TTC After 1st MC .........Please Read.....

[Nicky81]

Hi everyone,

I'm back again in here TTC again,

well i had a MC on the 17th Feb 2006,

after going for test and checkups everythings ok with me,

i was very upset at 1st but now im excited to start trying again :smiliedance:

Today the 22 March 2006 I got my AF, the doctors told me to start trying after 1 period,

the doctors told me to keep a chart,i was looking for some help with this or if someone knows one that i can get online,

and if any one has any advise for me about anything i would really be happy to hear from you.

Goodluck to everyone out there TTC.

Nicky :fingerscrossed:

[zafyrezmummy]

Hey Nicki
sorry to hear about your m/c, i hope you really are doin ok!
After i lost our bub, one of the things that has kept me goin is focusin on trying again!
Well, if you want an idea of when your due to ovulate etc, a few other sites other than fertility friend are:
www.babyhopes.com
www.mycycle.com
www.ibabydust.com
www.babycentre.com
www.idreamofbaby.com
i cant remember off the top of my head whether an "au" is needed at the end of any of them, i dont think so.
so, if your on CD1 now on the 22nd, then goin by a typical 28day cycle with a 14day letual phase, you should ovulate on the 5th, or around then.
Anyway, dont take my word for it, check out the websites! i've found them useful while i dont have a thermometre, of course they're not as indepth as fertility friend but maybe you could try them n see?
hope i've been some help!
Good luck TTC! :fingerscrossed: for you!
Welcome to PM me if you need to chat, again i hope your doin well and lookin after yourself! All the best,
dimarie.

[Ffrenchstar]

HI there:)

I just wanted to wish you all the best in your jouney:) Here's to a happy outcome this time:):fingerscrossed:

[JATS]

my only advice is never give up.

took me 8 months to concieve the first time and I lost my daughter before she was born. After that it took 12 months to concieve again but now that I have my son I can say it was all worth it, everything I went through has paid off and I'd do it all again. In fact I AM doing it again :rolleyes:

Good luck!:hugs:

[Jacki]

Hi Nicky,

Pleased to see you're ready to start TTC again:hugs:

With regards to Fertility Friend - after the initial trial period, unless you want to pay for VIP membership, then the basic membership is free.

Good Luck:fingerscrossed:

[Nicky81]

Hi everyone, thanks for your thoughts and well wishes,

i was wondering if the people who have had MC,

when you get your 1st AF after a MC is it usually a heavy AF,

as this time it was it was a heavy AF.

thanks again everyone.

Nicky :fingerscrossed:

[Kells]

Hi Nicky,

Sorry to hear about your m/c, but glad to hear you are now ok.

My AF was REALLY heavy the first time, and quite heavy the second time too. I usually have a 28 day cycle and it took 5 weeks after m/c for the first AF, and then 33 days for the second. I guess they mess with our bodies more than we think.

Good luck TTC.
:hugs:

[zafyrezmummy]

hello again!
in regards to your question, well after my m/c it took seven and a half weeks for af to return. It was very heavy and lasted 5 extra days.it took 35days for my next af to come when i'm pretty sure my cycle is usually 28-30 on average. Again the actual Af was heavy and lasted a few extra days. This cycle it seems to be getting more back to normal, cycle only lasted 28 days before af came and hasn't beeen nearly as heavy or painful.
hope your doin well, good luck and take care!

[maybe1more]

Well said Love To My Tommy Bub!
I lost my bub at 11 1/2 weeks and i was shattered especially to find out i had had a molar pregancy with means the baby cause a tumor in my uterus:eek: so i had to have monthly blood test to make sure my my hcg levels were at 0 and then i had to wait 6 months before i could start trying again, so all in all it was a very emotional experience, but i got cleared in january and fell pregnant at the end of january, so definately hang in there, its not always easy to be patient, but it pays off. Big hugs to you:hugs: and be postive.

[HanCh]

Hi Nicky, good to see you back trying again!!

After my MC and currette, my periods were never the same again (well the 6 months between miscarriage and falling pregnant again) they were SO heavy. I used to have a very light period. So light that I didnt even have to wear a pad at night. So in answer to your query about periods after a miscarriage, yes mine changed BIG time!!! Good luck in your TTC journey, and like everyone else has said.......NEVER GIVE UP AND TRY TO STAY POSITIVE :thumbsup: