and it hasn't been easy, especally with your youngest son. Wishing you the best of luck with getting a donor and keep positive,
cheers
Suzanne

summermermaid
28-09-2008, 11:05
Hi Nat
Thanks for your well wishes, and as many wishes back to you. We are all in this almost surreal situation. I am amazed and thrilled that there are actually lovely women in our country who wish to volunteer such a service for women like us, so best of luck to all of us,
cheers
Suzanne

jo-anne.36
28-09-2008, 12:02
:wave:Suzanne :yes: we are so lucky to have woman who are Donors out the goodness of their hearts i take my hat of to them all hey jojo

Celestine
28-09-2008, 13:34
:wave: just dropping in to wish you all the best in your search for a wonderful donor angel:angel:

summermermaid
30-09-2008, 20:06
:smiliedance:Thanks to everyone with their well wishes. I wish all of you great success in having a family.

Now i have looked at the icon i picked he looks like a cheerleader without pom-poms "ra,ra,ra" to all of us and best of luck,
Suzanne

jo-anne.36
30-09-2008, 22:00
:wave:Suzanne :iagree:with you hon i never thougt of that before :)jojo

summermermaid
23-11-2008, 20:21
:sunshine::)Hello
I haven't been on this website for a while as we decided to try IVF for one last time to have a baby naturally, no luck!
So now we really would like to find someone special who would like to donate her eggs. This is not an easy process and involves a few months of disruption to your life, seeing IVF counsellors, taking hormone tablets and hormone injections and a day hospital procedure.
If you are 35 or under and completed your family, and your partner is happy to get involved, please consider donating your eggs. Please have a good look on this website to see the FAQ details on what is involved emotionally for both donors and recipients as there is a lot more involved than first expected.
I am looing forward to hearing from you if you are serious to donate, from any city in Oz,
take care
Suzanne and partner:wave:

jo-anne.36
24-11-2008, 20:35
:wave:suzanne good to see you again i wond what happen to you hon iam so sorry that your cycle was a BFN well good luck with your search for:angel: that you do'nt have to wait to long jojo:reindeer:

summermermaid
27-11-2008, 09:51
:wave:Hi Joanne
Thanks again for your kind words.

I wish there was a way to meet donors in person and chat to them, get to know them, and they us. It is a shame that IVF clinics and the Hospital/Health clinics won't arrange with this assistance.

Wishing everyone out there good luck!:fingerscrossed:
Suzanne

tummymummy30
30-11-2008, 09:00
Hi there :wave: Just popping in to say gidday and wish you tons of wonderful goodluck :bee::bee::bee:

Kelly x
:flowerz:

jo-anne.36
30-11-2008, 14:52
hello suzanne that is right the clinic could help more jojo

Baby86
30-11-2008, 21:41
I met/meet/communicate with my IP's...I replied to an ad for an ED in a local paper/magazine (not actually sure if its a paper or magazine)
Does the clinic only not allow it if its a clinic recruited donor?

summermermaid
02-12-2008, 23:30
Hi Baby86
Sorry i am not sure what IP stands for so i am not 100% sure what you meant, but what i was trying to say was that it would be good if IVF clinics advertised publicly for potential Egg Donors, so that it becomes more common in the public eye and more and clear information is available for donors, then there would be more potential donors, and then the clinics could try to match up donors with recipients based on common ideals etc.
cheers:wave:

summermermaid
24-01-2009, 22:25
Hello everyone
Just a message to wish everyone a Happy New Year and hope you had a nice holiday over the summer season.

We are still looking for a donor and look forward to hear from you soon,
cheers
Suzanne

Baby86
24-01-2009, 23:03
Hi Baby86
Sorry i am not sure what IP stands for so i am not 100% sure what you meant, but what i was trying to say was that it would be good if IVF clinics advertised publicly for potential Egg Donors, so that it becomes more common in the public eye and more and clear information is available for donors, then there would be more potential donors, and then the clinics could try to match up donors with recipients based on common ideals etc.
cheers:wave:

IP's stands for Intended Parents. I think there are laws around not allowing clinics to advertise it. But you are right, it would bring more public awareness to it.

cyclesix
25-01-2009, 08:39
Hi Summermaid, I just wanted to wish you all the best in finding your Donor Angel. I am sorry your last cycle didn't bring you your long awaited miracle.

I too did a "last cycle" while waiting for my Donor to be ready; however, she has since changed her mind. The last cycle did turn out to be a BFP but sadly miscarried.

We are thinking about doing "one more cycle" as we start the journey to find another donor. We just feel we need to continue to be active in making this miracle happen for us - at 41, time is of the essence! :yes:

Take care and keep us posted:hugs:

summermermaid
29-01-2009, 22:45
Hello Cyclesix, thanks for your well-wishes,:)

I also just met last week with a potential donor who was really enthusiastic and i was really, really honest with her about everything. All went great when we met, but when i spoke to her a few days later she had changed her mind. It was very sad.

I understand it is a lot for donors to absorb. We have to go through IVF for ourselves, but it is hard for someone to go to all the trouble for someone else, especially if it not a family member or best friend. So i can understand someone changing their mind.

Good luck and i wish you well in finding a donor too!
Suzanne:wave:

summermermaid
12-02-2009, 12:15
Dear Donor:)
I am still here waiting for you and looking forward to hear from you,
cheers
Suzanne:wave: