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Hokey Pokey
04-05-2006, 12:41
How many children do you want to have?

When do you plan to have your next?

Hokey Pokey
04-05-2006, 12:41
We want 3, not sure about 4 but 4 would be max!

We are going to ttc # 3 after the wedding this November 25th!

Briannabear
04-05-2006, 12:51
We'd like 3-4 children quite close together in ages!:thumbsup:
Im pregnant with no.2 so I have no idea when we'll try for the next one!!

JasmineLouise
04-05-2006, 12:59
I've always wanted one child with a large gap between the 'next round' of two (three max) children a bit later in life!!:yes: Things dont always go to plan so ill have to see how we go! :laughing:

Veritas
04-05-2006, 13:19
I always thought I wanted a couple of kids at least....

But I think I've changed my mind and decided one might be it for me... I figure I can devote so much more attention, and financially give her much more opportunity... especially being on my own....

Of course I reserve the right to change my mind!

jessi
04-05-2006, 14:59
i always wanted 2... but we will wait and see how the birth goes as to whether there will be another one... if so, it probably wont be until shes 2ish.

kate_perth_10
04-05-2006, 15:08
We have two boys and i'm desprite to have another now!!!! (the boys are 2 and 3) But hubby says that 2 is enough!!:banghead:
Ideally i would like 3
Have to work on changing hubbys mind first :laughing:

aardvark
04-05-2006, 15:09
We had always agreed on 3, and we have that now.

Truthfully, I could handle another baby - but I'm not sure I could handle another child! Pity they grow up so fast.

So we are stopping at 3.

youngbrismum
04-05-2006, 16:00
We want 3 or 4. We are going to try for #2 next month and see if we can get a boy and I want a sister for Samarra aswell so definately 3 and maybe 4 if we feel up to it.

MummyCharmzy
04-05-2006, 20:23
always wanted 4.. gained a stepson so now want '5'... already HEAVILY onto number 4 so not far off lol :)

brooke
04-05-2006, 20:40
im happy to just have one...
but I wouldnt mind being a foster mum...I love kids but I just didnt enjoy being pregnant and my labour scared me so we wont be doing that again!
I am so determined that I only want ONE that I asked DH to get the "snip" :o

mumof8
04-05-2006, 20:42
How many would I like to have ???? I would love another couple BUT Hubby has put his foot down !!!! I am very blessed with the children that I have & little one arriving June !!!

caz
04-05-2006, 20:46
I would like to have one more, making it 2 but i've got to convince DF that it's a good idea first :fingerscrossed: And if he does say yes then i'd probably want a 2 - 3 year age gap between them

QTB
04-05-2006, 21:22
i would love to have 4, but i think we will stop at 3.... we want them close in age... i love being preg and had a really easy birth first time round, so thats not a worry :)

Niki
04-05-2006, 21:39
id like to have another once me and df get married which will be in a few yrs then who nos mayb another after that?!

Melo
04-05-2006, 21:51
I want 2 -3. If this one isnt a girl, I would LOVE to try again! BUT... DP isn't quite into the idea! So we will see! :D

TJ
04-05-2006, 22:23
I havent had any yet, but we are TTC at the moment, and we are definitley only having the ONE.

mim
04-05-2006, 22:28
We wanted two kids, then I decided I wanted a third, and we agreed three kids were the maximum. #3 is now three weeks old and now I kinda want 4! But DF will never agree *sigh*

mim xxx

Mummymia
04-05-2006, 22:39
How many kids huh? I want 9.No seriously I do,I promised myself when I was little I would have 9 but df says 3 :thumbsdown: ,How do I go about changing his mind?? :fingerscrossed:

oscarsmilkbar
04-05-2006, 22:40
I would love 3...will see how we go ....the O man (aka: oscar) is the best thing that ever happened to me and so extremely adorablebut holy heart pulpatations ....he is like a runaway train most days...you'd think the prego weight would shift with all the running I do to chase him....he is more like a rugby team "handful"than my fat hands!!

Having said that though we've just started TTC #2.....crazy but i'm a sucker for children....motherhood is my calling...I'm in love with my life!!:D :

MumsieMel
05-05-2006, 06:03
I think we'll have 4.

the next one (no3) in about 6 mths!!! :smiliedance:

Mum2Lucas
05-05-2006, 09:48
I never wanted kids and then lucas came along. Now I'd like to have a large family with lots of little brothers and sisters for lucas. Just have to fnd someone who wants the same.. and soon.

Pixie
05-05-2006, 10:00
Before Eliza was born we planned or hoped to have 6 children..now after a shocking c/section and still not quite knowing what has happened to my uterus (was torn upwards) I will be happy for any more children..although me and DP are both quite scared of a 2nd one after what we went through. But we hope to TTC later this year anyway if everything is OK and we'll take it from there.

Nixie
07-05-2006, 12:32
We want between 6 and 10.. my 2 are already 10 and 8yrs of age and hopeing that the next few will come much easier and closer together.. Im still quite young so hopeing for the best..

But i would be happy if we were unable to have anymore..

Mum&bubs
07-05-2006, 13:01
i want maybe 3 or 4. It all depends on how we cope with two first! :laughing:

Hokey Pokey
08-05-2006, 18:13
6 or 10! You go girl!:smiliedance:

NZMama
20-05-2006, 09:30
I think 3 - although my partner is adament that we will keep going till we have a boy...hmmm. But we love our lil princesses to bits!
My pregnancies were fine I think it the labor that freaks me out a bit....it took me 5 years to forget that pain before I had my DD2 lol

FourAngelKisses
20-05-2006, 09:36
I always wanted 6.....3 now and 3 later. But we settled on 2 after having a run of bad luck with those 2. Then fate stepped in and we ended up with 3, now I'd like 4.

Seekrit
20-05-2006, 09:54
I want 2.. with outlook to 3. Chris wants 2.. heh!
If we have 2 girls we'll try again for a boy :rolleyes: And I don't want 2 in nappies at the same time!

I think if we have a boy and a girl we're going to just not do anything too drastic until the youngest is about 5, and if we're not going to have a 3rd one of us will get more permanent birth control.

lil_rabbits_mummy
20-05-2006, 18:50
at the moment we've got 2 lovely furry 1yr olds running round the house (cats of course) and a little boy on the way (he's now 3 days overdue). both me and my DP really want a girl, he's always wanted a girl. so he was kinda dissapointed when we found out we were having a boy. tho in his family having girls is very rare.
i want to have a max of 3 kids. about 2 boys and 1 girl. DP wants to keep goin till we have a girl. :eek: that could be up to 10 kids. garr no.
well after little bubbykins comes we'll prob start ttc again asap. i want them close together 1-2yr gaps. so i'll have another when i have another. :D just gonna let nature take its course.

misskittyfantastico
20-05-2006, 20:02
I would like three.....but think I'll probably only have two. I'll be waiting until DD is 2ish before TTC again.

MissSparkle
21-05-2006, 19:14
Id like 3. We'll TTC #2 after our wedding in 1year then hopefully have #3 in 2 or 3yrs after that.

DF is greek so ultimately he'd like a soccer team!!! I'd love a girl then the 3rd can be a surprise!!

cheezelkat
21-05-2006, 21:41
I'd love to have 6. I had such a beautful labour & delivery with Liam, that I would willingly go through it all again! I have 2 brothers and a sister and would have liked more!

My mum has 15 brothers & sisters - having lots of kids is what we do best in my family. :cool:

luckie_me
21-05-2006, 21:44
I would love 2 or 3! Gotta have this one first then find a man so it could be a while lol

MJF
22-05-2006, 11:20
i thought that 1 would be enough..... but she is soo cute i could handle 10.....

i am having trouble convincing DH to have another one, I would like 3....but we will see what happens. Have a gorgeous little girl, would love a boy.

As for the age gap i'd like to start trying at the end of the year when DS is about 16months....

kymmy
22-05-2006, 11:32
5 or 6:smiliedance:

~Danni~
22-05-2006, 15:50
I think that these two will be enough for me for a while!! If we get another girl we may decide to have another once these chikens reach school age and try our luck for a boy, then we would call it quits regardless of three girls or two girls and a boy. At the moment I dont think I can imagine another one, our house is too small!!!:p

Milliner
06-06-2006, 15:42
I always said 1 would be enough also but now that he is here (even if he is a grumpy baby) he is so cute I could have 3 more I hope to try in jan 07 for #2.

LittleBoysRock
06-06-2006, 16:49
I would like a max of 2. DH would like 3....or more. He is trying to bribe me with a car...

mum2bubba
11-06-2006, 18:54
We want 2 at the most, even if we were millionaires we'd still go with just 2, we are currently ttc for our second so fingers crossed it happens real soon.

FourAngelKisses
11-06-2006, 19:20
just the ONE!

Can I ask why just one?

sshellzp
12-06-2006, 02:15
I want at least 3. Would like more but dont think its practical. lol.

Rainbowbrite
12-06-2006, 08:38
just the ONE!

I'm with you :yes:

We only ever wanted a little girl, & we got her first try. It may sound silly but i dont think i could love another bub as much as i love MJ. Even DH misses out because MJ takes up all my time, love & affection. That & DH doesnt want anymore. He'd quite happily go get a vasectomy tomorrow if I'd let him.

BUT if another bub decides to join our family then who am i to complain. I'm sure i'd manage. I just hope that if a second addition does occur its when MJ is atleast 4-5 years old.

mum2bubba
12-06-2006, 16:18
We want 2, we are ttc for another, I would prefer another girl but if its a boy thats ok too as long as he/she is happy and healthy. ;)

Clesthaven
12-06-2006, 23:44
:yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: I hope to get to 4. We have a 16 month old daughter, Jessica, and a second baby due on her 2nd birthday on the 16-2-07. We want to have a third when they are about 6 and 4 and then our fourth and last when the first three are 9, 7 and 3. We have already planned it out - not that things ever go to plan!!!!

SassyMummy
13-06-2006, 01:32
I am planning on TTC in mid 2008...when DD is about 3. I don't want two babies...a baby and a toddler/pre-schooler is a much better idea for me (I think I would have a mental breakdown otherwise!).

If the 2nd bub turns out to be a boy, then I'll probably stop at that. If it's a girl, I'd try once more for a boy. I don't mind ending up with 3 girls...but there's no way I want more than 1 son (hate the fighting!).

OceBel
13-06-2006, 13:10
i want 2, i already have a daughter, a son would be nice and my family would be complete. plans for next year in april may.

JATS
13-06-2006, 13:13
could we add a poll here?

we want 4-6

Niki
14-06-2006, 17:32
id like 2 or 3 close in age id like to ttc about the end of the yr just gotta convince df

Milliner
28-06-2006, 12:46
I want 3 or 4!!! I wasn't to keen on more than 2 but when I had my DS I changed my mind!!!

chameleon
29-06-2006, 16:07
I'd like 3 or 4. We want to start trying when DD is about 14 months, so they are around 2 years apart. My husband really wants a boy next, but I think we'll probably have another girl.

-The Daddy- 19
-The Mummy- 18
-The Princess- 5 months :p

mumma_jessy
04-07-2006, 23:06
I always wanted 3, i just have to convince DP to have another one!
I guess we have one of each so if i don't get the last one it won't be so bad!
(Don't mind me i'm trying to look on the bright side, just incase!)

Garysobers
04-07-2006, 23:35
me and the wife would like to have about 10kids because we come from big families but we are happy so far but we will except what we have
anyone who who can have one child is blessed:)

Kari_Adel
24-07-2006, 01:01
:rolleyes: Hmmm.. how many? Well, I only have the one at the moment - DS Jake, but no plans (nor donors haha) for any more babies in the near future -- although :o I must admit my maternal urges are screaming! *sob*

Three would be nice, enough for a large family (and also means two more on the way, one day :fingerscrossed: ) but not enough to have to upgrade to a "mansion" and a incredibly expensive-to-run people-mover! Sounds logical.. doesn't it?

And hooray for those super-mums and dads raising HUGE tribes.. I spotted a family of 8 and 10 if I'm not mistaken.. cripes!!!!!!!!!!!! :eek:

jaydensmum
27-07-2006, 15:46
I would love to have 4 but DH isnt so keen about it. Ive always wanted a big family! With having the next one i dont think it will be for a few years, as i have just given birth to my 2nd 3 wks ago!! :yes: :smiliedance:

jaydensmum

kymmy
27-07-2006, 16:42
I plan to have a five year gap next time.
I need a break to look after myself - if that is selfish - then I am selfish - so be it.

FourAngelKisses
10-08-2006, 08:40
Nothing wrong with 4 kids. :)

SamanthaJane
10-08-2006, 22:29
I want 3 or 4. Dp wants 2. But i will change his mind :D

~EmsMum~
10-08-2006, 22:34
since my last post, id probably like to have just one more :)

Melo
10-08-2006, 22:36
Only 2 for us! :D. Regardless of what sex this next one is, I think our family will be complete! :smiliedance:

Xavier's Mumma
10-08-2006, 22:54
I always wanted 5 kids up until 4 years ago when i was diagnosed with Multipile Sclerosis at 20, so now i would love just 1 then maybe another after that,
I did get a psychic reading last week and the lady told me i would have more then 5 kids :laughing: :laughing:
so we will see what happenes, gotta have one first

Karizma
10-08-2006, 23:01
I always wanted to have 4. Two boys and 2 girls. But I have 2 boys and I am really undecided on wether I want more. Leaning more towards no more though :D

LilShenanigans
11-08-2006, 01:04
I'll take 3... The next two I want after I'm married! Don't worry, am working on it ;) lol

mysteeq
13-08-2006, 08:51
I already have i DD whos 7 and would love about 3 more so 4 all up DP would love a big family so more maybe but will see.