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Briannabear
21-04-2006, 10:41
Im so frustrated right now!! I hope you dont mind but I really need to vent!

Our next door neighbour is semi-retired and has far too much time on his hands. He's forever doing little bits and peices in his yard etc to keep himself occupied.
One of his 'hobbies' (dare I say) is to spray his house for pests. He does it once a month, or every 2 months or so. :mad: The fumes are always overpowering and constantly waft into our house. (not to mention they waft right into our baby's bedroom :thumbsdown: )

I try to be very consious (sp?) of what chemicals are used in our home (particularly since becoming pregnant again - and the fact that we have a toddler that puts things in her mouth). Anytime we've had pest sprays done we get a professional to do it and use a guy who uses quite natural alternatives.

He is spraying his house again today. Luckily my DH came home for 10 mins so I asked him to go over and have a chat with the next door neighbour.
The other thing thats annoying me is that all my washing is on the line, which is right next to the fence. All our clothes and towels will smell.
Apparently the stuff he uses is super strong. If it crawls or flies it will kill it for sure. DH asked him if he ever wears a mask and he just looks at him and says 'no!'. Anyway, DH asked him to let us know next time he plans on doing it so we can close off that side of our house (esp. the baby's room), and because Im pregnant so the fumes are really bad. He agreed but who knows if he actually will tell us.....

Are we over-reacting? Or am I right to not want those sort of chemicals around my family?

Ange&Seth
21-04-2006, 10:50
you're right in that you should have some control over it and that he should respect the fact that what he is doing is upsetting you. It's good that DH spoke to him though and it sounds like it was all very calm. He probably didn't even think about it being a problem for you, but now hopefully he'll let you know when he's going to do it next time.

Our neighbours are good like this, if they're going to mow their lawn and we've got washing on the line, they knock on the door and let us know so the washing doesn't get all dusty and yuck!

:fingerscrossed: for you Chic

MumsieMel
21-04-2006, 10:53
You are right to be annoyed,

But maybe he never thought about it before.

Hope he tells you next time.

sugar n spice
21-04-2006, 10:54
No you have every right to be upset, he could at least spray with something milder or natural. It is just common courtesy to tell your neighbours when you are going to spray just like if you were to burn off in your backyard. Gees i hate it when people do that and all the washing ends up reeking and needs to be redone all over again:banghead: When will people learn common courtesy:shame:

Briannabear
21-04-2006, 10:57
Thanks guys :hugs: .
We'll give him the benefit of the doubt and hopefully he does the right thing next time.