wanted to know

[mummyb]

hi all you beautiful young mums
im 25 and have two kids so im not that young anymore :D
i meet this lovely young mum today she was 14,her beautiful baby was about 6 months.
i realy want to make friends with her (we go to the same church )
but i dont want to stick my foot in it is there anything that really annoys you young hip mums?
anything i should steer clear of ?
i have to be onhest and say i was a bit shocked that she is 14 a i thought she was about 16.
i dont know why but i just realy felt for her .
she looked so sad ,what are peoples reactions at school when you get pregnant ?
do friends drop off like flys ?
i m not that much older than some of you i had my first bub at 20 and my second at 24 but i just feel that this girl and i are coming from diffrent places and would love to get your wise opions .hope its ok im visting your lovely forum .

[kiara]

Hi mummyb,

Not sure how much help I'd be but i remember when i was a school there was this 15yr ols girl who was pregnant. All her friends remained close to her throughout the whole thing. I became friends with her went she was 19 and by then she had had her 2nd child. She never looked sad though. She thrived on it and she is now 22 and has 3 children. I know for her she had extensive support from her parents and the father was much older then her and was still in the picture. She continued her schooling after the baby was born so still had the interaction with her friends on a regular basis.

sorry i couldn't help you much

[babyjode]

I wasnt at school, but i should have been in yr12. My family and friends took it quite well considering. MOst of my friends i didnt see that much anyways, so not much has changed. Although i am a bit afraid to go out somewhere with a "non-child" friend as i dont want them to start dropping me because its "too annoying" to hang out.

[mummyb]

thankyou both for your replies hope this girl and ican form a friendship as euals on the grounds of us being mothers not our ages.
thanks again :D