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chicka
20-06-2008, 09:00
Ok, so I'm married with 3 children, 4, 3 and 1. Two boys and my beautiful girl at the end. We didn't plan on having any nore babies and have been taking pill. Now, I think I might be pregnant again....did a test and come up v faint line one test and negative with another brand. :confused:Just about to return to work in next month from last baby, and worried about money etc. Problem is of course, having difficulty thinking about termination but another child was not in the plans? Husband doesn't mind either way but I will probably have to give up work and then money could be huge issue. Can anyone enlighten me please who has been in this situation or who has 4th child. Thanks

mumofsix
20-06-2008, 11:29
HI. We went for number four and got five and six as well! Now have 9yr. 6yr, 4yr and 1yr old triplets. Was unbelievable!! I didnt want six kids!! But u know after the shock, i believe that, that was what was meant to be. I truley believe things happen for a reason, even if sometimes we dont c it. I am sure u will feel it inside what the right decision is for you and your family! :)

forbetoel
20-06-2008, 11:31
I have 4 children and they are my whole world. Not for a second do I wish one away for more money. They are worth every cent and more.

I have 4 beautiful boys.

madjedjjlill
20-06-2008, 11:46
things have a way of working out. I Have 4 beautifull kids (13 11 8 8 ) an thought my family was complete. then came a divorce and a fab new man who loves my kids but wanted one of his own so now at 37 i have a 6 month old baby boy an thinking of having baby # 6