~MUMMY~
10-04-2006, 08:28
OMG i dont know where to start but my ex has gone completely BONKERS !!! the things he came out with the other day made me speachless !!!
first i want to rage and vent because he is such an *** and put my son in potential danger !!!!!!!!!
he had dom for the weekend friday till sunday. anyways on friday dom got jumped on by a rottie dog and injured his leg and couldnt walk ! so what does EX do... nothing....
then on the saturday FINALLY he took notice dom could NOT walk at all !!! so got his friend to check him out (who is not a doctor he is a fricken VET !!! what the gunna know about kids... GRRRR) and he took the VETS word for it and agreed it wasnt serious ! Finally on the saturday night i get a phone call telling me what happend except it was very limited so i didnt know the seriousness till sunday when my baby came home and couldnt even walk up the 3 stair we have !!! my ex showd me the injurys , a tiny bruise on the leg and i said thats sooooo not the problem look at the way he is standing and attempting to walk SIDEWAYS !!! its his hip take him to the doctors hopsital physio SOMEWHERE to get it checked out... ( i dont drive so i couldnt) anyways he said wait a while see if it improves then call me and i will come back over and take him if it doesnt get better.... so like 2 hours later i said its not better come get him... which he replyed.... I CANT I HAVE BEEN DRINKING....:banghead: what kind of father is he !!! ARGHHHHH !!!
anyways enouh about him GRRRRR back to the stupid things he said.... LOL this vent is going to go for ages... so get comfy !:rolleyes:
we had a chat yesterday arvo and he was telling me he wanted another baby and was going to have another kid !!! i asked why and he said because he wants one and is going to find someone to give him another baby (AND HE WAS SERIOUS)
i had to say... hold on... how about you look after the kid you already have!!! anyways i know this friend he has (they tryed to have a relationship 1 week after he left me..:mad: but it didnt work) and her first kid was basically from some guy as a sperm doner nothing more she just wanted a kid and he agreed so she got her baby and i know as a fact she wants more in the same way she got her first !
and my ex and this girl ALWAYS hang out together even though they say they are just friends. anyways it took a good hour to convince him thats a stupid idea and he should learn to care for the kid he already has instead of bringing more into this world and that fact that some chick is NOT going to have a baby and just give it to you... (what a dumb ***)
i really dont like him anymore... he is such a jerk when he is here and he is always saying ohh i cant help it im still inlove with you blah blah blah( HE WALKED OUT ON ME .. yeah ok that makes sense) and he then tells me about all these chicks and girls and i can see he is making an effort to took good again getting his hair done and buying nice clothes and about how he likes this other chick and all that.... he is purposly trying to make me jealous ! which im not but i wish he would stop being so crule. sometimes i wish i can just move away so he is out of my life completely but thats not fare on our 3 year old who is totaly a daddys boy. we arnt even in the same house anymore yet whenever i have to see his stupid face he always makes me cry some way or another ! saying crule things or just being plain mean ! AND TRYING TO BLAME THE WHOLE HIM WALKING OUT ON ME MAKING IT MY FAULT !~ ohh and he tells everyone i broke it off with him and kicked him out and i was mean to him and was a ***** and all that stuff..... even his mother didnt know the truth till i told her when she called me ! he only left because (well this is my theory and it is so close to the truth its not even funny) because he wanted this other chick. but it didnt work out so now the blame is on me because he doesnt want to sound stupid saying he left me for another girl and it didnt work! ohhh and he regrets it... GOOD I HOPE HE NEVER FORGETS IT EITHER. i hope it eats away at him for the rest of his life that he is a family ruiner and it is HIS fault our family broke appart !!! there wasnt any real reason for him leaving... thats the reason... he is so stupid !!!! ohh then he made up some other excuses later on so he could pretend he had a real reason !
* i couldnt handle the kid
* we was always fighting
* i hate having no money (well if you'd STOP applying for credit cards and maxing them out and buying 2 cars and 4 car sterios in only 4 years then you wouldnt have been in so much debt !!!)
ok im done...lol i could be here all day ! he makes me soooooooooo mad sometimes !!!! ARGHHHHHHHHHHH:banghead:
first i want to rage and vent because he is such an *** and put my son in potential danger !!!!!!!!!
he had dom for the weekend friday till sunday. anyways on friday dom got jumped on by a rottie dog and injured his leg and couldnt walk ! so what does EX do... nothing....
then on the saturday FINALLY he took notice dom could NOT walk at all !!! so got his friend to check him out (who is not a doctor he is a fricken VET !!! what the gunna know about kids... GRRRR) and he took the VETS word for it and agreed it wasnt serious ! Finally on the saturday night i get a phone call telling me what happend except it was very limited so i didnt know the seriousness till sunday when my baby came home and couldnt even walk up the 3 stair we have !!! my ex showd me the injurys , a tiny bruise on the leg and i said thats sooooo not the problem look at the way he is standing and attempting to walk SIDEWAYS !!! its his hip take him to the doctors hopsital physio SOMEWHERE to get it checked out... ( i dont drive so i couldnt) anyways he said wait a while see if it improves then call me and i will come back over and take him if it doesnt get better.... so like 2 hours later i said its not better come get him... which he replyed.... I CANT I HAVE BEEN DRINKING....:banghead: what kind of father is he !!! ARGHHHHH !!!
anyways enouh about him GRRRRR back to the stupid things he said.... LOL this vent is going to go for ages... so get comfy !:rolleyes:
we had a chat yesterday arvo and he was telling me he wanted another baby and was going to have another kid !!! i asked why and he said because he wants one and is going to find someone to give him another baby (AND HE WAS SERIOUS)
i had to say... hold on... how about you look after the kid you already have!!! anyways i know this friend he has (they tryed to have a relationship 1 week after he left me..:mad: but it didnt work) and her first kid was basically from some guy as a sperm doner nothing more she just wanted a kid and he agreed so she got her baby and i know as a fact she wants more in the same way she got her first !
and my ex and this girl ALWAYS hang out together even though they say they are just friends. anyways it took a good hour to convince him thats a stupid idea and he should learn to care for the kid he already has instead of bringing more into this world and that fact that some chick is NOT going to have a baby and just give it to you... (what a dumb ***)
i really dont like him anymore... he is such a jerk when he is here and he is always saying ohh i cant help it im still inlove with you blah blah blah( HE WALKED OUT ON ME .. yeah ok that makes sense) and he then tells me about all these chicks and girls and i can see he is making an effort to took good again getting his hair done and buying nice clothes and about how he likes this other chick and all that.... he is purposly trying to make me jealous ! which im not but i wish he would stop being so crule. sometimes i wish i can just move away so he is out of my life completely but thats not fare on our 3 year old who is totaly a daddys boy. we arnt even in the same house anymore yet whenever i have to see his stupid face he always makes me cry some way or another ! saying crule things or just being plain mean ! AND TRYING TO BLAME THE WHOLE HIM WALKING OUT ON ME MAKING IT MY FAULT !~ ohh and he tells everyone i broke it off with him and kicked him out and i was mean to him and was a ***** and all that stuff..... even his mother didnt know the truth till i told her when she called me ! he only left because (well this is my theory and it is so close to the truth its not even funny) because he wanted this other chick. but it didnt work out so now the blame is on me because he doesnt want to sound stupid saying he left me for another girl and it didnt work! ohhh and he regrets it... GOOD I HOPE HE NEVER FORGETS IT EITHER. i hope it eats away at him for the rest of his life that he is a family ruiner and it is HIS fault our family broke appart !!! there wasnt any real reason for him leaving... thats the reason... he is so stupid !!!! ohh then he made up some other excuses later on so he could pretend he had a real reason !
* i couldnt handle the kid
* we was always fighting
* i hate having no money (well if you'd STOP applying for credit cards and maxing them out and buying 2 cars and 4 car sterios in only 4 years then you wouldnt have been in so much debt !!!)
ok im done...lol i could be here all day ! he makes me soooooooooo mad sometimes !!!! ARGHHHHHHHHHHH:banghead: