help!!! i'm at my wits end!!!

[secretsquirrel]

morning all.
i have a 3 y/o who sometimes goes to the toilet great and then other days like today has wet her pants (and my carpet) 2 times in an hour, at a loss as what to do to stop it.

I know going crook on her isn't the way, has anyone got any good ways they have used??????????:hissy:

[poshBecks]

Sorry, no advice. I am apparently highly unqualified in the area of TT.

I can however symapthise & offer lots of cuddles :hugs:

I hope someone can offer you the advice you need. :hugs:

[Dannielle]

Do you use normal undies? They were the only things that worked with my girls.

When I first TT my girls I used to take them to the potty every 30-45mins. I would ask them and if they said NO which was a favourite saying of theirs, then I would wait a bit and then tell them it was time to come and try.

Ummm, DD1 was hard to TT. Just trying to think back. Someone told me not to get too excited when she did a wee on the potty/toilet. Just to say something like good girl. Then when she did a wee on the floor to just say in a normal voice something like "that belongs in the toilet, don't worry you will get it in there next time".

Whenever it all got too hard on my carpet I put some of those plastic pilchers over the top of her undies. And I stopped with the nappies when I went out.

The twins were much easier though. I picked a time when I was going to be home most of the day for at least 3 days. (Except the school run) I didn't make a big deal of any accidents and put a couple of cloth nappies on the seat of their pram.

I hope this helps, I'm no expert though. :)