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MEKISS
04-02-2008, 11:41 AM
I have to say I admire you all so much & I am very thankful that there is something like this forum to have a chat with people that know what you are going through. I have been TTC for 10 months and it's driving me insane, I get so depressed every month & I go crazy thinking about babies & all the little things happening with my body that I think could be signs of preganancy that turn out not to be. I really don't know how you all do it. Has anyone else got the added pressure of everyone you know (including family) going on about when you are going to have a baby? My Dad had it all worked out at Xmas time that I would fall pregnant in Jan (not sure yet) & the baby would be born in Oct, so It would be 2 months old at Xmas and he could start teaching it to swim!!!! Yeah no worries, why didn't I think of that and it all happens so easy doesn't it!:crying:

Sorry I'm rambling, but I just get so frustrated and I don't have that many people to talk to, I haven't even told my Mum we're trying, she's a very good Mum but unfortunately can't keep anything to herself.:ecomcity::ecomcity:

kittykatz
04-02-2008, 11:46 AM
Hi MEKISS

You have certainly come to the right place! TTC is a very difficult journey, very few are spared the insanity! Feel free to come on anytime and express your highs and lows. Many of us understand the frustrations and also understand how often family and friends do not understand exactly how hard it can be.

We have all had to face prying friends and family asking "when are you having children" or even if they know you have had difficulties just giving standard responses like "just relax, it will happen".

I hope your TTC journey will end soon and you will move over to the due threads, but in the mean time, join us in the insanity that is TTC! :hugs:

WotWillBWillB
04-02-2008, 11:49 AM
Hun :hugs: i think all of us on here have had the same thing happen at some stage or another!

So you are are not the only one hun. That is probably the main reason we are all here. I know i am anyway!

:iagree: with KK

MEKISS
04-02-2008, 12:02 PM
Thanks guys, it can certainly do your head in that's for sure! At the moment it is a bit of a waiting game as I should AF around the 8th or 11th, bit of cramping today & I seem to be smelling things a lot better at the moment, weird!