Problems with sex? (TMI)

[mixy]

Ok so dont read this if TMI is an issue...

Ok i have to ask this cause i cant be the only one....
After we have sex... well actually only if i orgasm (no it does not happen everytime, story for another day) i feel like sh*t, my whole body aches, and i am sore. when ever i orgasm i have the worsed Braxton hicks ever, this happened with my last pregnancy to. but this time i feel like cr@p for hours, i can lie down and i cant stand up, i cant find a comfy way to sit. it is driving me mad.

Is anyone else having anything like this?

[sierrasmum]

Hmm, I have had one occassion where I felt like that, but after I had a shower I felt much better.
I have read too that when you orgasm during pregnancy the orgasm can be more pronounced and even last for 30 mins after sex, and that even though an orgasm contracts the uterus there is no danger of it starting labour contractions unless your cervix is 'ripe' and your ready to give birth anyway.

Maybe the aches are from the position you are in while having sex?.I know that after the 4th month its not a good idea to have sex with the man on top, just because its not good to lie flat on your back for too much time.

Sorry if that didn't help much and Im just :ecomcity: lol

[PinkAngel]

:yes: Definite uterine contractions / braxtons after sex... apparently this is normal... maybe it's the position that is causing you to ache??

I wish I was more help but sex rarely happens at my place, not for DH's lack of trying :laughing:

[Mischief]

I think its got alot to do with when you O it sets off uterine contractions.

Probably you feel the BHix more because of this. :)

I dont think its anything to worry about, but probably worth a mention at your next midwife or OB appointment. :D

[mixy]

Thanks ladies :)

Its more annoying than anything, or frustrating, i dont want to feel like ****, especially after something that feels good yk?
Im not to worried about the BH's as i had them with DS from the same thing and he was a week 'over'. but they really hurt and we have to stop EVERYTHING, he cant touch me any where near my belly, or well, down there, for like 20 mins or something.

I am at the point where i am avoiding sex becasue of it. which is frustrating for both of us. gee what to do:(

I may give my midwife a call, i mean she has to know what to do right!!! lol sounds funny to say!

[sierrasmum]

lol, I think DH is just happy he got some the other night!. We havent been able to just because I havent been in the mood or have felt sore or something like that... Poor hubby:p

[mamajess]

In my pregnancies I used to feel so sore after O, esp in the later months. I'd feel really swollen and bruised and like I just couldn't get into a position that eased the pressure. I sometimes experienced it after sex without O too. I put it down to hormones and increased blood flow. We were always gentle but sometimes it was too much to bear at all. Definately talk to your mid...maybe she can suggest a remedy to help?

[Mia]

Umm, every time we have had sex (regular p in v sex) I have got crampy afterwards. Sort of like period cramps - in the cervix area and under the buttocks. I guess it is just the banging on the cervix when it is kind of sensitive or whatever. I can't say I've noticed any actual pain or tightenings though.

Good luck and don't give up, haha.

[cassvanm]

Huh? People have sex? For enjoyment? :laughing:
Poor DH doesn't really get a look-in. He's not a tiny man, and I'm not a tiny woman, add the belly, and it just isn't comfy! There are other things though :p

[mixy]

lol not having sex at all, it is an idea:p

i dont know if i could not do it at all, while im preg with boys i really want it.... hhhmmm what does that say about them..... if we did not do it at all i would probably spend all night dreaming about it *where is the little red faced emotion???*

[sierrasmum]

:laughing: What am I the only one having those particular dreams??:o

DH doesn't need to know about that though!

I think my prob is that Im also easily distracted by bubs... specially when he/she decides to start kicking during!!, its a very weird sensation!.
This bubs just cant stay still... is it possible for them to have ADD at this age :laughing:

[Mermum]

Yep, I feel different everytime afterwards. Sometimes I feel great and other times I get pains, I have to agree though-- the baby kicks everytime we cuddle which is rather distracting!

[mixy]

i have that trouble to, the baby does not kick while we are actually doing it, but in the lead up, he will go crazy, what a distraction!

and alison, i seem to only have those dreams if we dont do it when I want it, lol, not that he would usually say no!

[sierrasmum]

Nice to know im not the only one :laughing:

DH was actually the one saying no a few weeks ago cause everytime we would try to go for it I would end up having to say no cause I was too uncomfortable or just wasn't in the mood, so he decided it was too much effort!. Then I started feeling a bit better and was the one pestering him... so there were some good dreams in there :laughing:.
He gave in the other night though... Hes been in a much better mood since!

[MummaDJ]

It doesn't help my DD is lying head down with her head buried into my pelvis so having her pushing on my cervix one way & DH the other way lets just say it is not a tickling sensation lol.

[cassvanm]

lol not having sex at all, it is an idea:p
..... if we did not do it at all i would probably spend all night dreaming about it *where is the little red faced emotion???*

I kind of know what you are talking about. I have become totally obsessed with David Cook (winner of American Idol) and I am not the obsessive fan-type. He just totally makes me want to have sex with him !!!! :laughing:My hormones must be raging like crazy. I dream about him (now I need the little red faced emotion) constantly - it's insane and so very unlike me!

[sierrasmum]

Atleast in your dreams there is no uncomfortable or squished preg bellies :laughing:

[mixy]

I kind of know what you are talking about. I have become totally obsessed with David Cook (winner of American Idol) and I am not the obsessive fan-type. He just totally makes me want to have sex with him !!!! :laughing:My hormones must be raging like crazy. I dream about him (now I need the little red faced emotion) constantly - it's insane and so very unlike me!

sorry but i had to laugh when i read that cass! i cant say i have ever had a dream of a famous person! and as alison said, no uncomfy belly is a definate plus!

[kymmy]

I feel so drained after but no pain. It can be uncomfortable. I never had bh I don't think.

[sierrasmum]

Mixy, I have been getting such a sore Pelvis lately, and I know that you suffer with a really sore pelvis... so how does this affect you having sex?. I felt bad turning down hubby the other night, but I was that sore that it was out of the question!.

You dont have to answer that if its too personal!!.

[Mia]

spoon or doggie

Ahem! Well what I mean is, it's painful to use the adductors (the inside muscles/ligaments of the thighs) so missionary is a bit ouchy unless you're really relaxed! :o

[sierrasmum]

Well missionary is a little ouchy at the moment anyway just cause of the belly getting in the way :laughing:

Sorry if that was an embarrassing question Mia (the small text!).

[mixy]

I missed your posts in here....

We cant do 'doggy' (gee they could think of a nicer name hey...) cause that hurts my pelvis....

we can spoon, and do missionary, but i cant have my legs unsupported because of my pelvis (again... grrr)

but that has nothing to do witht the all over aches i get from climax :( we have not done 'it' for over a week, and i have not 'climaxed' for what feels like forever, cause i cant stand the thought of feeling like that again.
I cant wait untill after i have bubs to have SEX!!! thats to long:(

i can feel those 'special' dreams coming on....

[EquineMum]

To be honest, I can't wait to get our sex life back after the birth....obviously it won't be right away, but when it does happen, I'll be welcoming it with open arms. I miss it so much. I've been very "anti" sex since after the first trimester finished - we used to happily go at it a few times a week, now I could count on one hand the amount of times it's happened since I've been pregnant.

The main thing I have put this "disinterest" down to is feeling unsexy due to the constant discharge and having to wear liners all the time (I HATE PADS AND LINERS :devil6:) so I don't like him touching "there" much anymore and definitely don't want any oral (TMI??! LOL!) and not wanting to touch him and 'lead him on' when I'm not really wanting to follow it through. It sucks. The good thing is, we're big on communication and very open with one another - we still shower together and cuddle and have stayed intimate, just without 'the act' :p but gee I miss it :no:

*sigh*
Kayls

[haileye]

:valentine:Sex... hmm Dp has said no more untill after bub is here, he's too scared that having sex will bring on labour. And also the fact that after the deed is done I lay there aching because of sore pelvic bones etc

I keep trying to tell him that sex before 34 weeks helps to keep the baby there ( read this in a preg mag)
Not that I'm in the mood very much, and I can sympathise(*sp) with Equinemum on not wanting to be touched "down there" due to discharge etc. not the most sexiest thing to have.
I laugh sometimes cause I'll be getting ready for bed and he will sit and watch and smile. And when i ask what he is smiling about? he says that he likes my belly and my pregnant smell.... (what ever that means?)

The most sexual contact we get lately is when he rubs moisturiser into my skin.

[sierrasmum]

Mixy- I know what you mean... I could probably count the number of times too, although my memory is so dodgy that I cant even remember how many times :laughing:
My pelvis is feeling much better, but ofcourse we still havent been able to have sex cause we have both either been too tired or busy :no:.

Kayls- Ive only just started getting my sex drive back and now I feel like im just too big!!. I know what you mean about not wanting hubby 'down there' :laughing:, Im the same way, but I make him have a shower with me first so atleast I feel clean enough for him to do any touching, oral is deff still out though!
DH and I also have a pretty good relationship when it comes to talking about these things so he has never pushed the issue, but I do miss it as well!.

I found that once I had recoverd from having Sierra and DH and I started having sex again it was really good, although thats how I got into the mess of having another one so soon:laughing:. So I cant wait for it to be like that again. Although perhaps we will be a little more carefull on the concieving part :p

[PinkAngel]

I do miss the intimacy... I think we are both scared of hurting the baby... and being poked from both sides lol

I'm actually thinking I might be apprehensive about the 'first time' after the birth...worried it mgiht hurt etc...

[cassvanm]

My sex drive has increased dramatically, but poor DH doesn't get a look-in. i find I want it in the morning (after some lovely dreams), so I have to do it unassisted (TMI). Poor DH has no idea what he's missing!
Plus, i agree with the whole discharge thing, and the too big thing!
OMG I am way over-sharing right now :laughing:

[sierrasmum]

:laughing: Cass, you have made my day!.

Lisa, Dont worry, you wont hurt the baby!. I actually read that sex can put them to sleep (cause of the rocking motion :laughing:) and so if bubs is quiet afterwards it could just be that they are alseep!.

The first time having sex after Sierra was born was scary, but DH was gentle and I was lucky cause I had no tearing so I had less healing to do down there. Just give it time and when your ready Im sure your DH wont mind taking it slow, he will probably just be happy to be getting some!!.

Men... it must be nice to be so uncomplicated :devil6:

[EquineMum]

At least it sounds like I'm not alone with the "unsexy discharge" (GOOD LORD, NOW THERE'S TMI FOR YA!!! :laughing:). I admit, the shower first is a good thing....but sometimes I'm just so damn tired *sigh* and now my back's giving me grief too.... GRRRR!!! Made an appointment with the physio for Saturday after DH nagging me for ages. :yelclap: I'm trying to tell myself that everything I'm going through is normal and natural but that doesn't mean it feels sexy! Guess we'll just have to wait and see how it all unfolds.....he's away at the moment until next Tuesday, so I'm trying to change my mindset and look at the discharge as extra lube!!! *where the heck is that madly blushing smiley emoticon??* :o

*going to run and hide now* :rolleyes:

LOL
Kayls

[PinkAngel]

lol i love the :o smiley emote....

Where else can we share all of our TMI stuff... this is a great thread :yes:

[KatieLou]

Well I'll join in with the TMI embarrasing moments by agreeing wholeheartedly with Cass (thank heavens it's not just me! :o).
Sex is now hard work, uncomfortable and not very rewarding, but I am finding that I'm waking in the middle of the night feeling very turned on. I wish I knew what I was dreaming! Dh is snoring next to me so I don't want to disturb him, but I'm so worked up it doesn't take much to climax and then I can roll over and have a wonderful sleep. Very embarrasing though - although I have confessed to dh and he finds it a little funny. :o

[kymmy]

Its starting to get more uncomfortable but not stopping me. I worry it gets boring though being limited.
Hubby loves my belly.

[Mermum]

I agree, my DP thinks I am hot stuff pregnant! Even though he teases me for my new look.

[sierrasmum]

I also love this thread, its always good for a giggle, and let you know your normal!!.

Kayls- The extra loob comment! :laughing:. Good on ya for the positive attutide towards it though!. I have even said to DH that im embarrassed about it and he just shrugs and says it really doesn't bother him.

Not sure how DH feels about my pregnant body, but last night I thought I looked pretty hot myself :o obviously going through a loving the preg look moment!.:laughing:
DH gets away with not commenting though, he reckons its too dangerous to even bring up the topic!

[KatieLou]

I keep on catching dh looking at my body with a 'different' look on his face. It's not a bad look, but I don't know whether he is just amazed at the wonder that's going on or he is turned on by it. He is very reassuring that he thinks it's beautiful, but then I was so sensitive about getting 'fat' to start with that I don't think he even dares suggesting anything other than good thoughts or else I'll cry (again).

[sierrasmum]

Yes, I think they have to learn very quickly what not to say while their partner is pregnant :laughing:.
I get a lot of 'but I love you honey' :D

[KatieLou]

:laughing: And for my dh, he usually struggles to learn what not to say - he suffers from :footinmouth: quite a lot, so he's done very well. I also get 'but I love you honey' as well as 'you're beautiful' and 'that's my baby in there' (which for some reason always makes me feel good, I guess sometimes I get so carried away with the pregnancy I forget that this is part of him too).

[haileye]

!!WARNING TMI AHEAD!!

Ok so last night I was finally in the mood for sex, after I had gotten relaxed and comfy in bed.
Everything was going well with the foreplay and we were getting into ready mode for the intercourse, and everything in my down below's dried up..:o
The extra lube that we all talk about... (discharge) didn't help, so it became very uncomfortable and unenjoyable for me.

Maybe the idea of not having any sex untill after the baby is born is a good idea. :(

Its quite disheartning to think that up untill about 2 months ago we were still like rabbits.
Don't get me wrong I can't keep my hands off DP, but I feel like I am leading him on making him think that he is going to get some. And then stopping because my down belows aren't in the mood. (if that makes sense)

[sierrasmum]

Haileye- I know what you mean, this has happened to me a few times, much to my annoyance!!. Oh how I long for the rabbit days :p

Kat- Im always telling DH that 'his' baby is kicking me or making me uncomfortable lol. So now hes probably feeling included but not always in a good way :laughing:.

[mixy]

My sex drive has increased dramatically, but poor DH doesn't get a look-in. i find I want it in the morning (after some lovely dreams), so I have to do it unassisted (TMI). Poor DH has no idea what he's missing!
Plus, i agree with the whole discharge thing, and the too big thing!
OMG I am way over-sharing right now :laughing:

I am loving that everyone is having such different experiences, but we are all so normal. There is no point in my 'pleasing' myself cause climax is the problem :( might try again soon, see if it was temperary.....

This thread is fantastic though, (if i can say so myself!) getting everyone chatting about the important stuff! :yelclap:

[KatieLou]

I agree Mixy. This is a great place to share all of the TMI aspects of pregnancy.

While we're at it (and warning this may lead to visuals no body wants), is anyone else finding that their 'bits' have swollen?

[sierrasmum]

Kat, I found that last pregnancy, by the end of it my bits looked so different from normal!!. They did look swollen... but Im not sure they were that swollen, just looked it. This time same thing is starting to happen. I guess its just one of those things that changed during preg, but no one ever mentioned it before so I figured it was just me!... Its one of those things that you just cant go up to someone and say hey!, my bits look different, is that normal? :laughing:

[PinkAngel]

With this belly I am having trouble seeing my bits :)

[sierrasmum]

Unfortunately our mirror makes it easy :laughing:, otherwise looking down all I can see is belly!.

[KatieLou]

Thanks Alison - that's why I mentioned it on here - I've already shared so much more than I normally would so I figure why stop now? :o

Pink :laughing: I can't see them anymore either, but I could (just) when it 1st started, and dh's reaction (he doesn't mean to, but sometimes he's taken by surprise) reminds me that they are pretty ugly.

How embarassing - I can't believe I am talking about this! :o

[PinkAngel]

I had to do all my 'landscaping' before I went to see the OB last week... I think I'm going to have to get waxed or get DH to do it from now on.... It was a task and a half as it was to get myself in position...:D

[Mia]

Yes, I think my bits get a bit puffier during pregnancy. I think it may be the increased blood flow (about 30% more than normal!) and I guess the downward pressure on the pelvic floor?

[mixy]

definatly swollen, and a different colour, almost purple, and yet i need a mirror to look:laughing:
I also have not done much 'hair care down there' for a few weeks now, i can reach!!! and not being able to sees means that i might chop something off!!! (thinking like clitorus here, i dont have to many 'dangly' bits...lol)
Im thinking maybe a wax just after im due, to make it cleaner during the bleeding afterwards.... but i have never had there waxed, and am pretty sure that would bloody HURT! lol

:yelclap: to the TMI thread, the thread where you can chat about anything!!!!

[GeorgiaAnne]

This made me laugh today re: married love life...http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WGOohBytKTU

re: waxing - mixy I wouldn't start while you're pg I find it hurts way more when you're pg (and I get the full schebang!

[mixy]

This made me laugh today re: married love life...http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WGOohBytKTU

re: waxing - mixy I wouldn't start while you're pg I find it hurts way more when you're pg (and I get the full schebang!

I have heard that, but i only want the area around my vagina done, not up higher (you know its not to look pretty, just be funtional) so do you think i could bare the pain for that section????? hhmmmm dont scare me!!

[GeorgiaAnne]

That's the worst bit!! The pain factor really varies as to who does it though so make sure you get someone who is experienced with brazilians and uses good quality wax.

[PinkAngel]

I would probably need an epidural for a full Brazilian :D

You would be fine Mixy... :yes:

[GeorgiaAnne]

lol Lisa. It's not so bad, you just think "It will all be over in 5 minutes" and then it wont hurt afterwards either.

[KatieLou]

:iagree:100% with Georgia (as in I would think something and then look there and she had typed it!) :D Waxing is hurting much more now than it did before, but I guess it's nothing compared to labour. I have an appt for next week, how embarrasing with my swollen bits! (BTW, thanks Mixy, what you described is exactly the same as me so now I don't feel too bad about it).

I don't know if they are Aust wide, but I have found that the Brazillian Butterfly chain really know what they are doing and it is less painful by far. There's no room for modesty the way they do it, but if it's less painful then I'm all for it. You can even get a pretty shape if you want something special :laughing: (no I haven't done this - but imagine your OB's surprise!).

[GeorgiaAnne]

lmao Katie re the OB, i'm sure they've seen it all though! But yeah, you don't want to feel embarassed about being nude as I think it would hurt more then iykwim?

[GeorgiaAnne]

Don't worry about the swollen bits though, it's more the discharge that bothers me :o The first6 time I ever went to my lady I got my period just as I was arriving and she said "Don't worry about it" I was a bit self-conscious though!

[sierrasmum]

I used to be a beauty therapist and used to do a fair few Brazillians... and they do hurt more during pregnancy because of hormones, and probably because your bits may be a bit swollen. But if the wax is good quality and they use Hot wax, not strip, and they know what they are doing then you should be fine!.
Some places offer a disposable g-string you can wear too if that makes you more confortable. I used to have a client who would always wear a tampon, just in case!.

I would just be happy with a bikini wax... thats all I could handle last time!.

[mixy]

gosh so many choices! hey maybe the pain will get me ready for birth!! so while i am delivering the next 11lb'er i can think, 'hey this does not hurt as much as that waxing last week!!!!!' lol hahahahahaha

Im enjoying this! being able to chat so openly!

[kymmy]

I don't think I would be brave enough to go to a beautician. Not cos of the pain but I only want hubby to see me down there now. But he wont groom me and I can't see!

[sierrasmum]

Yeah it is nice to talk openly like this:yes:

DH wont help me groom either... our relationship isn't at that kind of level yet apparently :laughing:

[kymmy]

Yeah it is nice to talk openly like this:yes:

DH wont help me groom either... our relationship isn't at that kind of level yet apparently :laughing:
When is it then? :o

[sierrasmum]

I know, you would think being too pregnant to groom would be a good reason to help out...
Ohwell:rolleyes:

[mixy]

You would think!! i dont know if i would want him down there doing that, what if he slips, i mean i like my clitorus... most of the time....

[haileye]

Mixy if you like I can give you the phone number of the lady that I go to, I will be seeing her next week... (I've been really bad and haven't seen her since january) she's really good and uses Hot wax that smells like pineapples.
she is in Calamvale and costs $35, she also has dispossible g's to make you feel a little more comfy.
She's also very friendly, she text me the other day to see if everything was good.

[mixy]

not a bad idea nd calamvale is nto far at all, pm me the details maybe..?

[KatieLou]

You would think!! i dont know if i would want him down there doing that, what if he slips, i mean i like my clitorus... most of the time....

:iagree: I just don't think I would trust him!

[kymmy]

You would think!! i dont know if i would want him down there doing that, what if he slips, i mean i like my clitorus... most of the time....
Ouch!

[sierrasmum]

Hmm, good point on the cutting something!:laughing:

[Mermum]

:laughing: You are all hilarious!!!! but yes I can totally relate, I have been told by my DP that I have got hairier!!!! I do want to look nice and neat at the birth...but yes I have got so hairy that I am sure it will be too painful!

[Mermum]

What am I talking about???I bet nobody looks neat giving birth anyway! Except maybe people on 60minutes:rolleyes:

[KatieLou]

I'm hairier too Mermum - but mainly in places I didn't used to have hair - like my belly :o
I have a waxing appt tonight so i'll be sure to let you all know how much more painful it is...

[Mermum]

Goodluck, Best of luck, hope it goes well and fast. Definitely keep us in the loop:)

[KatieLou]

:laughing: thanks. I don't think I've ever had such well wishes for a waxing appt!
It's going to be so embarrasing - I can't see down there so I have no idea how bad it is and then there's the whole swollen/purple (tmi) issue discussed earlier!

[PinkAngel]

well on the weekend finally felt 'in the mood'... that's as far as it got...lol... all ready to go and bubby decided to become the Kung Fu Panda...totally put me off... ah well it's the thought that counts :o

[KatieLou]

:laughing: it's a start I guess. Imagine what it will be like after it's actually born? :p

[sierrasmum]

Yes, have to admit that hair is the last thing I thought about while giving birth last time!:laughing:

Aww, Pink... have had that happen to me too!. Dont worry, Im sure you will find time after bubs is born (and your feeling up to it again!) afterall, some of us manage to have more than one!, so our partners must get some eventually!:laughing:

[mixy]

Dont worry, Im sure you will find time after bubs is born (and your feeling up to it again!) afterall, some of us manage to have more than one!, so our partners must get some eventually!:laughing:

:iagree: we must get back into the swing of thing eventualy! gosh with DS 4weeks later i was ready!! (compaired to the 11mths it took after DD:thumbsdown:)

TMI WARNING

Well we actually tried over the weekend, just in the spoon possition, i mean he got some thing, as i did nto 'climax' it did not seem that great. then as mentioned in the othere thread i had one of 'those' dreams, and well the climax happened.... IN MY SLEEP!!!!!! that has never happened before.... (OMG i cant believe i just posted that!) but the good news is although i did have soem uncomfortableness after i was not in pain, so maybe it is time to try it awake! :laughing:

[sierrasmum]

LOL, Mickie, I was ready 5 weeks after Sierra was born!. I know a few ladies that needed a few months though... I think DH was glad it didn't take me that long:laughing:

haha!, nice that your body finally got its release in sleep!. Good that it didnt make you feel uncomfortable in anyway, so hopefully next time you climax while awake it will be better.
Sounds like you had a REALLY good dream!!

[mixy]

Sounds like you had a REALLY good dream!!

actually not to much happened in the dream and ppl kept walking past, but i was not giving up...lol! hahaha, and i was in the car by myself in full daylight.... very weird dream indeed, but who cares!!!!

[sierrasmum]

Hey, whatever works :devil6:

[KatieLou]

:laughing: Mixy. Well I've been having the dreams but none that good! You must have really needed the release :D Talk about multi tasking - sleeping and climaxing at the same time - Well done :yelclap::laughing:


Well I went and got waxed last night and it wasn't as bad as I feared - only hurt a little more than usual so that's ok. I don't think she was as 'thorough' though - but I can't see it so i don't really care :D

[kymmy]

Oh gotta love when that happens Mickie!

[mixy]

I definatly cant complain can i!

[Mia]

Whoa, did I miss some interesting pages in this thread lol.

Ugh, I would like to get professionally defoliated, but I'm not used to it at all and feel intimidated by it, plus my skin is really sensitive and pores break open/bleed, so I shave at home. You can do it by feel if you're very careful!

Good going on the wet dream though! Nothing to turn down there, hey.

[mixy]

Lol! wet dream i have not heard that term in a while!!

[AmyLou]

hi ladies, very interesting convos in here! Love it, right up my alley! I'm a little annoyed at myself as i regularly got waxing done and then when i had bad morning sickness and didn't care about anything i put off my appointment and haven't gone back! I'm really annoyed as getting it done for the first time again hurts soooo much more than getting it done regularly! Now i look like some sort of animal and wish i hadn't stopped! :(

I am now thinking that i might get some veet??? Does anyone know if this is safe to use while pregnant???

[sierrasmum]

Hmm, is Veet the cream?
Personally I wouldn't use it, just because I figure that something that disolves the hair cant be that good for you while pregnant as it must be full of chemicals. Waxing, or shaving is probably the safest option, however shaving does have the fast re-growth and it can be itchy!.

[AmyLou]

Mmm that's wat i thought!

[mixy]

Amy if you decide to use the veet, just remenber to keep it away from your really delicute (sp?) bits.... obviously!

[haileye]

I am now thinking that i might get some veet??? Does anyone know if this is safe to use while pregnant???

I googled this and there are mixed opinions out there... but the main consencesis (sp?) is that its not a good idea to use it on your bits as it could burn the area because it is so sensitve at the mo....

If you trust your partner enough.. he could shave you... he would only get one chance.

Mind you some people don't have that sort of relationship.

I must just be lucky enough that my partner wants to do the impossible things for me...
He offered to shave my legs as my balance isn't very good and standing for ages in the shower gives me sore hips. He already gives me at home pedicures.... got to love him to bits:valentine:

[AmyLou]

Ohh my husband would do anything for me aswell.. he'd probably love the grooming job!

hmm i dont know.. although im sure there must be some variations to veet like one thats not full of chemicals, one thats better for the skin.. maybe i'll have a look around! I just wish we never grew hair there! it would be soo much easier, still look like a little girl but hey, lots of women remove it all anyway!

[mixy]

IfI must just be lucky enough that my partner wants to do the impossible things for me... :valentine:

your a lucky girl!!!

I cant see down there, i think its hairy :laughing: but i cant tell for sure!!!! :laughing: and since i dont know, well maybe it should stay there!!! dont tell my hubby i said that lol!

Ok so ladies i plan to have mind blowing sex over the weekend, have i just ruined it for myself? i hope not!

[Kaileysmum]

Oh ladies Ive read though this thread, very interesting and funny. Just a question seeming we can talk about anything, Is anyone finding it harder to "go" since being pregnant?

As for the hair thing, I have never waxed down there (arh I sound like Im a hippee lol), but I do tidy and have so far still been able to bend round and "tidy", not for much longer I dont think, DP wouldnt do it for me last time, might have to make him this time, or be brave and get waxed :no::no:.

[KatieLou]

Ok so ladies i plan to have mind blowing sex over the weekend, have i just ruined it for myself? i hope not!

:fingerscrossed: for you Mickie! I'll be very envious if you do. I can't be bothered but DH is home again so I guess I should - it's just so much work for such little reward these days. Oh how I'm looking forward to normal sex again! One day...

I know my wax needs a bit of a tidy up with the tweezers, but I can't see (or bend) to fix it up. I'm thinking of giving dh the tweezers and asking him to fix it but that's stepping over a line thats never been crossed before. We'll see what he says eh?

Sorry Kaileysmum - what kind of "go" are we talking about? (a few come to mind)

[sierrasmum]

Good luck Mickie!:thumbsup:
My sex drive seems to be non existant again...So I guess DH will just have to wait untill im up for it again... if I am at all in the next 10 weeks!.
Been soooo tired that I kinda doubt it.

[mixy]

thanks ladies! :fingerscrossed: it goes well:)

Kaileysmum, with 'go' do you mean to reach climax? cause yep!

[Kaileysmum]

Kaileysmum, with 'go' do you mean to reach climax? cause yep!

Yeah thats what I ment just couldnt think of the right word at the time. :)

[kymmy]

Good luck Mickie! :goodvibes:

I don't find it harder atm to get there being preg - not that I find it particurly easy anyway.

[KatieLou]

Yes Kailey's mum - much harder! I've just about given up on me and just go along for the fun of it and to keep dh happy. It's still good and all, just not the happiness at the end :p

DH refused to pluck the odd hairs the waxer left - I can't say I blame him really! :D So I just have to put up with knowing that they are there.

[mixy]

Katie- how frustrating, just knowing they are there would annoy me!

Well we did 'it' (lol) over the weekend, and it was Fantastic, i did have the sore body afterwards, but after a very long shower and a sleep (:D) i felt heeps better:)

[KatieLou]

:laughing: Hooray Mickie!!

[sierrasmum]

Yay!:yelclap:Go Mickie!:laughing:

Definitely harder for me to climax too, so Im like you Kat, I just go along for the ride :laughing:

[mixy]

alison, i like that, 'just go along for the ride'!

[sierrasmum]

:laughing: Well its true :p

I feel bad for DH, he was so up for it last night (no pun intended) and I was just so tired and so not in the mood, I gave him a cuddle and fell asleep!. So he went and played a game on a computer for a few hours.
I might have to try and think sexy thoughts today just incase hes in the mood again tonight :laughing:

[mixy]

I have been there before! it sucks, then when you do want it he is at work or something! i hate that! goodluck for tonight!

[sierrasmum]

lol, thanks ;)

[KatieLou]

:laughing: I do that too Alison! Somehow lately it's been much better getting worked up mentally - it's like you're nearly there already and the awkward body doesn't dampen the mood :D

[cassvanm]

I'm with Mickie, it's always when he's at work. I have inspiration though. mmmmm, david cook (yes, still an obsession of mine!) :laughing::o

[sierrasmum]

Well sorry to disapoint ladies, didn't end up happening last night either... I wasn't really in the mood though (the sexy thoughts didn't work) so im not too disapointed :p

Have plenty of chocolate to keep me happy... DH came home with a block last night:goodvibes:

[GeorgiaAnne]

You girls are good, I can hardly remember the last time we had sex:o
Who is David Cook btw?

[cassvanm]

Oh Georgia, poor Georgia - not knowing the joys of David Cook :laughing:
he was this years winner of American Idol - I actually asked Mick (DH) if I could have him for christmas, and Mick just said he couldnt' afford him :laughing:
I've NEVER had a fan-crush until I was introduced to this guy (thank the lord for austar!) - cant pinpoint what it is, he is just super-sexy!

[sierrasmum]

:laughing:Cass, you crack me up!. Im glad DH lets you have your crushes;) but he may be right about not being able to afford David Cook... although the Aussie dollar isn't doing too badly at the moment, so you never know.... can you laybuy him for chrissy?

[mixy]

and cass, maybe his manager will want to compete with the toy sales and give you no-deposit layby!!!! cant bet that :laughing:

[Mia]

Ahem**

We managed a wake-up session this morning (aiming for once a week lol):laughing: which was a very pleasant surprise! And this is TMI but for SPD sufferers, it was facing each other but on our sides, that way I could flop my leg over lol. :o

I still got the cramps after but not too bad really!

C'mon girls, notch one up this weekend :laughing:

[KatieLou]

Oh well done Mia :yelclap::laughing:

I'll try this weekend, dh is home and I would love to, so we'll see how it goes. Maybe we'll use some 'visual stimulation' and see if that helps. :laughing::o

I think we are both counting down until we can do it normally again. :fingerscrossed: for a fast recovery from birth!

[haileye]

C'mon girls, notch one up this weekend :laughing:

yeah right when I'm in the mood he's not, and vice versa...
oh well lets see what the weekend brings.. LOL:p

[KatieLou]

Perhaps we should set ourselves some homework :p Good luck!

[mixy]

alright, home work! lets see if that works! hey i just realised that our kids are being looked after tomorrow night, yep both at the same time!!! hopefully we can get something done!! maybe twice (geez i wish)

[sierrasmum]

Can I have an extension on my homework??, Im sick so DH isn't coming anywhere near me :no:, not that I blame him!!

[Mia]

Lol

[mixy]

I want an extention to! my DH got very very drunk so there was no way he well 'working'! lol

maybe tonight!

[KatieLou]

:laughing: extensions granted. I had a limited time frame and it was then or not for another week and a half, so I had to cease the day! :laughing: Visual stimulation certainly helped and I even got to climax without feeling like it was all too much like hard work. hooray! :goodvibes:

So I think I get an A+ in my homework :D

[sierrasmum]

Hahaha, My DH had a few too, but in his defence I was already sick so I wasn't getting any anyway.
Do we lose marks?
How did everyone else do?, or do we need a group extension for the whole class?;)

[kymmy]

I don't need this homework!!!
My biggest problem is feeling too tired. Once in bed I want to sleep.
I don't get sore at all - just feel exhausted afterwards yet its worth it. I noticed my belly/uterus tightens alot after climax but its not uncomfortable at all. It actually helps me to sleep better.
And last 24 hours we have done it 3 times. That is a lot for us. 5 times a week is more normal.
I am actually more worried after having baby and with bfeeding and less sleep and demands of a new baby I will lose interest.

Hoping I haven't said too much...

[KatieLou]

3 times in 24hrs! I'm so envious Kymmy! :laughing:

[sierrasmum]

Kat you get an A+ and a gold star!:yelclap:
Umm, so I guess Kymmy you get an A+++ oh and a gold star also :p
Even when I wasn't pregnant did I get it that much :laughing:, twice a week is usually all we could manage with DH being tired from work and me being tired either work when I was working, or from looking after Sierra... I think I need to lift my game if I want higher grades!.

[cassvanm]

DH & I actually had a morning session yesterday - first time in about 6 years :eek:
Very nice though :o
I think I should get at least a "B" mark for my homework!

[sierrasmum]

The best kind I reckon... I actually have the energy in the morning :laughing:
Maybe we should self evaluate and grade depending on how good we felt we did? lol:laughing:

[Mia]

Uh huh, katielou, we're going to need further information on the "visual stimulation" you know :laughing:

and kymmy, OMG I think my innards would fall out if I managed that much. Stop setting the bar so high plz. (:yelclap:)

[mixy]

kymmy, no wonder your up to baby #4!! lol is this were we ask you if you own a tv!!! sorry! lol

anyway, well even with the extention it did not happen! i set it all up, i had a dry back so i asked him to put some cream on, so i got nearly naked, and he just quickly rubed some on and then was like, 'ok is that enough?'. im just like honey you are thick! anywho, then i had a cry casue he would not get my pj's out of the washing basket! i think maybe i was abit emotional! anyway, it did not happen last night, so tonight i am setting myself some homework!

[KatieLou]

Oh Mickie, too bad about last night - sometimes I think guys need a flashing neon sign to make them realise that they might bet some. Othertimes they think a peck on the cheek is an opening move.

Kat you get an A+ and a gold star!
Umm, so I guess Kymmy you get an A+++ oh and a gold star also
Even when I wasn't pregnant did I get it that much , twice a week is usually all we could manage with DH being tired from work and me being tired either work when I was working, or from looking after Sierra... I think I need to lift my game if I want higher grades!.

Oh no, compared to Kymmy I'm about a B. We're usually also about twice a week so Kymmy gets extra points for consistency :laughing:

The best kind I reckon... I actually have the energy in the morning

:iagree: DH doesn't like it though, he likes to roll over and go back to sleep.

Uh huh, katielou, we're going to need further information on the "visual stimulation" you know


:laughing: :o I think you know exactly what I mean Mia :p - the format was dvd though. Is that sharing too much?? I don't think I've ever admitted to watching stuff like that :o

[mixy]

i am suprised you just did katie!! lol, i will never admit it, you cant make me!!! lol

[KatieLou]

lol :o hmmm, maybe I'll take it back (that edit button is wonderful).

Oh come off it though - we all know what I'm talking about and we've all seen it. Why be ashamed? DH and I have been together 11 years, you have to do something every now and then to add some variety :o

[kymmy]

:laughing: Yeah have a tv in our room - not my choice.
I think we just need more practice than most! :D Hubby reckons we should have had more babies by now.

Hubby says its not awkward at all me being pregnant. But it is for me ie. I feel less control. More inclined to lose balance.

[mixy]

kymmy lying down i dont tend to lose my balance.... :laughing:
yeh hubby has never complained about the belly gettin g in the way, i have soem trouble with it though, like i dont want to touch my belly, while we are having 'it' (lol yep im not able to use the word!) i guess its a personal thing, and i know in the near future we will not be able to reach the 69 position around my belly..... a bit of TMI right there.

yeah alright katie maybe.... but i dont have to admit it do i? or should i just get it out there? (starting to sound like an AA meeting!)

[GeorgiaAnne]

:eek: Kymmy good for you luv, and your lucky dh. There's no way i'll let my dh read this thread he'll feel very ripped off!
As for time of day, I think afternoon delights are the best!

[youngmum2b90]

Sorry to jump in here, i wanted to ask a question regarding sex and this seems to be the most appropriate place :laughing:

i have found and really it was only the lsat two/three times (since i have really popped)
that when we do it, i feel really strange... like the belly is getting in the way.

Im sure its normal but to me it feels really strange and it doesnt seem to be as fun, like DF doesnt seem to make the effort ne more... (TMI here - we used to watch things together or something) but now... its like nothing :(
Is this common??

[sierrasmum]

:laughing:Mickie I agree with Kat, sometimes men are just really dense, then other times think you want it when you wern't trying!.

Cant say I have used visual stimulation myself... I would get too embarrassed for the people on the screen :o

Leece- I went through a faze where I just didn't find it fun and felt that DH wasn't really putting in the effort, and sometimes he doesn't cause its just too hard with this big belly!. So it was like weeks before we tried again.

Kymmy, Im surprised you dont have more kids too! :laughing:

[youngmum2b90]

thanks Sierrasmum, He trys quiet alot, i mean sometimes i cant get away from him hehe... But just tends to be that the effort to make it enjoyable for me as well isnt there at the moment... possibly cos of the belly.

[hayleysmummy]

I havent contributed to this thread before :o
It looks like fun though lol

I have a question. When I 'O' (not very often haha) my whole belly tenses and bub feels like a really hard ball does this happen to anyone else?

DP is always nagging to do 'it' and I'm just not in the mood the poor thing only gets a bit every couple of weeks, if that :laughing:

Leece- I know what you mean. Maybe your DP is a little worried he may hurt you or bub (they do think these things), you could also try different positions where your belly wont get in the way

[youngmum2b90]

Yeah Hayleysmummy, i find that too that my whole belly tenses (DF finds it the most amusing)

We try diff possitions, and sometimes its good to change things around... but just not like before he made an effort to get "some", now he still wants but no effort made haha... maybe i am expecting too much HEHE

[KatieLou]

Leece - I'm the same. the belly gets in the way and I can't get into the positions I like b/c of it, so it all seems too much like hard work.
DH has gone a little off it too as I can't get into his favourite positions either and I think he's a bit bored of the ones I can do. He also knows I'm not enjoying myself much and is concious of that.

[youngmum2b90]

I think thats what it is Katie, is that i cant get into his fav position so he isnt as interested.

Although he has suggested going away sat night just him n me (so maybe something will come of that HEHE)

The other thing i have noticed odviously as bub is moving more i get more aware of that, the most off putting thing is having this foot sticking out ya tummy while ya trying to do "it" lol ...

[sierrasmum]

Welcome to the embarrassment thread Jordan and Leece lol.

Jordan, I get the hard feeling after too, and its just everything contracting in there, but its normal and wont cause labour unless your ready to 'go' anyway.

Leece- This bubs moves around heaps too!, and its very distracting!. I also find sometimes it just feels like there is just too much pressure going on down there...:o

Kat- I know what you mean... I also find that certain positions are making me more breathless too now that bubs is bigger, and I feel like im going to pass out!.

DH got employee of the month last month and as a result we got a night away at a 5star hotel... we have a year to use it, so Im not sure If I want to use it now, or wait till Ive had bubs and have recovered, gotten someone to look after the two little ones so we can really enjoy it!.

[mixy]

leece- welcome lol

Jordan-yep i get that bhx that last ages nd some times really hurts, but as Alison said it wont hurt bub and it wont start labour unless you were going to go anyway (note for in about 7 or 8 weeks time)

Ok off to try and 'do' my home work:laughing:

[kymmy]

I have a question. When I 'O' (not very often haha) my whole belly tenses and bub feels like a really hard ball does this happen to anyone else?




Yes! Its very weird.

[preciousbabyboy]

ok, i havent been following this thread :shame: so sorry if this has been asked or somthing along the lines has been mentioned but it is oh so long and i dont have time to read back on all the threads lol.

I have a really bad vein running through one side of my vulva, TMI i know but it feels as though my vagina is about to fall out of my legs :o So, this has only happend since being preg with this lil one :yes: I usually wax down there as a personal preference, but am too scared to as its so swollen (and hard to get to with a big belly). I know its partly because of the overgrown state down there and partly cos of the vein being so uncomfortable but......its been 2 months at least since we had sex and i miss it lots, but cant bring myself to it iykwim? :crying::hissy:

[KatieLou]

How did you go with your homework Mickie? :p

PBB - yep, we've decided that the swelling is normal - not pretty, but normal all the same. As is the bits turning a lovely shade of purple. I haven't heard of the vein before, but I'm sure it's along the same lines as the swelling and the change of colour - just b/c of all of the extra hormones down there. It's not pretty is it, and I'm a little embarrased for dh to see it and also my waxing girl, but I figure dh will take what he can get, and my waxing girl has waxed lots of preggie ladies so she must know that it all turns weird.

[mixy]

im gald katie could help you with that PBB

Ok so i did my homework!!! lol FINALLY!!!! i would give it a B+ since we are now self assesing! lol even climaxed, so no complaints thats for sure, but having the SPD made for it being alittle more difficult! but its done, now to set my self more homework before it gets out of hand (no pune intended!!!) again!

[sierrasmum]

PBB- As ive mentioned to these ladies before, I used to do the waxing down there for ladies when I was a beauty therapist. Any way I have seen a few with fairly large veins down there from being pregnant!. They have all mentioned them being a little painfull too!.
And as Kat has mentioned, swelling is quite normal too, along with the purple colour coming into it... Not fair really, I mean, dont we have to go through enough without the embarrassment too?. I could say the same for actually giving birth :laughing:.

:thumbsup:Mickie!! Im letting everyone down as I still havent attempted my homework.. nose is still running, not a big turn on!.

[preciousbabyboy]

PBB- As ive mentioned to these ladies before, I used to do the waxing down there for ladies when I was a beauty therapist. Any way I have seen a few with fairly large veins down there from being pregnant!. They have all mentioned them being a little painfull too!.
And as Kat has mentioned, swelling is quite normal too, along with the purple colour coming into it... Not fair really, I mean, dont we have to go through enough without the embarrassment too?. I could say the same for actually giving birth :laughing:.

:thumbsup:Mickie!! Im letting everyone down as I still havent attempted my homework.. nose is still running, not a big turn on!.


thanks for that :hugs: it is very embarrassing :o

[KatieLou]

Yay Mickie! :D

[mixy]

Thank-you :D
and alison there is still time! you will be coming in here for a good few wekks yet, just keep trying it will happen!

[sierrasmum]

Mickie, my problem is that even when im feeling better I think im just too big lol!. I will have a good go though :laughing:

PBB- No worries!!:hugs:Its good that we have this thread to talk about this stuff, cause its not something people bring up in every day convo!, and unless you hear about it you tend to feel like your the only one!!.

Attempted to 'trim' down there yesterday... what a laugh!, couldn't see a think so guessed!. Going by feel I think I got most of it... Im just glad that I didn't cut anything else!

[youngmum2b90]

sierrasmum - i no that feeling about guessing... i said to DF that i needed to go get a wax cos i was too scared i would cut something else :laughing:

I am pleased to report (possibly b/c we were in OUR house) but had a good night!! for a change... I managed to get into a few diff possitions.. i had to think though "how stupid do i look" being "fat" :laughing:

[sierrasmum]

lol, I try really hard not to think 'fat' thoughts, but it can be hard!!.

[youngmum2b90]

It is very hard some days, as i feel really fat haha like i can barley move (& i still have ages to go as well) HAHA

it doesnt help that u are trying 2 get into a mood or in the middle of something and u have this little thing inside u kicking and moving....

[sierrasmum]

I know what you mean... this bubs always seems to know when DH and I want to go at it lol!

[Mermum]

Hi, it's so funny at work when I have Bub Hub up on my computer with Problems with Sex? I have to quickly hide it so I dont get picked on haha
Oh deary I have booked myself in for a brazilian on Friday and I am terrified,:eek:
I'm so hairy and my DP who is who's not so darling right now says "gee you're really hairy" has made me paranoid!

I might just opt for a G-string wax..

[hayleysmummy]

leece- welcome lol

Jordan-yep i get that bhx that last ages nd some times really hurts, but as Alison said it wont hurt bub and it wont start labour unless you were going to go anyway (note for in about 7 or 8 weeks time)

Ok off to try and 'do' my home work:laughing:

Thanx ladies it scared me and started to put me off thinking I might go into labour so I'd just let DP do his thing while I layed there so I didnt orgasm because I thought bub didnt like it

So if DP behaves he might get some again in the distant future :D

[sierrasmum]

:laughing:Your DP will think its his birthday Jordan lol.

[youngmum2b90]

i am trying to bring my self up the courage to book a wax!! altho DP said same thing... "your really hairy, are u gonna do something soon?" its like :O thanks alot!! haha

[sierrasmum]

Easy for them!, they dont have to do it!!. Being female is so much more maintenance!

[haileye]

Easy for them!, they dont have to do it!!. Being female is so much more maintenance!


Oh I agree.... before I was preg, I was a regular waxer... now I have just let everything go... I went to get my eyebrows waxed the other day and it didn't hurt as much as it use to (one side always hurts more than the other) so I'm thinking that my pain threshold is a little more tolerant at the moment... so I may try to get in for a wax over the next week or so...

I managed to get "a leg over" I think it was put.. once on the weekend (early morning session) and once tuesday afternoon...
although I feel really guilty for not being able to do it more often **TMI ALERT** but if we have a dry spell for a few weeks DP can't seem to last very long.... LOL:laughing:
sshhh.... don't mention it to him, but I don't mind because it means my hips and back don't start to ache..

[sierrasmum]

:laughing:Haileye, dont worry, your secret is safe with me... DH has the same problem, and I dont mind at the moment either!.Being this pregnant I dont want it to go for ages, but it would be nice to atleast have it!!.

[preciousbabyboy]

i am trying to bring my self up the courage to book a wax!! altho DP said same thing... "your really hairy, are u gonna do something soon?" its like :O thanks alot!! haha


lol, i know the feeling youngmum2b90 i am getting the same questions :laughing:

Well i have just bought myself to waxing down there this arvo! So proud, even if i do have to do the othr side tonight when the kids go to bed (if i can bring myself to it) IT BLOODY HURT after so long not doing it.......YEOUCH:crying:

[mixy]

Well i must say :ecomcity: lol

hubby seems to have come down with some thing, so he can stay away!

:smiliedance:PBB for gettin half done, you may want to finish it though, i know my hubby would fall off the bed laughing if i opened my legs with only half done!!

Any who, i just wanted to say that a another good possion is pilling up all your pillows against the bed head, you lean back on to then and hubby leans on the bed head, its like mitionary but sitting up. I used it with DD not so much with DS but that is how we did it that last time, and it was so much easier, maybe something to try.

[preciousbabyboy]

lol mixy, our bed head is like over 1m tall! i cant see it working :confused:

lol, *cringe* yep i will! DP would too!:laughing:

[mixy]

i tried to help, gee! :laughing:

[preciousbabyboy]

thanks:hugs:

Wish me luck, attempt number 2! :crying:

[Mia]

just what this thread needs, live updates on waxing and sex positions lol!

[preciousbabyboy]

:laughing: I have only just joined in to ask the other girls a few questions. from what i have got so far its about that and more!

[Mermum]

I had a terrible time at the beauticians. I asked for the hot wax when I booked in and she said 'yes I have done lots of pregnant women before'..
I didn't realise but out of the blue she slapped the strip wax onto my bikini line and wrrrip!!!
I screamed and my tummy when into the tight little contracted ball and hurt. It's like my uterus reacted to the shock of the pain I felt in my upper bikini line, it was tight & contracted & hurt for a good minute or two.
I'm not sure what it was, it was like my tummy muscles were trying to protect the baby...but I was so worried the baby might have been squashed and so I freaked out and in pain. I got up and had a breather and then it subsided. Then the baby moved.
After that I let her have a go with the gentler hot wax ( I rarely get waxed) and it was fine on the lower bikini away from my tummy.
Two things: 1 BEWARE the strip wax especially if you have sensitive skin or rarely get waxed like me.
and 2 has anyone ever had their tummy squeeze or contract like this before, is it normal??
Is it a contraction or a braxton hick???

Also in the spot where she used the strip wax I got a big blue black bruise or blood vessel, not sure what, weird and the wax job is very uneven, I think I might put in a complaint.

(sorry its not about sex, but I certainly don't feel like any right now..I just want hugs and sympathy)

[haileye]

OMG!!! mermum... I hope this doesn't put you off waxing in the future...
Where did you go to get this done? I would definately put in a complaint, if they say that they have done pregnant women before you would think that they would know not to shock the belly area like that...
She should of also given you some warning before pulling off the strip so that you were prepared.

Hope the bruising goes away.:hugs: to you.

[youngmum2b90]

OMG, mermum!!! I hope the bruising goes away!! i would deff make a complaint:hugs:
i have been trying to talk my self into it... now i am scared, i tend to nt get a wax much... but was hoping to soon...

Hope everyone has had a good weekend
i tried something today to see if we could do something different and see if he was still interested.... So i got a bonus went for ages, was REALLY Good :D AND i got a back massage outta it :yelclap:YAY!!!

[Mermum]

Thanks girls for the support, yes it was horrible, it's been playing on my mind all weekend (hoping baby is ok, she has been kicking which is good), as I am a first time Mum I wasn't sure what i went through and have since done a Google and realised it was probably a really intense Braxton Hick brought on by the shock and pain.
I rang today to talk to the boss, but the girl who did it answered the phone and said the boss wasn't in today and could she help and asked me what it was about, I said "no I'll talk to the boss later"
Young mum: The hot wax that is more gentle, the lower areas didn't seem to cause the same stress as the upper bikini line closer to belly with shocking chunk of 'strip wax' she used.
Haileye: I'll probably give it a go again although not sure if while I am pregnant, although I half want to go back and get the other side evened up with a different beautician, it looks so horrid and patchy.

[sierrasmum]

I had a terrible time at the beauticians. I asked for the hot wax when I booked in and she said 'yes I have done lots of pregnant women before'..
I didn't realise but out of the blue she slapped the strip wax onto my bikini line and wrrrip!!!
I screamed and my tummy when into the tight little contracted ball and hurt. It's like my uterus reacted to the shock of the pain I felt in my upper bikini line, it was tight & contracted & hurt for a good minute or two.
I'm not sure what it was, it was like my tummy muscles were trying to protect the baby...but I was so worried the baby might have been squashed and so I freaked out and in pain. I got up and had a breather and then it subsided. Then the baby moved.
After that I let her have a go with the gentler hot wax ( I rarely get waxed) and it was fine on the lower bikini away from my tummy.
Two things: 1 BEWARE the strip wax especially if you have sensitive skin or rarely get waxed like me.
and 2 has anyone ever had their tummy squeeze or contract like this before, is it normal??
Is it a contraction or a braxton hick???

Also in the spot where she used the strip wax I got a big blue black bruise or blood vessel, not sure what, weird and the wax job is very uneven, I think I might put in a complaint.

(sorry its not about sex, but I certainly don't feel like any right now..I just want hugs and sympathy)

:hugs: Sounds to me like she didnt support the area enough when pulling off the wax, or she pulled it off in an upwards motion rather than across, which can cause bruising, and by the sounds of it she must have been if she didn't do a thorough job even with the hot wax!. I personally dont like using strip wax down there, and she should have asked before using it!.

Deffinitely complain!

[kymmy]

Gosh don't think I am brave enough for someone to wax me.
Hubby is lovely and doesn't comment....

[sierrasmum]

Kymmy, its probably best that you dont start, otherwise he might expect it then!.
Actually DH is really good about it too, hes married to a beauty therapist who is probably hairier than most beauty therapists lol!. Atleast during pregnancy anyway!.

Mickie- Will give that possy a go :laughing: when DH and I are well enough anyway! (yep, finally gave him my cold!)

[Mermum]

Hi Everyone
Well I spoke to the boss of the Beauty Salon responsible for that disaster wax and she offered my two free waxes with a different girl.. I am terrified to go back to be honest (unless its for pregnancy massage),she said she can't apologize enough which was nice. It's hard to make up for the stress I have felt since tho.
Baby is kicking and doctor said we are fine.
I may go back to atleast have it neatened up as it looks like a patchwork quilt down there.

not sexy.

[youngmum2b90]

Thats good mermum!!

I have decided to ring and make an appointment for today!! wish me luck haha i am scared!

[mixy]

mermum- that sounds horrible :hugs: to you, and it still does nto look nice! i am so glad to hear that you made a complaint! and yeah i would say that you were having a BHx from the fear/pain, bubba will be fine, although i can understand your stress.

Well you may have read in the other thread about what happened after we had sex last time, i had what looked like a show, nothing since, and no contrations, or anything, so my midwife said that during sex he couls have knocked the cervix and that loosened it alittle.... :fingerscrossed: thats all it was:) gosh does not make me want to do it again!

[haileye]

That seems like an ok outcome MERMUM.. although I don't blame you for not being sure if you want to go back..

On the subject of waxing...
Mickie... did you end up going and getting it done.. if so did you go see Amanda?
I keep putting off making an appointment... especially after reading mermum's experience..
Knowing my luck by the time I make an app, I will end up going into labour and it will be too late.

Hmm... I wonder if she will come up and do it at the hospital after I have my epidural.... LOL

[youngmum2b90]

Hey! i finally got a wax, lady was really nice and she was 5 months preg so we talked the whole time!!!
i dnt no what i was scared of haha!!

Mickie - do u no if that is common?? i worry about that sorta stuff! Atleast u havent had any other signs of bub coming early!

[sierrasmum]

Glad you got that sorted out Mermum!. My old boss was a real cheap skate and might have offered you a re-wax or a discount, but only if you had gone back straight away... Im glad I dont work there anymore!.

Mickie- Thats good that you havent had any more problems... I have read that you can have bleeding after sex and that its normal, but hadn't heard anything about getting a 'show' so Im glad it was nothing!. I dont blame you for not wanting to do it again though!, I probably wouldn't want to either!.

Re waxing- My legs are soo hairy!, I need them, my eyebrows and my bikini done, but have been putting off going to someone else as I usually do it all myself. Just cant see what im doing, so have been trimming, which is scary blind!.
Maybe I will just book in for next week, and DH can just deal about spending the money. I think hes gotten away without having to pay for any of that stuff for a while, so a couple of times before bubs comes really shouldn't hurt his wallet too much!.

Leece- Sounds like you had a good experience which is nice!. I know when I was preg with Sierra and still working I used to get carried away with baby talk with the other preg women that would come in. It was great :D

[youngmum2b90]

DF wanted me to get it done so badly haha he even offered to pay for me to get hair done and a massage as well!! (im taking advantage of that hehe)
i asked them if the massage was suitable for pregnant women so next week i might go get that done!! :) hehe

[sierrasmum]

I wish my DH would tell me to go and get my hair done as well!, god knows it needs it!. Very envious here! lol

[Mermum]

Thankyou Lovelies for all your support, it has really helped!
It also helped me get the confidence to put in that complaint. I used some of your advice when explaining what happened Sierra's Mum, she did wrip upwards.
I'm glad yours went well Youngmum!
We deserve to be pampered cos its such a fragile time being pregnant.
It sounds like we can get symptoms and the B Hicks from all sorts including sex and I guess we just have to be gentle on ourselves and call the shots whenever we can:hugs:. Big hugs all round.
You can't half tell I am all mushy and emotional- I have been like this since day one of being preggas, along with worrying...
Ah and sex with my DP..one of these days...maybe

[mixy]

leece- i dont think is it common at all, but can happen, does that make sence?

Hailey, nope still hairy as! if i did not have a baby coming (you know kinda the reason that its a problem!) i would have the money! i need every thing that Alison/sierrasmum needs, i keep telling DH that now im a 'homebirthing hippy' i dont need to keep all that up :laughing: he says im trying to compete with him when it comes to hairy legs!!! lol the poor thing!

Mermum, i just wish you did not have to go through all that to start with. hey im pretty soppy and emotional all the time to!

[sierrasmum]

Mermum- Thought she must have... we had a therapist join our salon for about a month... Im surprised she lasted that long!. We had that many complaints of women being bruised and having hair left there it was rediculous!, this was at one of our smaller salons and it was run by a young girl, who put this other girl on without checking to see if she was competent, and they had her doing brazillians!, I shudder at the thought!.
Anyway I told the manager to actually watch this other girl do a wax, and she was ripping the wax upwards :no:. Turns out she wasn't really trained properly.

Anyway, that doesn't happen very often as most places are really strict when hiring girls and want years of experience.. and if they dont have years then they are not usually put onto brazillian waxes!.

Sorry about the :ecomcity:. It just annoyes me when that kind of thing happens!.

:hugs:right back to ya mermum!. Dont worry we are all mushy at times!.

Mickie- I think I have my DH beat!, maybe not on the amount of hair, but the length :eek:. Speaking of the devil, he just got home... must be time to bribe him with something so I can bring up the waxing thing!:p

[youngmum2b90]

ok so i wanna ask a question... nt quite sex related, but body related!!! hope thats ok!!

Since i been preg i have noticed my boobs changing alot! which is ok, although i dont know what happens after bubba??
like atm my boobs are atleast 2 cup sizes bigger but they arnt full looking any more like before is this normal?? :confused:

thanks :ecomcity:

[sierrasmum]

Sorry, cant help with this one... My cup size is still the same!!. I feel a little ripped off personally as I didn't have big boobs to start with!.

[AmyLou]

Hmm all this waxing talk is making me get psyched up to have it done again! i really miss not having it done and it really only hurts for a second once ripped off.. I also have a half price voucher that i received as this next time is my 10th visit... i just think i need to do it!

Hey Al maybe we can all come over and have a waxing party! haha you sound like you know what you are doing!

[sierrasmum]

:laughing: Not sure I have ever heard waxing and party put in the same sentence before... unless it was getting waxed for a party lol.

My mum has been pestering me to start it up again from home, I should probably think more seriously about it, but its hard with Sierra running around.

[CCsSurprise]

Leece my boobs have changed every time I have been pg and that's normal. Your boobs won't look full atm as they have changed in order to produce the milk that bub will require. The glands and milk ducts spring into action and unfortunately it changes the shape of your previously 'full' set. Once things have settled after bub is born you will find that they aren't that big anymore and will maybe even reduce further in size over time.

I got back to a B cup before DD was born and then ended up a D maternity. Luckily they went down to a normal C but now they're back to a maternity D again...it's frustrating but I know that I will eventually get my 'old' boobs back.

[youngmum2b90]

Thanks Judy, i started at a normal D (which was quiet big enough) now im up to a maternity DD/E i just hope they go back to a normal D or something that would be nice, anything bigger is just pain full....

[mixy]

yeah boobies change lots while pregnant, then maybe some more while feeding, but once they are finished nurishing your beautiful bubba you wont remember what they were like before :laughing:

[EquineMum]

Sorry, cant help with this one... My cup size is still the same!!. I feel a little ripped off personally as I didn't have big boobs to start with!.

Yep....me too! I thought I was alone on this one....everyone I know that's been PG has gone up at least a cup size or two! DH is not impressed.....he's been quietly hoping for a 'boob explosion' since we found out we were PG :laughing: cuz mine weren't that big to start with either!! Luckily for me though he's originally a leg man and not a boob man.....I still got good pins!! :laughing: :yelclap:

[sierrasmum]

:laughing:Kayls!, thats funny about your DH!. I think mine was hoping too, but didn't get his hopes up too high as they didn't get any bigger the first time I was pregnant!.
My poor DH, I dont have good legs either... not sure what it is about me that does it for me... so im going to say its my sparkling personality :laughing::rolleyes:

[youngmum2b90]

:laughing: You ladies are funny!!
Unfortunatly DF is DEFFINATLY a bobbie guy! i dont no how i am gonna go once bubba is born n bubba gets the boobies :laughing:

DF is enjoying the extra size but i cant say much for my back :no:

[sierrasmum]

DH and I had a convo about breastfeeding this arvo, and he said that if I cant breastfeed not to worry, he would make sure my boobies were still wanted. :rolleyes: Men!.

[youngmum2b90]

Haha yes MEN!

[AmyLou]

Hi Ladies!

Well i finally did it and went and had a wax, ouch is a good word to describe it but it does only hurt for a few seconds.. A little disappointed with the outcome as it's a little uneven, well quite a lot but will get it fixed up next time! This time i am not going to let it get bad, it looks so much neater when waxed so i gotta keep it up!

[sierrasmum]

I love the feeling of when you just get waxed... but apart from when I was working, I never get it done often enough :no:

DH and I finally did our 'homework' last night... not sure what it rated... I was just impressed i was even up for it :laughing:. Makes me realise that I dont think I will be able to do it much longer, it was so awkward! and bubs kicked the whole time!

[youngmum2b90]

:laughing: i know that feeling awkward and bub kicking!!

Go on u for doing ur "homework" any ways :D

Plus with all these probs i thinking maybe best to put a rest to it for now!! :yes: keep my bubba in for a bit longer!!

[mixy]

so im going to say its my sparkling personality :laughing::rolleyes:
:laughing:

Leece i understand im on a 'no homework' thing at the moment to, guess what you and me will be doing (well not together!!!) once 35 weeks gets here!!!!!! lol

[youngmum2b90]

:laughing: Yeah. I think by 35 weeks bubba can come out when ever it likes :yes:

The Midwife told me she doesnt think i will make it much past 36 weeks
but i can live with that :D

[mixy]

I hate it when ppl make coments like that, although you have shown signs of PTL you may very well go over due, and i promise you if that happens you will wish she kept her big mouth shut!!!! (can you tell i have gone 'over due' with both my kids!!!!) lol

[youngmum2b90]

yeah i am thinking that... i would rather bub go over to be honnest!!!
i am leaking again today tho with a constant lower (period like) pain... so i am nt gonna stress will just see what comes of it!!

[Mia]

Yep, it's amazing how often people say "ooh, I reckon you'll go early" and then you go on mat leave and wait...and wait...and go overdue...and get induced...! That said it is always so tempting to think you are gonna go a bit early, isn't it?

[sierrasmum]

Just lost what I posted :p

So need sleep!!.

:iagree:0n the going over bit... hopefully leece you will get to be pregnant a little bit longer than what they reckon.. I was told I was going to go early with Sierra and was one of those that ended up going over a week and being induced :laughing:.

I am thinking no more homework for me either... I just feel too big and awkward... I guess I will just see how I am feeling.

[GeorgiaAnne]

I was also told i'd go early and waited for 10 days :rolleyes:

[EquineMum]

To those who have been doing their "homework" :D and those who have been finding it "challenging" to say the least :laughing: - I can attest to the latter! We don't get to do much more than shower and cuddle together at the moment, so the intimacy is still there....but not the "act" (so to speak!) :D And here's the TMI ALERT!!!

Last weekend I finally thought "stuff this, I can do it!!" and quickly got into the swing of things with DH until it came to actually getting it IN....we tried me on top (can't lean forward at all, belly in the way!), we tried me sitting on his lap and leaning back on my hands, so belly wasn't in the way (kept coming out!) and finally ended up with him behind me....with many awkward position changes in between! We almost gave up half way through cuz it was all just too difficult! :( Sheesh! What's a girl to do?!?!!? :rolleyes:

Anyone want to share positions that have worked for them?! Curious minds want to know!!!

:yelclap:

Kayls

[Mia]

Well our strike rate is terrible, of course, but side by side facing each other, spoon from the back and doggie can work? Missionary doesn't work for the lying on back reason and I am not a fan of going on top due to general laziness, ineptitude and SPD, haha!

[mixy]

yeah leece since you have had the steriod shots and stuff, you might as well rest and see what happens

[mixy]

positions... gee i cant rememeber!!! lol, we have used many times pilling up pillows on the bed hed and me kinda in a sitting/semi-reclind possition, also me lying on the bed with my bottom off, he kneels on the floor in front of you, does that make sence, it is really good for gettign the right angle (we found that really inportant after bubs)

[sierrasmum]

Someone ought to write a Karma Sutra for pregnant women :laughing:... or is there one already and Im just missing out!?

This coming from someone who doesn't have a copy of the Karma Sutra for when im not pregnant lol... but when im not pregnant sex isn't an issue :laughing:.

[PinkAngel]

Ok ladies I am drawing on all of your mummy experience here...

Be prepared for TMI... don't say I didn't warn you :)

This morning when I went for wees I did the usual TP check and there was a small amount of a yellowy/green amount of thickish discharge. It would have been about the size of half a smartie (weird comparison I know).... do you think this could be my plug? :eek: or even thrush.... i have never had thrush before... there are no other symptoms... just that one tiny amount with the slight green tinge against the white paper... oh and im very very achey in my pelvic bone!

Any advice would be appreciated... if it was a little of my plug does this mean I could have the baby soon? :eek:

[mixy]

Be prepared for TMI... don't say I didn't warn you :)

Honey this is the home of TMI!!!!

your plug would usually be more than that, more than likely it was just another lovely pregnancy suprise:) although if you are worried you could ring the hospital and chat to a midwife.... dont forget bubs is growing so much now, very soon it wont matter if s/he is born:)

[PinkAngel]

Oh thank you Mickie :hugs: you know I am THE worrier of the group!

I will keep an eye on things... it was a discharge consistency, little thick... is the plug usually 'snottish' like LOL

[Jel]

pink - it's probably just va discharge - it increases from now on.
if it was the plug it'd be a pink/brown colour
just keep an eye on it. :D

[youngmum2b90]

Pink - i wouldnt be to worried at the moment as Jel said if it was Pink/brown in colour i would be more worried!!
Maybe go get it checked out if u are worried!

well i have been pretty good, other than lack of sleep... I wish the dam contractions would go away completely. Making life hard when it comes to trying 2 get close to DF!!!

He has been pretty good actually, i am very happy that i have him :)

[sierrasmum]

Lisa- Doesn't sound like the plug to me... I try not to worry about discharge so much while pregnant unless its really weird looking or smelling as mine varies a lot! Im probably too relaxed lol!.

Leece- Its good that your DF is understanding... it def makes life abit easier. I think some men need to understand that its not just ourselves we are looking out for anymore!!.
My DH is really understanding and caring too. I told him that as its his birthday on Wed I would see how im feeling and he might get lucky :laughing:. It will probably be the last time for a while!.

[youngmum2b90]

:laughing:atleast he is good!!

Yeah i think u better be nice to him on his birthday, i think DF was hoping his bday was some time soon!! :yes:

[sierrasmum]

haha, yeah... I better get something good when mine comes around:p

[loz10]

Ladies, I too will be doing the Business once I get to around 36 weeks or so, I have the damn roids putting things off at the moment :o!!

I will make the effort to be a good wifey towards the end as DH knows there will be a drought after that LOL. I remember starting to think about it again approx 4 weeks after the birth and each time it was so nerve racking especially if u had stitches. But, you so much want to feel normal again or slightly attractive and like a woman and not a baby machine :).

[sierrasmum]

Yeah I think I was back in action by 4 weeks... I know what you mean by wanting to feel normal and not a baby machine lol. My problem is that I still didn't feel that sexy by then though cause of my flabby belly!. DH didn't mind as he was still getting some :laughing:. I think it does them good to have to wait for it, it makes them appreciate it more :p

Hope the roids clear up soon Loz!, I havent had them before but I have heard they can be very painfull!!.
I remember in hospi last time they checked me for them after giving birth in case the strain brought some out... no one had mentioned that part to me :laughing:, luckily though I didn't have any!

[KatieLou]

Oh hell, it's dh's b'day in Oct - I'm guessing I should be a good wife and give him some. This has crept up on me - I wasn't expecting to have a 'do by' date :laughing:

DH is home this weekend for good - I'm guessing he'll want a bit regularly then. I can't really be bothered. It's so swollen down there (I think - I can't actually see) that finding any spot with nerve endings is going to be difficult :(

[Mia]

Well. We were doing a bit of "homework" last night when DS woke up and started crying and stumbling around and he vomited hugely so we spent a while cleaning him and ourselves up and the floor (lucky it's wooden!) and then couldn't be bothered having another go. Then DS woke and was crook and miserable again two hours later! So a rough night all in all.

[haileye]

well i hit 36 weeks on tuesday august 5th,
so guess what I'm gonna be getting up too.... LOL:laughing:

It's not because I want baby here sooner I'm loving being pregnant... but I just want that normal feeling back again where I can sleep on my tummy and walk like a normal person and not like a duck!:laughing:

[mixy]

Oh hell, it's dh's b'day in Oct - I'm guessing I should be a good wife and give him some. This has crept up on me - I wasn't expecting to have a 'do by' date :laughing:

DH is home this weekend for good - I'm guessing he'll want a bit regularly then. I can't really be bothered. It's so swollen down there (I think - I can't actually see) that finding any spot with nerve endings is going to be difficult :(

stuff that, give him a hand/head job in oct, you dont need to be worrying about your yoni that soon after the birth!!!

Well. We were doing a bit of "homework" last night when DS woke up and started crying and stumbling around and he vomited hugely so we spent a while cleaning him and ourselves up and the floor (lucky it's wooden!) and then couldn't be bothered having another go. Then DS woke and was crook and miserable again two hours later! So a rough night all in all.

oh dear, not nice:no:

[mixy]

well i hit 36 weeks on tuesday august 5th,
so guess what I'm gonna be getting up too.... LOL:laughing:

It's not because I want baby here sooner I'm loving being pregnant... but I just want that normal feeling back again where I can sleep on my tummy and walk like a normal person and not like a duck!:laughing:
I found i had trouble sleeping on by tummy while i was BFing to but at east i could sleep in every other position, unlike now, when i have 2 positions, right side and left side:(

[AmyLou]

Your hilarious mixy!

[youngmum2b90]

mickie :laughing: you really know how to make me laugh!!!

Mia - that was not a good night at all! :hugs:

KAT i agree with mickie tho... u dnt need to be worrying about that stuff so soon after!

Well i had a good night last night!! i really enjoyed it last night, i wasnt going to give in till i had seen my Ob tomorrow :laughing:
but he just did everything right last night!! :yes:

He started with a back rub (OMG sooo needed after all the back probs)!! :thumbsup:

ok enough :ecomcity: 4 me

[KatieLou]

Mickie :laughing: lol - gee you make me laugh! I fear he's a little bored of the hand/head option though - I've been playing that card for about the last 4 months!

Mia - oh no - not good!

Hailey - I agree about wanting to feel kind of normal again. Good luck with the homework, hopefully it gets results for you.

Leece - you lucky thing! :D

[sierrasmum]

Well. We were doing a bit of "homework" last night when DS woke up and started crying and stumbling around and he vomited hugely so we spent a while cleaning him and ourselves up and the floor (lucky it's wooden!) and then couldn't be bothered having another go. Then DS woke and was crook and miserable again two hours later! So a rough night all in all.

What a rough night!, poor thing!. Nothing like a sick child to put you right out of the mood!, hope you DS is feeling better soon!.

Mickie- You crack me up!:laughing:.

Good luck Hailey!;)

Leece- Sounds like you had a good night!

Well DH still didn't get any last night on his birthday lol... we were both so tired that the subject didn't even come up! (no pun intended!) Ohwell, maybe tonight!?

[haileye]

Well I guess my "homework" started earlier than I expected...
I've been holding out so much lately because I was feeling a little yucky with discharge etc... that last night I managed to have a bath and relax, then when I went to bed and DP came to cuddle I accidentally brushed his soldier when I was turning over... and well, lets just say that was enough to get DP in the mood.:p
(Not that he could last long... LOL:laughing:)

Here's a *TMI* question for you ladies who are managing to get some....
Do you sleep with a towel beside the bed for afterwards or during the act?
:o

[PinkAngel]

You girls are making me smile this morning...

Haileye I loved the 'brushed past his soldier' comment...

No attempt to do homework here :( feeling like a huge unattractive whale... :(

[haileye]

Pink....
Avoid ALL mirrors.... they lie!!!!
Your not a whale...
:hugs::hugs::hugs:

[PinkAngel]

Pink....
Avoid ALL mirrors.... they lie!!!!
Your not a whale...
:hugs::hugs::hugs:

:laughing: :laughing: I definitely needed that....

:hugs:

[sierrasmum]

:iagree:All mirrors should be smashed for being evill!.

Nice work Haileye :laughing:, sounds like you and DH had a good night;), you might want to be carefull of brushing shoulders in future though unless you want more kids! :p

Oh, and dont worry, Ive been known to have a towel on standby :laughing:

[youngmum2b90]

:laughing::laughing:Pink - deff not a whale!! altho i must admit i get that feeling as well!! it doesnt help we have two HUGE wall to floor mirrors along a WHOLE WALL!!!

Hailey -sounds like a good night!!!
in answer to your question haha yes towel is on standby at end of bed :laughing:

btw doc said it was ok for sex and shouldnt affect anything as long as it doesnt make tightenings worse!! dam there goes that excuse!! :laughing:

[haileye]

We definately want another one, but preferably not for another 18 - 24 months, so that means I would have to try not to brush past his soldier for another 9 - 15 months...
Now how do you suppose I do that... LOL
The females in my family have the "rabbit" gene, we are all very fertile!!!

As for now, my thoughts are if I can give him all that he needs or I can handle before the baby comes then I won't feel so guilty when I can't give it to him afterwards because I have a feeling that I will look like a cavewomen with hair all over the place, sleep in my eyes and a baby hanging from my boob while wearing a stained tank top and trackies...

Gee thats an attractive look come to think of it. If he still wants it when I look that bad then I know I've got a keeper.... LOL:laughing:

[kymmy]

Yeah not sure how things will be after bub arrives. Hopefully he will be just as tired.

[sierrasmum]

Haileye I think I look that bad on days now!!, so I must have a keeper!:laughing:.
I sorta feel the same that If DH gets as much as possible now then I wont feel so guilty later!. Mind you last time I think I told him not to even mention sex for a while!.

Oh, and maybe you could get some shoulder pads :laughing:, might help keeping DH away untill your ready to have another lol!!.

Leece, those mirrors sound scary!.

Well, DH probably wont get any tonight either, Im exhausted, going to go to bed early!.
Have a nice night ladies!