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alby2508
25-02-2008, 03:51 PM
hi girls who is going to find out what they are having?? I did with DD because i just couldn't wait- but i'm not sure this time. what are you guys going to do??

*Chels*
25-02-2008, 04:12 PM
I found out first time.I just couldnt help myself!!!
I really dont wanna find out this time.Dh does tho!!
I already have a DS,and have kept all his clothes,cot bedding etc so another boy would be sooo easy!But I also have a 2 month old neice,so I can score alot of her stuff.
I have already brought a few unisex outfits,and I have planned out the nursery.
So it would still be pretty easy if I didnt know the sex!

Ffrenchstar
25-02-2008, 04:12 PM
Yes, absolutely:yes: I am not that patient....we found out with thte other 3:)

Mookie
26-02-2008, 04:17 PM
Yes - we will find out too. I loved finding out last time & know I wont be able to help myself again this time. DH is even worse than me.

I do think it would be such a wonderful surprise to wait though, if you have the patience.........

kas3
26-02-2008, 05:44 PM
We're definitely going to find out. If it's a little boy I'm going to have to convince my DH that they're not all "grubby, noisy little things" :) He really wants a girl - I'm not that bothered, but a boy would be nice. Just to irritate DH :laughing:

CraigS
26-02-2008, 05:52 PM
We're definitely going to find out. If it's a little boy I'm going to have to convince my DH that they're not all "grubby, noisy little things" :) He really wants a girl - I'm not that bothered, but a boy would be nice. Just to irritate DH :laughing:

Hmph! Aren't you supposed to be working right now?

I'm all for finding out. But I'm not planning on telling my parents just to drive them crazy :thumbsup:

Craig (Kas's DH)

zakster
26-02-2008, 07:32 PM
Hubby and I have decided that we want it to be a surprise - just seems more special to us that way :)

Jelly Baby
26-02-2008, 07:41 PM
I wish we could wait and make it a surprise BUT I just don't think we can.

PrincessT
26-02-2008, 07:48 PM
We waited with our first but this time I want to be prepared if its a boy and I can buy some boy stuff, so yep!

Tina33
26-02-2008, 07:51 PM
Nope:no:, never wanted to know..both boys were a surprise..:rolleyes:

so this 1 will be the same...:babydust2:

leannelizzy
26-02-2008, 08:05 PM
We didn't find out with Lachie but will this time.

QueensMum
26-02-2008, 08:10 PM
Yes!!! I'm definately not someone who can wait...patience is NOT one of my virtues.. DH STILL has to hide my Christmas presents in the boot of his car or at a relatives house until Christmas Eve so I don't "accidently" rip the paper open :D

My "grown up" excuse to DH for finding out is that if it's a girl we already have all the stuff we need but if it's a boy we need to buy different things so it's better to find out....(that's my excuse and I'm sticking to it!! :laughing:)

Twiglet
26-02-2008, 08:46 PM
no. am just so glad to be pregnant after IVF. I like the idea of guessing it adds to the fun.

saying that we have already got a boys name picked but not a girls.

mum2ethan
27-02-2008, 09:18 AM
No im not going to find out i didnt with DS and it was great (altho it did drive me insane) but i always had a feeling it was a boy, havent had that feeling yet, but it still is pretty early, i just love the whole guessing game!!

YacinesMommy
27-02-2008, 01:12 PM
I think we'll prob find out too. We did with DD but onlly once we walked in to the room to get our scan. The sonog asked if we wanted to know. I was umming and ahhing in the end DH made the decision and said yes. Hes was like "you know you want to know!!" LOL. Will prob be the same senario this time. But like last time we'll keep it to ourselves.

Lunar
27-02-2008, 01:20 PM
I would love to leave it as a surprise, but I'm not that patient either! I found out with the other 2 though.
We'll just have to wait and see if I crack!:cool:

happyhips
27-02-2008, 03:25 PM
We found out with our first baby and will find out with this one. With the first baby it really helped me to connect with him and I felt like I could bond with him a little easier. I find becoming a parent enough of a surprise so it kind of prepares me mentally, however, the people I talk to who didn't find out say it's the most amazing surprise of their lives.
Annette:flowerz:

secretsquirrel
28-02-2008, 09:34 AM
we found out witht the other 2 so i guess we will with this one aswell. I'm not so good at waiting and just waiting for the baby to get here will send me round the bend.

farmmummy
28-02-2008, 09:56 AM
I didn't find out with the 2 girls but I did with Jack, we named him early on in the pregnancy. I don't want to know this time but DH does. on the other hand I would like to know too to some extent. All the things from Sarah are non-gender specific so lots of greens and yellows. Either way I have girl things and boy things so I think I'll definatly wait until D day.

trisha24
29-02-2008, 01:32 PM
Yeah we are going to - being #1 I was thinking of waiting. Before I could ask DH if he wanted to wait he jumped up and said nope, we are finding out, he can't wait!!

I think it's really cute!

PinkLily
29-02-2008, 02:23 PM
I'm undecided if I'll find out this time round... DH wanted to both pregnancies though! I didn't want to last time, but I'm more relaxed about it this time, and most other things too.
Although, in my last pregnancy the doctor slipped up when doing the ultrasound and said "looks like a boy", but I pretended that didn't happen as I've heard too many stories about the baby being born the opposite gender to what the parents were told! It was just another persons opinion to me ;)
One lady I know bought everything in pink, told everybody, named the bub, and then it was a boy :eek: That percentage of it being wrong scares me a little. If I did decide to know, I'd probably only tell DH but noone else. I think the surprise is alot more exiting for everyone too :)

But then, I get thoughts that it will be good to know as everything I have is boy - I do have unisex clothes too. So it would be handy to prepare myself...

We would both LOVE a girl, but it also would be great for DS to have a bro to play with...