Preg with Twins & miserable

[Mara]

Hi, I'm new here and thought I'd take a punt and leave a message.

I live in Melbourne and am pregnant for the second time... with twins!!

at 25 weeks, I still have morning sickness 24/7. I expect it to last the 9 mths as that's what it was like with my DD (now 5.5).

I am experiencing terrible hip and back aches, which hamper my movements and especially my sleep.

Having regular dizzy spells and even passing out, so rarely leave the house.

Diagnosed with Pre-natal depression (do you blame a woman for being depressed).

Just wondering if there are any other mums that have found pregnancy hard. Because at this point I dream of having these babies as early as possible for my sanity. And feel very guilty for having these feelings. I'm just so sick of feeling sick!!

I have a supportive family and husband, but they can't seem to pick me up.

Just looking for some support and friendship along this looooong miserable journey.

**HUGS** to you all, especially the pregnant ones.

Mara

[♥Heaven Sent♥]

Hi Mara,
First of all congratulations on your pregnancy and welcome to bubhub i hope you enjoy it here and get some much needed support.I do know what it is like in my first pregnancy i was really sick too and it felt like once one thing went another came.I had gall stones while pregnant which caused alot of problems and i also developed PE among a few other things so :hugs: to you and hope you are feeling better soon.So when are you due im pregnant with a little boy and due on 15th July.

[SuperWoman]

Hi there:wave: :wave: !! Congrats on your pregnancy!!!!

You will find alot of support here!!!!!:hugs: :hugs:

[BiNdI86]

:hugs: I hope you find the help and support you need!! We are all here to help as much as we can. :hugs:

Hope you're pregnancy improves!!

[CJJHRA]

I just wanted to say hello and welcome.

I feel for you on having a twin pregnancy, I was so achy and tired and just wanted it over by time I reached 25 weeks! But thankfully I never had morning sickness, you poor thing
By tme I got to 32 weeks, and knew survival rate after 32 weeks was like way over 90%, I wanted to beg for an induction! (sorry not what you want to hear really is it) I got to 37 weeks, and had to be induced as they were happy to stay put, but my OB didnt like twins going past 37 weeks.

I would be rather concerned about the dizzy spells, even more so the actual passing out, but I do recal I got dizzy very often, like I wanted to pass out, but never got to that stage. Low iron contribuited to that, but I had even lower iron levels with my DD and never got as dizzy. I mentioned it to the Dr, but blood pressure, etc was always fine, so I was told to take it easy, and get up reall slow, and not to stand to long either.

phew, what a long post.

Anyway, hope that you enjoy it here and can get some support.

Chin up, you're over half way there, take one day at a time.

[LizzieLou]

I'm glad you have found this forum and welcome to you :hugs:
I can't imagine how you are feeling at the moment but encourage you to jump on board this website when ever you can, to give you some extra support.

Keep focussing on the end goal...your beautiful babies who seems to be needing all of your extra goodness...leaving you with very little at the moment.

You'll find lots of friends in BubHub :smiliedance:

[Fairyfloss]

congratulations on your pregnancy
I am sorry you are not feeling so good these days, I am preggy with my first one, and still have :barf: , I can not even imagine what you must be going through,

check the melbourne tread, we have regular meet ups in melbourne, I hope to see you in one of the meetings, for now, here is a cyber :hugs: , and take care.

use this web site you will have lots of great advice in here

[p4purple]

Oh I have no idea how you are feeling but I really feel for you, you poor thing. It must be a very hard thing to go through but at least you are being true to your feelings and expressing yourself. The love you have from your family will get you through this.... that is what family is for.

[Hokey Pokey]

Hey there and welcome.
I suffer from Depression and anxiety so feel free to PM if you want to chat sometime!
Chin up hun
xx

[Cinta]

Hi there Mara and welcome to bubhub!

I really hope your pregnancy starts becoming more enjoyable very soon. Im sorry to hear that you are a little depressed. Chin up darl, you have taken the right step in coming here and introducing yourself, we are all here for you if you need to chat.

I had pretty bad morning sickness, probably not as bad as yours but i still know how miserable it can make you feel.

Your having TWINS!! Congratulations!! Girl your PREGNANT this should be a happy time in your life! Keep holding your head up high. Don't worry you'll get through this difficult time.

Sending love and big :hugs: your way.

If you need to chat PM me.

Luv Cinta