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SweetSerenity
25-01-2008, 16:54
Strange title I know :laughing:

But I am :D

He picked up DS this afternoon and we were just chatting at the front.

He was telling me about something and mentioned he was seeing someone.

I asked how old she was, where she was from, the usual.

She's 30yrs old and he's 24yrs old and to be honest, I am SOOO happy about this.

I am so much more comfortable with him seeing someone that is his age or older rather than some 18 year old ( no offence to anyone around this age, just a motherly instinct kicking in hehe).

I just couldn't believe the amount of happiness I felt for him.

I think the fact that he has been SO good with peter too helps a lot as well. It shows me he is maturing and isn't going to let a woman come before peter, like it did in the past.

So I'm very happy :) Also because I know that me being happy about it shows I have moved on emotionally, and that makes me feel on top of the world!

Also feeling this way makes me feel more confident about our divorce process too that will be coming up in the next couple of months.:yes:

Love Nat xxx

tobmac
25-01-2008, 17:07
its good you have a positive outlook on life and its great that you two can even talk about things like that it shows maturity on both levels :thumbsup:

PS(dont want to offend anyone i know that other peole dont have that kind of relationship with there exs and they are still mature)

Mum2Bug
25-01-2008, 17:16
Aww Nat, that is just wonderful news. And you are right, it really shows how much he has matured over the last few months.

It sounds to me like you have both moved on so much now and are in such comfortable places in your lives. Your maturity going through this has been amazing and its wonderful to see that he too, is now stepping up to the plate.

Take care hun:hugs::hugs:

Ashleigh<3
25-01-2008, 18:22
Nat- I'm so stoked for him! :D
Good on him for finding an older woman.
I'm glad you two are keeping the friendship stable.
It's really going to pay off for Peter, having both his parents getting along well. :)
:hugs:

SweetSerenity
25-01-2008, 18:52
Thanks ladies so much :D

Ash I'm so glad that we are able to maintain our friendship too. After all we are very close and know each other so well, so it would be silly for us not to maintain that, especially, as like you said, it will and is benefiting peter SO much.

I'm in a really happy place right now :D

:hugs: Thanks girls, just had to announce it!

Love Nat xx

Queen
25-01-2008, 19:06
:hugs:Wow, you strong women:hugs:

So happy you have moved on:hugs:

Issey
25-01-2008, 22:55
:yelclap: good on you, yes you have moved on and that is wonderful to be able to be able to take the approach you are with your ex.

wish my ex would see someone decent rather than running around with several pub woman he picks up :confused: