Just need to get it off my chest

[kirikasmum]

Well DH has just left for another 4 weeks out on the farm and i feel ****. I wish that i could get over his leaving every time he goes out there i cry and it is so hard not to do it in front of the kids. I know that this will be going on for many months until the extensions are done on the house on the farm so the rest of us can move out there too, and that i just need to get over it. I'll start to cope better in a few hours when i get into my auto mode but still i just needed to do something to try and make myself feel better till then. Sorry.

Romana

How does everyone else deal with there partners going away?

[maisymum]

Hello Kirikasmum :flowerz: i do know how you feel.....my hubby is flying out today again for 3 weeks and it never gets any easier kids get upset but we do try and make the time go quick as in crossing off each day on the calender. hope you feel better soon :flowerz:

[kirikasmum]

Thanks heaps i am sorry to hear that you have to go through it as well.:hugs:

I think it is a bit harder this time as it is the longest time he would have been away yet. I suppose that i could take the kids out there for a few days again later in the month but it is over 600km away and for a 9mth old and a nearly 4yr old that is a long way. Also little boy has not slept well in nearly 2 mths and that certainly does not help. But hopefully we can get on top of that.