bad day

[pippa]

Hi guys,

Im having a very angry day today. Did anyne else who has had a miscarriage have angry days?

I just wish I could wake up and it's all just a really bad dream. I had a very close friend and her new husband around last night only for them to tell me there good news that they are pregnant, pretty bad timing hey. Im happy for them and I knew they were trying (they were lucky like us they got pregnant in their first month of trying) I just wish I was still pregnant and I could be happy and excited like them instead of sad, miserable angry and all the other feelings that i am feeling at the moment. All my hopes and dreams have been shattered and it's such a horrible feeling.

Anyway I guess I have to take each day at a time and I hope it gets easier

Pippa :(

[AM]

I'm really sorry to hear of your loss, and that today isn't going so well.
I've never gone through a miscarriage, so won't be of any help, but just wanted to let you know that I am thinking of you, and hoping things start to get a little easier.

Angie

[kiara]

Hi Pippa,

Yes I can relate to what your saying. Friday night I lost the plot and was so angry, this then turned to saddness real quickly. I too have been bitter about pregnancy going on around me. Don't get me wrong but I was always happy and excited for them but was also very jaded that I wasn't sharing the pregnancy bliss anymore.

Chin up. I hope your day gets better. I too am having a bad day. Bad weekend actually and I can't see it getting better quite yet. I'm holding on to that small hope that things could still be worse.

[Marilyn S]

Hi Ladies,

I have been there, twice, and this is all normal, I use to curse at pregnant woman and new babies under my breath after I MC....made me feel a little better....

Let me be a light at the end of it all for you, you do deal with it and you will find that each day it starts to get better, you still have your bad days, but then more and more of them become good days....

I feel your loss and pain and a HUGE hug goes out to you both....

if I can help please send me a private message...

marilyn.

[Jamily]

Hi Pippa

Am so sorry to hear you are having a bad day, but I do think its great that you are able to share how you feel - it can only help.

I haven't had a miscarriage myself but my best friend is currently having chemo for a molar pregnancy. One of her comments was that she was almost pleased that she had to focus on her health and not her loss, which must go to show how devastating things are for you and anyone else in your position.

I am sorry I am unable to help but I wanted to let you know that I am feeling for you and please feel free to vent anytime!

Claire

[Mischief]

Hi Pippa,

So sorry to hear you have having a bad time! You shouldnt feel guilty! I can only begin to imagine how you feel, because I have never gone though anything like that...it must be very hard for you.

Just take it one day at a time, I'm sure your friends would be sympathetic to your feelings and understand that it must be a hard time for you!

Hugs and support!
Kat