What to do?

[Queen]

A life long friend of mine is getting married soon.
We have recently had a major falling out, and I have not been invited to her wedding (which is fine, I really did not expect too, and thats not the issue)

I am wondering if I should send her a gift or card, or just let it pass?

[gizmoduckus]

I think it would be nice just to send a card.

If you had a falling out there is no point in keeping the feud going. You have known that person forever, it is nice if you just say congratulations and wish them all the best for the future.

[Roxy]

I would probably send a card with a gift voucher for Myer or somewhere like that in it...

If the bridge isn't too badly burnt, and you want to repair it, then that might be a nice place to start?

[Mathermy]

That sounds like a nice gesture-I had a falling out with one of my best friends last year and we didn't speak for a few months, but I still sent her a birthday card. Just because you are angry with someone doesn't mean that you stop loving them and wanting them to be happy:)

[Refresh]

Yes, i think it would be a lovely gesture to send at least a card:)

[Qube]

I agree, I would still send a card...it might help heal things and let her know you still wish her to be happy

[SlowlyGoingInsane]

I agree. Definately send a card at least and mabye a small pressy. You dont get many life long friends. Might be a start to patch things up.

[mumofcuties]

yeah send a card im sure she will apreciate it

[Sazeby]

NO WAY!! Don't send a card!!



JK:D Yes of course, just a card to let her know you're thinking of her and wishing her all the best would be sufficient. And then if she acknowledges your card.. you can always buy her a gift, she'll probably see your card and smile, i know i'd feel good if i received a card after i'd had a falling out with someone close to me who i havn't spoken to for a little while. Keyword: "lifelong friend" ;) That's just my opinion though.

[Rating]

I agree with everyone else..

I bet she would feel loved if you did that and it would make her so happy.

Thats a lovely gesture and you and her are lucky to have one another!

[Queen]

I was hoping you'd agree:D I was planning to send a card, DP thinks I should not, as she has never been nice to me, etc but I still feel I should, coz its the right thing to do.:confused: