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supa_star323
19-04-2008, 12:42
ds second birthday is in july and i am thinking of taking him to sea world on his birthday, wednesday, and then possibly doing a bbq the weekend after. My new partner will be involved and i will probably be inviting his sister and her kids to the bbq. Now my new partner gets on pretty well with the ex as they have spent time together when ds was in hospital, so should i invite ds father to sea world or the bbq or both or neither? I want him to be included but don't want it to be weird or uncomfy...
Any ideas?
dreamtobeamummy
19-04-2008, 12:50
I would probably contact your ex to find out how he feels and take it all from there!
its good that ex and your new partner get along, i get along well with my Step son's mother too.
kyiethree
19-04-2008, 19:13
i would invite both if they get along that well my ex and my patner at the time didnt like each other but remain civil when they were around the other
BraydenzDad
19-04-2008, 19:16
Personally if it was me i would invite new partner to sea world and both to bbq

but hey what ever you think is best
MummaBear03
19-04-2008, 19:45
I think it would be nice for you little one to have everyone around him who loves him :yes:

Not sure I'd be taking a child that young to sea world though, that's a bit young to remember it, I'd probably wait until 3 or 4 and then go, but that's me lol.

Invite him to both, he may not be able to make it to both and will have the option then.
Ana Gram
19-04-2008, 20:00
If you are on good terms with your DS's father, why not invite him to both. I would feel quite sad if I wasn't included in my child's birthday celebrations if I could be.
cinnamonbear
19-04-2008, 20:52
If they get along why not have him at both

Ah so nice when ex partners and new partners can get along, so much nicer for everyone involved..especially the children
Issey
21-04-2008, 23:00
is a weird situation :rolleyes:

if it doesn't make you feel uncomfortable or your new partner it would be okay but you would want to be sure about it, as your new partner might not want to be totally honest :confused:

i guess you are the only one that would know if it would be ok or not.