View Full Version : Will it happen for us??
Lissyloo
12-02-2008, 09:54 AM
:) :) :)
Its been so confusing after my d & c. I thought I would fall straight away but I've had shorter periods, a doctor telling me I had a miscarraige from my last period (not my normal doc so I didn't believe him) this period only lasted 3 days 2 heavy and 1 light and then I bled a week later, very brown only for a few hours.
I am so confused, stressed and just want a bub of our own.:hair:
I'm just after some reassurance that it will happen for us. I want a bub so bad
Baby dust to all trying :bee:
:wizard:
MEKISS
12-02-2008, 11:32 AM
Dear Lissyloo
I am positive it is going to happen for everyone in Feb or March. I have been trying for 10 months now & I'm just getting to the stage where I think I might have to go & see a Doc soon & see what is going on. However I have just started temping & are going to use some OPK's & see how we go this month. But I am so sure it is going to happen this cycle (currently cd #2).
Chin up, stay positive & if you need to, repeat to yourself, it is going to happen very soon mekiss said so!
hp-mum
12-02-2008, 01:13 PM
It will happen :yes:.
It took my 8 months after my d&c to fall again and now I am 15.5 weeks preggers!
It takes 3 months for the anesthetic to get out of you system properly, so that can throw things out of whack.
The only advice I can offer is try to relax as much as possible. I know everyone says it and it's easier said then done but it really does work! The month I decided I was 'over it' I let me hair down a little and that was when I fell.
Goodluck, I know exactly where you are at and it sucks, but believe me you WILL fall again. :hugs:
IVFcrazylady
12-02-2008, 01:34 PM
:sunshine:YES YOU WILL FALL PREGNANT AND HAVE A HAPPY AND HEALTHY PREGNANCY!!!!!!!!!!:sunshine:
You need to affirm it to yourself. Relax for as long as you can every day, and listen to your body......Tell yourself that
:babydust2:"I am going to fall pregnant, I will be a mummy, My body will hold a baby for a happy and healthy pregnancy" :babydust2:
I do this every day..........It just helps me go about my day in the most positive ways possible!!!!!
Good luck with it and i am sure of it that you WILL be telling us so soon that you have a sticky :bfp:!
Lissyloo
13-02-2008, 12:33 PM
It will happen :yes:.
It took my 8 months after my d&c to fall again and now I am 15.5 weeks preggers!
It takes 3 months for the anesthetic to get out of you system properly, so that can throw things out of whack.
The only advice I can offer is try to relax as much as possible. I know everyone says it and it's easier said then done but it really does work! The month I decided I was 'over it' I let me hair down a little and that was when I fell.
Goodluck, I know exactly where you are at and it sucks, but believe me you WILL fall again. :hugs:
I just wanted to ask how were your periods after the d & c?? I've had shorter ones than normal and I've had spotting a week after period. I've never had this before...??
and when you "let your hair down as such" what did you do differnetly??
Lissyloo
13-02-2008, 12:35 PM
Dear Lissyloo
I am positive it is going to happen for everyone in Feb or March. I have been trying for 10 months now & I'm just getting to the stage where I think I might have to go & see a Doc soon & see what is going on. However I have just started temping & are going to use some OPK's & see how we go this month. But I am so sure it is going to happen this cycle (currently cd #2).
Chin up, stay positive & if you need to, repeat to yourself, it is going to happen very soon mekiss said so!
I just wanted to thank you for being so positive. How can you be so sure?
I am going to try and be so positive like yourself.
Thanks:yelclap:
Lissyloo
13-02-2008, 12:35 PM
Thank you so much!!
IVFcrazylady
13-02-2008, 12:42 PM
Have you been doing positive affirmations!?!??!?!?!!??!
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