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zedilucy
26-06-2008, 21:59
Where do I start! My partner and I have been going through IVF for 5 years now and feel empty and confused. I am in a same sex relationship with my long term partner. I am 39 years old and my partner 43. I have a son 12 year old whom I conceived with my previous male partner of 10 years. We starting IVF and have been through a very difficult time, I always thought if it did not work for my partner I would step in and have another child. Well after 10 transfers, 3 miscarriages including a cervical pregnancy that left my partner in intensive care for 10 days clinging to her life I decided I would donate my eggs to discover I had ovarian cancer. I don't know really what else to say, I would love to adopt, as I was adopted and have loving parents but we are not considered under our state laws.

We are asking for a a generous young women to please help us. We have been told that my partners health is great and she is able to carry a baby but her eggs are just too old.

Please, please consider!! Thank you for reading our story from Adelaide

milo68
27-06-2008, 21:45
Hello, I just wanted to wish you luck in your journeyto find help. What a scary thing to discover. I hope you are well now. No wonder you are feeling empty and confused. Please come here for support and friendship. The women on this thread are beautiful. Take care, Milo

zedilucy
28-06-2008, 10:04
Thank you so much for your support, we have just finished another IVF cycle and it has been unsuccessful. We have in the past felt so isolated not being able to discuss what we are going through with friends but it is very comforting reading on this forum as alot of these experiences and feelings people are going through are similar to ours. Again thank you:yelclap:

ACT1
28-06-2008, 10:09
Until you've experienced that longing for a child and find that it's out of your reach because biology isn't on your side, it's hard to comprehend how painful it can be.

Good luck in your search. I hope we all have our own ED angels find us soon.

milo68
29-06-2008, 20:27
I agree with you both. The feelings of isolation can be overwhelming at times. It is so important to share our fears and hopes and to support each other in this journey.
Hope everyones weekend was peaceful and fun.
Cheers, Milo

hunnybunny
29-06-2008, 20:31
Just wanted to say best of luck to you, I know how the longing feels, we have had 6 years of TTC and are in our first IVF cycle.

I truly hope you find an angel to give you such an amazing gift.

hellolu
03-07-2008, 18:33
hope your dreams come true Zedilucy and that this forum enables you to find the support (and eggs!!) you need to complete your family.

L.x
(another lucy)

zedilucy
06-07-2008, 15:56
Thank you to everyone that has replied to my post, I appreciate all of your support

:flowerz:KB