Emi
12-06-2008, 13:28
okay... so i need some help... again!!!
or jsut to talk to someone and i thought here would be a good spot...
i dont want to get into the whole story here... or again... so ill try and be brief...
i have a 12 week old daughter... i live with my paretns and sisters... my dp visits as much as he can, and we usually alternate whose house we're at on the weekends... which has worked well...
anyway... lately ive been very stressed out... i dd has been very unsettled and not sleeping... so i havnt been sleeping either... im stressed tired and exhausted...
i know that new mothers are like this tho... so i dont want to be complaining or nething...
but lately i have been arguing you could say with dp, coz i want him to help a bit more with nappy changing baths etc when he's over... and its always such a chore for him... he makesme do every 2nd one when hes here, or im at his... well i tried explaining to him that this is what i do every day and night during the week, and that i needed some more help and support from him...
its not easy living apart... and sometimes i jsut wished we lived together... but then i think that will that actualy change nething? or will i be doing more work?
dp doent work, hes studying... ive been at him to get a job for awhile... but he says he cant coz hes studying and has a baby...
he's paying child support too... which i have no idea where he's geting the money from...
he usually pays late too...
anyway hes meant to be paying this week... havnt heard nething about it... and i want to ask him about it... coz i need to buy dd things... nappies etc...
but last night i got a msg from him saying that his dad kicked him out of the house!!! so now im even more stressed out! things are just getting harder and harder... and i dont know hoe to deal with it all anymore!!!
i need some advice please! or some help..
or jsut to talk to someone and i thought here would be a good spot...
i dont want to get into the whole story here... or again... so ill try and be brief...
i have a 12 week old daughter... i live with my paretns and sisters... my dp visits as much as he can, and we usually alternate whose house we're at on the weekends... which has worked well...
anyway... lately ive been very stressed out... i dd has been very unsettled and not sleeping... so i havnt been sleeping either... im stressed tired and exhausted...
i know that new mothers are like this tho... so i dont want to be complaining or nething...
but lately i have been arguing you could say with dp, coz i want him to help a bit more with nappy changing baths etc when he's over... and its always such a chore for him... he makesme do every 2nd one when hes here, or im at his... well i tried explaining to him that this is what i do every day and night during the week, and that i needed some more help and support from him...
its not easy living apart... and sometimes i jsut wished we lived together... but then i think that will that actualy change nething? or will i be doing more work?
dp doent work, hes studying... ive been at him to get a job for awhile... but he says he cant coz hes studying and has a baby...
he's paying child support too... which i have no idea where he's geting the money from...
he usually pays late too...
anyway hes meant to be paying this week... havnt heard nething about it... and i want to ask him about it... coz i need to buy dd things... nappies etc...
but last night i got a msg from him saying that his dad kicked him out of the house!!! so now im even more stressed out! things are just getting harder and harder... and i dont know hoe to deal with it all anymore!!!
i need some advice please! or some help..