NeeD 2 TaLk 2 Sum1... Im ConFusEd bouT my PreGnaNcy

[bubby_bub]

Hi, im vaN & 19 yrs old. iM exPecting my 1st BubBy in SeptemBer 2005. i live in adelaide so it will b cOol 2 get to know a mum 2 b in adelaide.

:( aniways i jus got these probLems wif my boyfWend....
i knoW ive chanGed due to my PrEgnancy... mood swiNgs right? But my paRtner doesnt Seem to Undastand dis...

ani1 who wanTs 2 talk 2 me bout anIfink or is goiNg through da SaMe plZ feeL free to email on my msn on vannguyen777@msn.com.... :)

[simone7]

Hey Girl

I know exactly what your goin through. Im 21, and my first baby is due in October. My partner doesnt understand me too as i have mood swings due to pregnancy, and yes it can be very hard at times. It's good to know that im not the only one cofused and having problems during pregnancy, just try to keep ya head up and think of your beautiful little baby that will soon be a part of your life. Thats a blessing.

[bubby_bub]

finally theres sum1 that undastands me.... it wuld b realli great if we could transfer emails.... my email is vannguyen777@msn.com..........
feel free 2 mail me anitime....

aniway fanks for replyin 2 my thread... hope 2 hear fwom u soon...
bubby_bub

[lostmum]

Hey guys, i went thru the same thing with my bf when pregnant , to try to help the situation i bought him this book called *so your going to be a dad* not sure who it is written by but its an aussie fella and it puts it all into prospective for them. not just the mood swings but the whole pregnancy as many guys wont admit they really have no idea what is going on. I thought it was a good read as he didnt say the usual guy things like *dont blame the pregnancy and **** like that. he actually says to put up with ur gf's **** cos u put her in this predicment lol. well anyway apart from the book i just sat down with my bf and explained to him that if he sees im in a bad mood just stay away from me it wont b long until i am out of it(about 9 months lol j/k). And try just talking about what is causing the mood swings, when u look at it there is something that usually triggers it and maybe u can help stop them by elimanating that. well hope both of u enjoy the rest of the pregnancies cos it is a great time for u and ur partners :)

[terri]

well what do u do about a father who tells you its your problem cz you chose to keep it ( i dont agree with abortion) and whenever you call trying calmly to talk him his mother tells you to take your ******* child and go away!
i was almost suicidal b-coz of it but then i realised as long as my child loves me it'll be ok but i hated my mum till now for not having any contact with my dad

im 15 f brissy and due nov 29th

[JessandKirra]

There must be some sort of support group out there for you guys. . If you dont have family or partner to talk to and help you along in this joyous occasion, I belive it is healthy just to talk to someone. There are free support groups everywhere, try yellowpages or ask your doctor or chemist, im sure it will make you feel better and more confident. Be strong. Your are about to become the most loved person in the world! by your child.

[Miss_Vicki]

not sure if i can offer advice , BUT warn your bf about the way u feel , tell him u arnt in a good mood an walk away
THats how well deal with it , cause ye si know the moods are uncontroled when preg , BUt really is that a Good enoughf reason for us to scream at out beloved men? they are human to , but yes like the above person states , gettin a book related So you goin to daddy or somethin , ever borrow on from the libary im sure there is some out there
i think when you preg hubby/bf has to give us some slack but at same time we gota be reasonble :D

[Emily's moocow]

hi Terri and everyone else having these problems,

Just remember that little person growing inside of you and look after yourself first. Obviously these males cant take responsibility for their actions but are quite happy to lay the blame all on you. They are not worth the worry they cause. I know you would probably like the father to have something to do with this pregnancy but hes hiding behind his mummys skirt. What a coward!

Anyway I hope your pregnancy is going well and you are enjoying it. Its an amazing journey!

If you want to chat feel free to email me at: mischief1976@westnet.com.au


Teresa
(aka mummy to Emily 9 months, Jacob 3 1/2 and Brock 5 1/2)

[jess09]

hey van im 19 i have a 6month old baby girl . I know what you are goin through with the mood swings and everything but its just all ya hormones changin and trust me once you have this baby u still got them.Having a baby can really trust your relationship with your b/f very much.
jess 19
jessiey_9@hotmail.com ---- if ya waanna chat wid me