BD issues

[Jender]

HI all

Dopes anyone have a DH with mad work hours - long corporate hours - who is not impressed at the concept of Bding at the O times?? We have always been weekend bders for this reason and when TCC it is not that easy.

I have him on zine but aprta from viagra:laughing: does anyone use anything else that might "get him in the mood"

Sasha

[caitcam]

dont have any answers for you, but goodluck!:fingerscrossed:

[megaminz]

my husband works shifts (late arvo/night) and as a result was coming home as I was going to bed and it just wasnt working, this cycle I adopted a different tactic and "got him" in the morning, he didn't mind being woken up for that!!!

Good Luck

[Kewe]

I so remember trying for your second, DH would work horrible hours and how go away for weeks at a time, was awfull getting the timing right

I never gave my DH anything to take, but I would jump him when it needed to happen :yes:

in the end we just thought it will happen when it happens, and I stoped stressing, and WDYK fell preg

[baylismum]

what about natural aphrodisiacs? like oysters etc..just google it.

what about lingerie?

or, this is my personal favourite as it works EVERY time...
wait til he is asleep, then jump him :laughing:

[Mischief]

I think men can start to feel a little used at *that time of month*... When we were trying for Oliver and it took us a few months. It got a little mechanical.

At times it seemed like it was happening for no reason but to conceive, the FUN factor went out the window and it was very clinical.

My suggestion is spice it up! Put on some pretty lingere, light some candles, put on some music, get romantic. :) Both of you need and deserve to enjoy this time, making a baby is the bonus part! :yes: :)