How do you get past the feeling?

[SurpriseBubba]

I cannot seem to shake the feeling today that there is something wrong with my baby.

Everything has gone well this pregnancy.... but I am coming up to my 12 week scan.... which is happening to reassure me and because the last sonographer stuffed up the scan so I still don't have a proper due date yet.

It is getting done at the same place where I found out I lost my angel baby....almost the same time of day and everything.

The scan is next Monday and it is SO far away.... I am dead set terrified of walking in there and getting another horrible sonograpaher who won't let me see my baby. Seeing it lying there lifeless and having the sonographer make a joke out of what No FHB means.:(

I am petrified. I just can't move past the feeling there is going to be something wrong with it.

How do you get past this feeling?:gloomy:

[RoarsomeMum]

:hugs::hugs: Im not sure you do.. Sending +++++++ Thoughts to you and your precious bubba.. who, I hope you see clearly at the scan.. I would tell teh sonographer your anxious to make sure you get a good look.. I was crying in the waiting room before my 12 week scan.. like u positive something would be wrong.. hope and trust are hard to hold after a loss.. :hugs: Give yourself a break and stroke bubba.. I can be very relaxing for both of u

[Izy]

Just wanted to send you a :hugs: and positive sticky vibes.

I think I might be the same when we finally get to fall pregnant again.

[Missus S]

I completely understand how you are feeling.

I was exactly the same and once got squeezed into my OB for urgent visit fearing the worst..................but right now I've got my little boy in my arms happy & healthy :bee:

I think it's natural to feel panicked considering what we've been through before.............you'll be fine :hugs: