My baby girl Bianca has gone....

[Butterfly07]

My beautiful daughter died on Christmas night 2007. Bianca was 5 1/2 months old she was the most perfect little girl.
My little girl was always so happy she would light up a room with her smile.
I put her to sleep and then checked on her and she was gone.
Each day is getting harder, I miss her so much, I need her back in my arms.

[mum1986]

i really just don't know what tosay. icouldn't imagine the depths of pain you must be feeling. i just wanted to say i'm so sorry for your loss. and i wanted to let you know that i am thinking of you and sending you lots of:hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs:

[susmamma]

omg you poor woman,
you poor, poor darling.

i am in tears reading your words.

they say children who die young are extremely advanced souls and complete their journey on earth very quickly.

you had a beautiful relationship with one of those advanced souls.

my heart goes out to you.
may the healing happen quickly for you :hugs:

[punkbaby]

i am sorry to hear you lost your precious little girl :hugs:
:hugs::hugs:

[Bewitched]

How tragic, i am so sorry for your loss. May your little angel rest in peace :hugs::angel:

[mummajuice]

Oh I am sooo sad and sorry for your loss. I cannot express enough words to say that. For her to be taken so suddenly at that time :hugs: my thoughts are with you. May your little angel be forever in your heart and thoughts. I am crying for you right now.

Rest in peace baby girl - playing with the angels in heaven. :angel:

Don't feel that you need to hold it all together. Scream, cry, lie on the floor, whatever helps you let go of the grief. One day it will hurt a little less.


Some people only dream of Angels, I got to hold one in my arms

[cocobambino]

Im so so sorry honey:hugs::kiss:

I have no idea what to say, I wont say I understand because I dont:kiss:, please if you need to talk PM me and you can have my number, you poor sweetheart...

thinking of you and your angel:angel:

[Rachael]

I feel for you so much :hugs:

Your little Angel will be waiting for you in heaven :hugs:

[Kizmet]

I am so sorry for your loss :hugs: my heart aches for you :hugs:

[tobmac]

I cannot put into words what you must be feeling and going through all i can do is offer you :hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs: she is up with the angels playing, you will find a lot of support on bh

[Nowhere]

Im so sorry for you loss :hugs:

[2sweetgirls]

I am so sorry that this has happened to you and your family.

I hope that you have some really understanding and passionate support:hugs:

Courtney, Matthew, Charlotte and Madeleine.

[Cupcake]

Oh my :hugs:I am sorry you have to feel such pain.
Take care of yourself :hugs:

[bAaM]

:('m Sooooo sorry for ur loss.
Its just not fair:no:

:hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs:

[Sars]

I'm so sorry to know that. your pain is too much for us to understand. we can only pray to god to give u enough strength to endure this. :hugs: please take care of yourself.

[grass is always greener]

I am so sorry to hear of your loss.
:hugs::hugs::hugs:

:angel: RIP Bianca :angel:

[Mamalicious]

I am so, so sorry. :(

:hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs:

[~Temet Nosce~]

:(:hugs:

[ogilberry]

im sorry for this to have happened to you and your precious girl...

one day the hurt will fade for you but the love you have will always remain

my thoughts are with you chic

fee

[declansmum]

I am so sorry for your loss. :hugs::hugs:

[Sammilee]

Oh my... so so sad! I could only imagine the pain you must be feeling right now. Big BIG :hugs: to you and your family.
:hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs:

[Tinydancer]

Im so so sorry.

This sort of thing shouldnt happen. I wish there was something I could do....

:hugs::hugs::hugs:

I hope that one day you can find some peace knowing that she is really in a better place waiting to see you again.

My heart breaks for you

:crying::crying:

[♥Heaven Sent♥]

Just wanted to say how sorry i am that you had to go through that :hugs: :hugs:

May your dd rest in peace and watch over you while dancing and playing in the clouds.

:angel: :angel:

[mixinitup]

Sorry for your loss...
RIP little angel...

Every element she was made of was born in the heart of a star...

Look to the sky and think of your sweetheart:hugs:

[Queen]

:hugs:I am so sorry for your loss:hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs:

[hotpink]

they say children who die young are extremely advanced souls and complete their journey on earth very quickly.

you had a beautiful relationship with one of those advanced souls.

I have heard that said also.

I cannot imagine the loss you must be feeling now . . .

Although Bianca's journey here was completed early, you will be reunited again one day.

All my love & comfort
:hugs:

[Mell]

I am so sorry for your loss :hugs::hugs::hugs:

RIP Bianca

[shattered mum]

My beautiful daughter died on Christmas night 2007. Bianca was 5 1/2 months old she was the most perfect little girl.
My little girl was always so happy she would light up a room with her smile.
I put her to sleep and then checked on her and she was gone.
Each day is getting harder, I miss her so much, I need her back in my arms.
My Baby girl died too she lived 17 days. Its been 4 months now and it is the hardest thing I have ever been through. She died 31/10/07 13 weeks premie and I never got to be a mum to her she never left the hospital.
I cry myself to sleep every night.
God Bless you its a hard road ahead for us.
Shattered mum

[poppet]

oh my :hugs: so sorry for your loss

may your little girl live forever in your heart, and play with the angels in heaven:angel:

[Hokey Pokey]

Oh I am so deeply sorry to both of you :hugs::(

[Butterfly07]

To Shattered MuM and everyone who has lost a baby.......

This shouldn't happen. Nobody should have this pain it hurts way too much! I wish you all the best!

[ProudMum0307]

I am sorry to hear of your losses..
My thoughts are with you both during this difficult time..

[Christelle]

I'm so, so sorry :hugs:
I too lost my baby girl when she was 6 months old. I lost her on 23 December 2005. In some ways it feels like a lifetime ago, in other ways it feels like yesterday.

I am here for you. I know what you are going through. Please feel free to message me anytime.
oxoxo

[Mum&bubs]

Oh my heart aches for you. That's so sad :( I'm so sorry for the loss of your little angel and I hope you get through this okay.
Take it easy :hugs:

[*~alegna~*]

:( Love to you & your family. She'll never leave you hun, I believe she's just around the corner.

Please stay safe.:hugs::kiss::hugs:

[sunnyflower]

I believe Jesus is coming again and one day you you be reunited with your precious daughter.

RIP precious little one.

[forbetoel]

No words, there are just not enough of them to convey my sorrow. :hugs:

[whitsundaysmumma]

Sometimes it's just to hard to say anything, and this is one of those times for me.

Please accept these it may help a littlex

:hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs:

[BaDaBing]

Reading your words broke my heart, I am so so sorry...

:hugs:

[toni796]

I cannot even beign to imagine what it feels like to lose a child and I am not even going to begin to try and imagine.....All I know is that it would hurt and I am sorry that anyone has to go through this hurt and pain of losing a loved one. Big :hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs:.

[greengables]

wow that is just so hard and tragic.

she is in heaven waiting 4 u :):cloud9:

[Harlequin]

I'm so sorry for the loss of your little angel :hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs:

[KapowSchazam]

My heart breaks for every parent that loses a child, it's just not right or fair. I'm so, so, so deeply sorry for your loss :hugs:

[LivinOnAPrayer]

If i even try to imagine what your going through, i feel sick to the stomach and teary. I cannot bear the pain of even considering loosing my little one, so i dont know how your still standing.
:hugs:, i have no doubt you will be with your little angel Bianca again some day. Until then, lean on people around you to help you stay strong. Please know that Im praying for you and your family in hope that it helps you move past the intense pain you must be feeling right now.
How do you do it? My heart is breaking for you.:angel:

[ellie13]

Soooo sory for what happened. No words can be said. She is an angel now, the most beautiful angel.

[Sarieslittlemen]

Saying sorry just doesn't seem enough. My heart aches for you.
I know it won't help but she will be a beautiful angel sitting at your shoulder.
My heart goes out to you.

[mum2shelby]

My heart truly aches for you and I do understand how your feeling:hugs::hugs::hugs:

[Kattus]

Even though I do not have children of my own, I truely am sorry for the loss of your beautiful girl.

As the other girls here have said, Im sure she is up playing in the clouds watching over you to make sure you are ok. :angel: Take care of yourself ok?

:hugs::hugs::hugs:

[MyFourCubs]

Oh my God, how awful. So hard to understand why these things happen?????? I don't get it, but I do believe that she is in heaven, an angel now and you will be together again some day. I'm sorry, that sounds so trite but I am so sorry for your loss and I don't know what else to say.:hugs:

[workin'mumof2]

:( so sorry to hear.. rip little angel

[Lyglc]

My heart aches for all those who have lost a child - I cannot imagine what you have/are going through.

I hope in time you will get much comfort from the precious moments you spent with your child.

Sending you lots of :hugs: and prayers.

[hailsntwang]

My sister passed away in her sleep when she was 3 months old.

This year she would have been turning 19.

Sometimes sorry doesn't seem enough to help you face the pain and the grief that is sure to continue for an undisclosed amount of time.

You cry when you want to. You hate the world if you want to. You grieve for as long as you need to and if you ever need someone to talk to, don't be afraid to ask for someone to listen.

From one heart to another, I am so very very sorry that this has happened to you and your family - words will never be able to express just how sorry I really am.

No mother, no father, no family member should have to go through the suffering you are going through right now and will continue to face in the future. :(

May one day the pain fade but the memories remain fresh forever.

[Butterfly07]

hailsntwang
Hayley
How has it been for you growing up? Did your parents show you how sad they were and did they talk about your sister much? We have a 3 yr old boy and he really misses his little sister. Sometimes I cry and he will ask me if I'm upset because of Bianca and I say yes I am sad because I miss Bianca. I just don't want him to have a sad life.
The pain is so hard our baby girl was so lovely.

[Electric Mumi]

Hello there....I work for SIDS and Kids QLD, I was just wondering if you had been in contact with SIDS in your state??

They are a fantastic support for families who have lost young children (not only to SIDS these days..any unexpected death of a young child) We do free counselling..as often as you need it, you can pop in anytime and have a cuppa and a chat as well as the counselling. They also have support groups with other parents...depending where your comfort zone is at the moment, you may not be ready for this step. but the counselling is definately very benificial. I hope this brings some hope to you darl...you can find ways to help you cope better and make each day a little easier for you. xx

[Electric Mumi]

Hello there....I work for SIDS and Kids QLD, I was just wondering if you had been in contact with SIDS in your state??

They are a fantastic support for families who have lost young children (not only to SIDS these days..any unexpected death of a young child) We do free counselling..as often as you need it, you can pop in anytime and have a cuppa and a chat as well as the counselling. They also have support groups with other parents...depending where your comfort zone is at the moment, you may not be ready for this step. but the counselling is definately very benificial. I hope this brings some hope to you darl...you can find ways to help you cope better and make each day a little easier for you. xx

[charlen49]

hailsntwang
Hayley
How has it been for you growing up? Did your parents show you how sad they were and did they talk about your sister much? We have a 3 yr old boy and he really misses his little sister. Sometimes I cry and he will ask me if I'm upset because of Bianca and I say yes I am sad because I miss Bianca. I just don't want him to have a sad life.
The pain is so hard our baby girl was so lovely.firstly i would like to say how sorry i amfor your loss:hugs::hugs::hugs:

I have not lost a child, but my brother and I lost our father at a young age, i was 5 and him 3.5..and i remember how terribly sad i was and my mother of course..but i also remember talking about it, crying about it helped me. I never wanted to forget him..even though he was only part of my life for a short time..i ahve kept his memory alive in my heart:hugs:

[Lyglc]

My dh and I had a friend, she was almost like a surrogate grandmother to my DH.

This lady died nearly 2 years ago and she was over 80 years old.

One of her children died when he was only a few days old, and for her whole life, this baby was still a part of their family. They would still celebrate his birthday (although it must have been difficult to do this) and he was talked about like he was just one of the family (and like he's always been there).

When she was on her death bed she was talking about how she was looking forward to seeing him again. And at the funeral for her, he was still named as one of her children - he was never forgotten and they cherished the time they had with him.

I guess that everyone has to grieve and cope in their own way, but thought this may be helpful to know how one family lived through this situation.

Sending you many :hugs: and prayers

[beachmummy]

Hi
I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost my little boy on the 22nd of Jan this year so I know how hard this is for you. If you ever need to talk please feel free to PM me. Lots of hugs.