Mixed feeling here ..

[IAdoreYou]

I do want another baby. though, I'm having mixed feeling now. I feel bad that I'm having MIXED feelings *tears*

I don't think I'm really that clucky at all , I think I "think" I should be clucky .. does that sense.

Cause we did fertility drugs and IUI get brooke and me turning 30 this year .. I feel like we should do it all again ASAP so it happens ..

though, I'm starting to not really want a big belly just yet again .. I'm even thinking when Brooke turns 2 will DO ME. Brooke is just getting so busy and active I don't really want another baby now yet.

why am I feeling quilty then? whoa .. mixed feelings here.

I think I'm gonna hold off until I start getting true true clucky feelings again .. and just go from there even if it means doing iui again ..

anybody else felt his way, just confused.

[Briannabear]

Only you and your partner can determine when the 'right' time is for you to try for another baby.
You arent alone feeling the way you do. Babies are so consuming that it can be hard to imagine what it would be like to have another baby to look after! It can be a really daunting thought!
I felt like that too, but one day my thoughts just changed and we decided it was the right time for us. I became very clucky again! (Only time will tell how well we cope I guess! Im sure we'll be fine though)
Good luck with whatever you choose to do - and Im sure it will be the right decision for you and your family! :thumbsup:

[IAdoreYou]

thanks Becca.
Yep, I think I'm just gonna have to wait until we get that " its time" feeling .. I think I'm just scared I won't really get it again .. silly :rolleyes:

[Briannabear]

You'll 'know' when its time - and Im sure you will get that feeling again!
Just the thought of that new baby smell and feel sends me to mush now!

[maybe1more]

Lisa- dont feel bad darl, your just being honest with yourself! Trust me you will know when you get clucky again:D Its totally fine not to feel clucky just yet, as at the moment you are just content with your little girl and there is nothing wrong with that. Enjoy the time you have with her and maybe re think this over again in another 6 months, your still a spring chicken, and even if you waited another year you would probably be 32 when you had the next baby. My children will be 3 years and 3 months apart and althought im stoked to be pregant i tryed to have them closer together but nature decided otherwise:rolleyes: so maybe i wasnt ready. Its really great thought how your really thinking this though, by the way your thinking, i know you`ll pick the "right time" :hugs:

[Cade's Mum]

Hey Lisa,

Don't feel bad at all personally I think that is normal that you are feeling this way as you are having a busy time with your little girl especially at the age of two years old.

I applaud other women who can go through pregnancy with a toddler - I couldn't.

DH and I even firmly agreed that we wouldn't have anymore children and I was very UNclucky.

I just started feeling clucky and really wanting another one after 4.5 years, and I truly feel now is the right time. DH agrees. I am glad I didn't try earlier as I think I just would have driven myself into the ground and I wouldn't have been happy.

Enjoy what you have now and relax - you will change your mind sooo many times but you will know when or even if there is a right time for you. :hugs:

[IAdoreYou]

hey, thanks girls ... when the time is right it will be right ... I am just content right now and busy .. gonna just take week by week .. thanks again ;)