merilyneand tom

[asiangirl]

Hi,
I'm looking for a kind and compassionate person to be my egg donor.
We have been together for 24 years, and have one son Alex who is 14yo.
I love my son dearly and he means the world to me.
I asked my hubby 4 years ago to have another child. He wanted to wait. Now find myself going through menopause at the age of 44. I had two blood tests early last year, and my FSH levels were normal. I went around in circles to find out what the problem was.
I then went to three gynaecologists, an endocrinologist, a natropath, and in desparation, went to a psychic/medium and a clairvoyant.
I had another blood test before Christmas and my FSH levels had gone through the roof.
I was menopausal. I was absolutely devastated.
I made an appointment with IVF and thought that this would solve everything.
Is there a kind, compassionate person out there that can help me. I have one older sister who is already going through menopause.
I don't drink or smoke and don't have much of a social life, I like being at home.
I just want to be a mum again.
I am of asian origin, and my hubby is of english origin. I was born in Australia, and speak perfect english and I live in the Sutherland Shire area.
I would love to hear from you.

[elwoodgal]

Hi asiangirl. :wave:Welcome to bubhub.
Good luck finding an ED.
I am in a similar situation with a DD & wanting one more.
I wish you all the best.

elwoodgal

[Kelsey]

Hi asiangirl,
I wish you luck in finding a donor.
I know how you feel with the menopause thing, I nearly drove off the road when my doctor told me it was happening back when I was 39, time stood still that day.
But... there are wonderful, wonderful ladies on bubhub, we found our fabulous donor right here, and are in the process of cycling. You have come to the right place to ask for help :)
All the best :fingerscrossed:
Leanne

[asiangirl]

Thanks for writing back, and for your kind thoughts.
I've had all this bottled up inside, and now I feel like I have someone to talk to.

[Thinking_about_it]

Hi there Asiangirl and welcome to bubhub! You will find lots of support here and plenty of people to chat to. I joined bubhub when I was thinking about becoming an egg donor (hence the silly name, but I can't seem to change it now -doh!) and subsequently found my recipient here. She had a little boy last November, so there was lots of jubilation and back-patting all round!

Also hi from one asian to another, we have lots in common! My hubby and I are also a mixed race couple and we lived in the Sutherland shire for about 6 yrs before fleeing to Brisvegas in despair when we couldnt afford to buy a house! Now very happy here!

Best of wishes with your search for a donor, and I will follow your journey with interest.

[Dream]

Hi Asiangirl,
Just want to say all the best to your journey. I am asian as well and started looking for a donor mid last year when my FSH levels went on the high side. Good luck, dream.:)

[asiangirl]

dear ladies,
thank you for taking interest in my journey, and Dream, I also wish you well in your own journey.
A few people have been asked, and because they've not heard of this kind of procedure before, they are absolutely horrified. I guess you find out who your true friends are.
Anyway, I know my earth angel is out there.:hugs: