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teacingmum
20-04-2008, 23:14
Hi there parents and families,:shakehands:
This is my first time posting on a discussion board since about the dark ages! I'm very 'out of the loop' and am struggling to understand a lot of the abbreviations such as 'DS, DD, DH etc'. I would really appreciate it if some kind person could fill me in!!! Sometimes I feel like I'm trying to interpret directions in another language! I guess I should talk to my children, I'm sure they could fill me in!
Anyway, just to fill you in on a little of my history: I am presently married to my second husband with 6 children; our family is of the'yours mine and ours variety! 'My husband has 3 children from his first marriage; 2 boys aged 18 and 14 and a girl aged 16. I have 2 gorgeous girls from my first marriage aged 12 and 8 and we also have a beautiful toddler daughter( aka hurricane) from our present marriage aged 17mths.
I work full time as a primary teacher (presently on year 2 which I love!) and live in a permanent state of organised chaos!!
My husband works in printing on the afternoon shift and we are very much like ships passing in the night during the week; so that someone is always there for the baby and kids.
I am really looking forward to making contact with other blended families,as I don't personally know many people in a similar situation. It very often feels like we are living on an extremely steep rollercoaster (much steeper than that one in dream world........what was it called???!!!:confused:).
I really want this relationship to work out, but it's been a very tough road! My hubby and I have already had a session of counselling (our first) and we have many more to come! But I love all the kids, it's all worth the struggle when you see what they've all achieved! Anyways, I think that'll be quite a long enough novell for tonight! Looking forward to meeting you all,

:wave:Teaching mum p.s I spelt my name wrong when registering, does anyone know how I can change it?????:hair::ecomcity:

Loopy Linda
20-04-2008, 23:40
as for all the abbreviations i think yours could go something like dss (darling step son) 18, dsd16 dss 14 dd 12 dd 8 dd 17months. then there is DH ( darling Husband).

as for the name, well firstly very bad mistake for a teacher, unsure how to change it though, sorry.

good luck with your family. mine is my son from previous relationship then two together. my husband also has a son from previous relationship but we don't get to see him.

pegasus
21-04-2008, 02:52
Hi- :wave:

There is a sticky with abbreviations somewhere (getting late here - but will post the link tomorrow if you like).

Welcome to Bubhub - I'm a mum of two and a step mum to two (my two are listed below and the step kids are 15 and 12 (soon to be 13)

We get quite diverse topics discussed on these areas and lots of helpful advice - enjoy joining in any threads that take your fancy

PS You can pm (private message) an admin member to organise a change of name - I've posted a report of your request to start the ball rolling for you though.

M O P
21-04-2008, 09:01
welcome :)

here is a link to a page that should contain all you need to know
http://www.bubhub.com.au/community/forums/forumdisplay.php?f=189

YMo7
21-04-2008, 17:09
hi
my family (of 6 kids) is also a mine, his and ours kind.... he had 3, i had 1 then we had 2 together. they all live with us and i love organised chaos. lol. i am a SAHM (stay at home mum) and my DH (darling husband) works for a printing company also, but as a graphic reproducer. we live in western sydney and i love my life.

welcome to bubhub....

mrsdlc2007
21-04-2008, 23:50
Hi there:wave:

I am also a mum of 6... Yours, mine and ours... I have 2 (DS1 and DD2) and he had 2 (DD1 and DD3) and then we had 2 together (DS2 and DD4)....

They all live with us aswell and yes we are much like you (organised chaos)...

I dont have a strict routine as it is impossible to keep to it. You will only ever be dissapointed in yourself if you didnt stick to it...

My kids are getting to know the rules really well and they are all learnign to get along a lot better.

It is a hard job being a single mum, a step mum and then a mum again.. I love my DH but I dont think he really realises how much I really do.

I am also a SAHM - no choice in that as we have 4 that are still too young for school. I do love being a SAHM though so thats not too bad...

I am still pretty new at this blended family thing and I think that it will all come together with time...

Good luck and I look forward to chatting to you more


Amanda:flowerz: