2boysfornow
23-03-2008, 21:36
Hey there, put a thread in general but thought I'd try in here...dp has again gone away to work. He usually only works Mon-Fri so I get him back sat & sun(although he gets pretty tired) We have just looked at a new house and this means he will have to take on some more work.
At the moment in our current house we could get away with him only working 6 mths away but would be stuck and not bettering our situation with this new house he would have to do about another 3 mth block but we would be able to keep our current house and rent it out.
I am 8 weeks off having baby #3 so very emotional and wondering if other ladies in this situation think that it is the right thing for them that their dp's work more now so they can secure a better life in the future.
We are hoping that by us working hard now we can be better off in the future and therefore help our kids to move even further in life..?
At the moment in our current house we could get away with him only working 6 mths away but would be stuck and not bettering our situation with this new house he would have to do about another 3 mth block but we would be able to keep our current house and rent it out.
I am 8 weeks off having baby #3 so very emotional and wondering if other ladies in this situation think that it is the right thing for them that their dp's work more now so they can secure a better life in the future.
We are hoping that by us working hard now we can be better off in the future and therefore help our kids to move even further in life..?