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I dont know if this is the right place to post this but l am not sure where else to post it.
This will be the last time l will post on here for sometime as l lost my baby yesterday.
I was trying to be good house wife and do some cleaning and thinking the top of the fridge is dirty and thought it needed to be cleaned so with out thinking probably l pulled a chair out and from the table and there l went started cleaning away when l l over balanced and feel off the chair and with hands out the front l fell on my stomach and felt alittl ebit winded and thought l will be ok l dont feel sore but 10 min later l started getting serve pain in my stomach and looked down and saw blood coming out l rang the ambulance and they were at the house within 10 mins to me it felt like a life time, l got to the hospital and l knew straight away that l had lost my baby, l gave birth to a little baby girl after being told we were having a boy our baby was so tiny and everything looked perfect but the doc said her little body would never be able to survive has her body has not formed for the open air, so l thank everyone on bub hub for the surport when l was pregnant and l wish all the mums and mums to be all the best..
Allie:crying: :crying: :crying:
What a terrible thing to happen.
Oh, Ally, I am so sorry for your loss. May your angel find his/her way back to you again.:hugs: :hugs:
Oh Allie I'm SO sorry. What a terrible thing to happen. I can't even imagine how hard, after all you've been through already :crying: :hugs:
l was 21 weeks and 4 days and we named the baby Lilie Ruth..
Allie that is so sad for you :hugs: I am so sorry, I can't imagine what you are going though.:crying:
I'm so sorry. My heart goes out to you.
Alllie big hugs you and your dh. I am so deeply sorry this has happened and you lost your precious girl. What a beautiful name you have chosen. Sending my best wishes to you and your family:crying:
Oh Allie, I am sorry for your loss, my heart goes out to you and your family.
Allie - I am so sorry for your loss. What a heartbreaking time for you.
I am thinking of you and your family.
:crying: Oh Allie I am so terribly sorry, what an awful thing for you to through. What a beautiful name. You & your husband will be in my thoughts & prayers constantly. I have no other words............................
Allie, I am so terribly sorry for your loss, I dont know what to say, I cant imagine what you are going through and how devastated you must be. I am sure Lillie Ruth is watching over you. Take care of yourself, and dont forget we are all here for you if you need to talk:hugs:
So sorry for your loss. Lily is a very beautiful name :hugs: :hugs: :hugs:
Allie, I'm so sorry :crying: please take good care of yourself. :hugs:
Oh Allie so sorry for your tragic loss. Lillie Ruth another precious star in the sky, my heart goes out to you and your DH:hugs: :hugs: :hugs:
Oh that is really sad for you. :crying: I am sending you lots of :hugs:
If you want to talk with someone who has had a similar experience pm me. :crying: I lost our little girl at 19 weeks last year with the same answer, too little to help.
Im so sorry to hear about your loss :hugs:. Just know we're thinking of you.
Oh Allie, Im so sorry to hear of your loss. :crying: Big hugs to you and your family. :hugs:
Allie,I'm so very sorry for your loss,take care :hugs: :hugs:
No words could express how very sorry we are for you and your hubby :hugs:
Aww I am so sorry :kiss: :hugs: Big hugs & kisses from me!! I wish you all thes best in the future!
i am so very sorry to hear your news. Take care and God Bless all of you xxx:hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs:
I'm so sorry. My thoughts are with you and your husband:hugs: .
Allie, hugs to you. I am very very sorry for your loss.
Your angel is watching over you.
Allie, I'm so sorry to hear your loss :(
Allie- Honey my god I had been wondering what had happened!!! I tried calling you but obviously you didnt have your phone on you...
Im so so so sorry:crying:
I odnt know what to say to help you but you know that Im here at any time if you need to talk!!
:hugs: Ill be online all day so we can chat later.... again Im so sorry
Nothing anyone can say can make you feel better, but please know we are all thinking of you & wishing you well, :hugs:
Im terribly sorry to hear of the loss of your beautiful daughter. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Please take the time to grieve and to look after yourself.
My heart goes out to you and I have shed some tears for you too :crying: :crying:
Know that your little precious angel Lilly is watching you from heaven above and always will.
Oh Allie, what a very sad time for you and hubby. Your cherub will find her way back to you one day. Our prayers are with you both. :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs:
Allie, so sorry to hear about your dreadful loss, how awful, please take care of yourself.
we are so sorry to hear of your loss......j,jand j
Allie what an awful thing to have happened...so very sorry to hear of your loss. Take care :hugs:
I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. Be kind to yourself.
I can't help but cry some tears for you. I am sorry for your loss and wish only happiness for you in the future. If you need some help seek some counselling. It's hard to know what to say, I feel for you.:crying: :crying:
omg hun, I am so sorry this has happened to you :hugs:
You are in all our thoughts.
Look after yourself and please don't hesitate to come here and talk to us, we all care so much about you.
No words can explain the way I felt when I read your thread...No words I speak will make you feel better.....:hugs: Thinking of you and your family...:hugs:
Oh Allie:hugs: to you and your family.
I believe all things happen for a reason, sometimes it is hard to see why but hopefully you can get past this. I know the pain will never go away but it makes you stronger in the end. I lost 2 babies and you never forget but it does get better.
Don't feel you have to leave bubhub just because you are no longer pg.
There are plenty of us that can still offer support and friendship.
Big Big :hugs: .
And a lovely name you picked for your angel too.
Chin up and if you need to talk you can pm me.
Oh Allie im soo sorry for your loss!! :hugs: May God be with you during this hard time. :hugs:
Allie - it's so sad to hear that you're going through this. Such a terrible accident to happen, and it could happen to anyone. So sorry that it was you.
Remember, you'll always be her mother, even if you can't "mother" her.
:hugs: :crying: :hugs: :crying:
Im so deeply sorry for you.:hugs: :hugs: My heart goes out to you and your family. Im so sorry you have to go through this.:hugs: :hugs:
Bee and boys
To Allie my sweet, I cannot find the words to take away your pain I am so terriblly sorry for your loss of your little angel Lilie. You make sure you try your best to keep strong and remember that this was a sad accident. You. your angel and Hubby are in our hearts and thoughts. You know I will see you within the next few days take care my hunny and hold your head up high. Forever your daughter will be a star shining in the sky. xoxoxoxox:hugs:
allie, My heart goes out to you and your family at this difficult time
please dont feel like you cant come on here any more...
we are such a great support network!
and what a beautiful name you picked for your beautiful angel!
:hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs:
All I can do is send you big :hugs:
I feel so bad that you had to experience this.....
Allie I am so sorry about your loss.. We are all here with a never ending box of Kleenex if you need to talk... :hugs:
What can i say :crying:
Please take care and hope you feel that you can come back to us very soon :hugs:
Fly free little one
Allie, I'm so sorry. My heart goes out to you. Lots of :hugs: :hugs: to you and ur hubby.:hugs: :hugs:
I am sooo sorry for your loss of your little girl, If you ever need to talk please feel free to PM me... Please take care and know we are thinking of you:kiss: :hugs: :kiss: :hugs:
I am so sorry for your heartbreaking loss, no words could ever provide comfort to you in this time but please know that we are here, when & if you should need us.
Big :hugs: to you & your DH.
Im so sorry for the loss of your baby, reading over your posts its clear to see that you have endured a lot of tragedy in your life, I understand that nothing could lessen your pain!
I wish you all the best for the future.
Sooooo sorry.......how horrible. thinking of you :hugs:
Allie, I am so sorry for your loss. You have given your angel such a beautiful name.
My thoughts are with you, your DH and dear little Lilie
xxxx oooo xxxx
Allie i cant even begin to imagine how you would be feeling. I am so so sorry to hear about this. Big :hugs: to you and your hubby.
I will be thinking of you at this difficult time
I am soooo sorry for your loss...it looks like you have lots of friends here...please use them when you feel ready. :hugs:
I'm so sorry for your loss. :hugs: to you and your hubby.
allie, i wish i knew what to say, but people who read this will be carrying you and your heartbreak around in their thoughts long after they've logged off bubhub. the road ahead will be hard but hopefully we can all carry you some of the way.........take care.
:hugs: :hugs: :hugs:
Nothing I say can make it better- please just know my thoughts are with you.
Allie, I am deeply saddened by you bad news and hope you and your family have the strength to move through each day. Your angel has a beautiful name, just like my angel; Lilly May. Support is always here even though no one will ever have the words to truly heal the hurt of all hurts.
Much love xxxx
I am so sorry for your loss Ally, I know no words could make you feel better right now but know we are here for you :hugs:
Just wanted to give you some hugs :hugs:
Am thinking of you and your little angel :hugs:
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. No words can express my feelings of sadness for you and your family. I hope your angel Lilie Ruth can find her way back to you. She will always be in your heart.
My thoughts are with you.
I'm so sorry. My heart goes out to you.:hugs:
Allie, I'm so sorry for your great loss :gloomy: I don't know how you must be feeling now, but whatever you do, don't blame yourself, you aren't the only one to stand on chairs to reach heights whilst pregnant, I am guilty too, I have been lucky is all and don't think I will do it anymore (your right, it is something one just doesn't really think about).
Take care of yourself and take the time to heal your broken heart :hugs: :hugs:
Allie, I am so sorry for your loss, my heart goes out to you and your family.:hugs: :hugs:
I am so sorry to hear of your loss, sending big hugs your way :hugs:
:hugs: my heart goes out to you, im sorry...
just know you have a little guardian angel now
Sorry for your loss:crying:
My prayers are will u at this sad time. The most important thing to remember is not to blame yourself :shame:
I hope that u will come through this ordeal a stonger woman.:fingerscrossed:
My Miracle Baby
Allie, sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers. You dont have to leave Bub Hub, everyone is here for you. Lots of kisses and hugs :hugs: :kiss: ,
Allie I'm so sorry for your loss.
Big hugs to you and your DH :hugs: :hugs:
Really sorry to hear! Hugs n kisses! :crying:
Sending you strength, love & support... at this sad time.
Allie :hugs: to you and your DP, i'm so sorry to hear about your loss, unfortunatly there are no words that I can say to take away your pain, if you need to chat about anything feel free too, don't keep your feelings inside, give yourself time to greive, your wee angel will always be with you and watching over you. Take care of yourself Allie
My deepest sympathy, take the time you need to grieve. I'm not being pushy, maybe SANDS QLD can be of some support to you. They were and continue to be for me. :(
Allie I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Im so so sorry for your loss take comfort in knowing that your precious little angle is always with you, big :hugs: to you and your DH
Allie, am very sorry to hear about your loss, how awful, please take care of yourself. Will remember you and your family in my prayers. :hugs:
Oh Allie, I'm so sorry,
I've read the whole thread & all of these lovely people are really supporting you and thinking of you. I am thinking of you too and as a person of faith (Christian) I am including you in my prayers and will ask the ladies in my mothers group to also pray for the healing of you & your partner and that there may be some peace in your heart. This is very sad and I understand that you must go away to grieve.:gloomy: that's a natural thing. I know that you've been through a lot.
If you have any specific prayer requests please pm me as we are more than happy to do this wholeheartedly.
Allie to have come so far, that is terrible devastating news, you poor thing. I don't know what to say but I am so sorry for your loss.
:crying: Im so sorry Allie:crying:
I really feel for you....
so sorry to hear of your loss:hugs:
i will keep you and your little one in my prayers. please take very good care of yourself sweetie, and make sure to allow yourself to grieve this loss. :crying:
wa mum of 4
Oh you poor thing, I can't begin to imagin what you are going through.
Thoughts and prayers are with you.:crying:
I'm really sorry that you had to experience the trauma that you have been thru. But i am a strong believer that children, adults.. we are here to learn a lesson and when that lesson is learnt, we move on. Some people say it wasnt their time, but when it is their time, they go. You might be wondering what lesson your little angel learnt, when she didnt have a second on earth, maybe it was the lesson of love, the way you though of her, while she was inside you.. I believe it is natures way of taking care of something that wasnt meant to be, And it is horrible that people have to go thru this, but what doesnt break us, makes us stronger, Nothing anyone can say will take that pain away, and you will grieve, and you will survive and it will make u stronger, my thoughts are with you.:hugs:
"A precious flower, lent not given, to bud on earth and bloom in heaven"
My thoughts and prayers are with you always, I lost my son, one of twins at 10weeks old after a very complicated pregnancy and birth on 15 April this year and truely understand.
Oh Allie, I'm so very sorry for your loss, Hugs go out to you and your family! I was so sad to read what had happend all the best goes out to you and your family for the future! :hugs:
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My heart goes out to you.:hugs:
big kisses and hugs to you,:hugs: :kiss:
May little lilly rest in peace and be with the angels.
im so sorry for your loss.:crying:
oh Ally, i'm so sorry! My family is thinking of you and praying for you.:hugs: :hugs:
Given that the original poster has not returned since her poast on 27 April I will close this thread. I am sure that if she does return in the future she will be heartened to read the support she has received in her absence.
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