Getting Back on the horse!!

[tlsmum2b]

Hi Ladies,

Maybe TMI for some, but just wondering how long it will take to get back to normal in the BEDROOM!!

I had a c/s so just wondering how others went with their recovery and when the sex was remotely back to normal. I still feel a bit numb above my scar.

When i was in the last stages of Pregnancy i could not wait for my little bubs to come out so i could do the deed without a big belly in the way, now there is no belly, but tummy is still not right! Feel soooo sorry for my poor DH too, i bet he wants me back in action too :laughing:

[Melmc]

Hey, I had a C/S too and my scra is still numb. DH and I have just got 'back on the horse' in the last 2 weeks. Felt the same but I found it hard to relax with the baby in the house...maybe that's just me!

[ellie13]

Sorry can't say as I am still bleeding since having the c-sec so there is no action yet-poor DH we were not allowed cause of complications from 11 weeks of pregnancy-lol.

But I agree also with Melmc- I haven't even felt like it as with bub- I find it hard to switch from mum to lover..... I just feel like my body is functional atm- not for pleasure- but I guess we will see once it actually comes to it.

[tiggermamma]

Not there yet and a v-birth! Still recovering and getting used to having a baby in the house. I keep thinking he will wake all the time and am too distracted. DP will just have to wait a bit.

[Lahri]

Hi

Not there yet either and I had a v-birth. I am still having a tiny bit of discharge since the birth so dh said to wait a little longer. Maddison is 5 weeks old tomorrow so hopefully we can again soon.

My dh has been great and I can still "please" him and I know he is happy with that. We have our little princess so he is over the moon.

[Amira]

We've done the deed a few times in the last week but its by no means normal :o Mainly we do it in the middle of the night when Gab's sound asleep and Lachlan's having his bigger sleep so i dont need to worry about him.

I also had a v-birth but i had a 9pound bubba :eek: so things are still taking their toll a little if you know what i mean.

Just take your time and try not to rush or put any pressure on yourself. It will happen when its right for you.

[tlsmum2b]

Thanks so much for your replies. My bleeding stopped after 3 weeks so i was lucky with that. Things have gotten better each week, still by no means as comfortable as pre-baby yet though have to be very gentle :yes:
Maybe i am getting the pains of v-birth & numbness from c/s as I went into spontanious labour, but ended up having an emerg c/s.
Having bubs in the house has not worried me, just have to wait till she is sleeping!!!!
Ellie13 - you poor thing, a whole 6+ months with no doing the deed, how did you both cope!! Hope you are back to normal soon :)
Everyone else with bub in the house worries, relax, they dont know what your doing and that is how they got here in the first place!!!