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~*clairesmum*~
16-02-2008, 05:25 PM
well this may be longish lol,

ok

"miss b" is my sil they have a 4.5mth old DS they can not handle him n i dont want to be mean but everyone thinks so they just werent ready for a bub (they both r 25) well mil told scotts bro n miss b bout us being preggers again, bil said congrats but miss b said nothing, well my lil sister today told that nathan(her dp) told her n fil told him at work cause bil told fil lol catching on.... that she wants a 2nd bub cause she still wants the attension that mil gives her n bubby.... shes one of those girls that only wanted one baby only cause she got knocked up, but we nos that claire got all mil's spare time that changed when braxton came along so claire is nothing when hes around now miss b noes that if we have a 2nd bub braxton will become nothing cause mil will want to spend time with our bub


we dont want braxton to loss his spot as no.1 baby cause theres be who fars about them like, they dont sleep "much" but really who does with a new born they didnt think of that so mil goes over there once a wk so they get a full nites sleep etc... she has OCD with him..... n with pur next bub mil will want to hold bub all the time help us raise bub like she is doing with braxton but we can look after our own children


anyway if ur still with me thanks for listening
vent over

trisha24
18-02-2008, 04:46 PM
I must admit some of the abbreviations threw me a bit (don't have all the lingo yet) but I followed most of it! :-)

Sometimes we all just need a good vent, and I understand what you mean. I really don't like those people who only have kids for attention, or don't appreciate their kids (forgiving the occassional time they drive you nuts of course!) When you've been trying for kids for years or it's something you really really want it's annoying to hear something like that.

Good venting!!

Trisha
(Me 25, Ken 27)

QTB
18-02-2008, 05:08 PM
ahhh well sis you know how i feel about the situation, considering "miss b" never wanted kids to start with, and now only wants another one cos your preg... the only reason they are able to handle the DS they have is because your MIL looks after him so much... grrr anyway, you know i think shes stupid! lol

Dont let it stress you out though, let her get preg again and see how she handles 2 babies :laughing:



*sorry i know this is the Oct thread but i had to add my 2c worth :D