not sure where to put this

[MumTotzlj]

hi

i'm not sure where to put this. we lost our son 9 weeks ago, and i haven't go back on the pill as we decided to use the family planning birth control method, the problem is i think i might have stuffed up my cycle. which wouldn't be a problem if i wasnt finding it so hard to deal with things at the moment. i do want more babies just not right now. i guess this is more for me to just get it out not really needing any one to reply.i guess i am just confused about everything atm.:confused:

[MellyMumma]

I'm sorry for your loss. I hope you find peace soon.

:hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs:

[Ky]

Honey, we are ttc at the moment but I am still terrified of how I will cope with being pregnant so soon after losing Ruby - even though she would have been nearly 8mo by now ...

Just let us be there for you when you are struggling - we know a bit of what you are going through emotionally and would hate to think that you are doing this alone. :hugs:

Take care

[Trying Hard]

I am sending you a big hug :hugs:

[Queen]

:hugs:Sorry for your loss:hugs:

[jaydensmum]

Im sorry to hear of your loss hun! :hugs: I remember how hard it was to decide on whether to ttc or not. When we did decide so many things were going through my brain. I got pg with Ariana 3mths after losing Oceana. I felt that it was a bit soon for me, my DH really wanted to ttc. I wouldnt change a thing now but i know how difficult it was. The whole pg was very challenging and stressful but we ended up with a beautiful, healthy baby girl. I just wanted to say that the decision is totally up to you hun and whether you're ready. Theres no right or wrong decision. You need to do whats right for you physically, emotionally and mentally. We are all here for you hun and if you ever need to chat about things feel free to PM me anytime. Take care hun, thinking of you! :hugs::hugs:

[MumTotzlj]

hi all

thank you so much for your support. i just wanted to up date and say that i will be testing on the 4th oct. i am pretty sure i screwed up my cycle so we will see what happens.

[MyFab4]

:hugs: I hope you get the result you want.