Did u or ur DF get pre-wedding jitters?

[MissSparkle]

DF and I are getting married in 7weeks and lately DF has been impossible. Im putting it down to some pre wedding jitters but hes accusing me of cheating, checking out other guys, telling me what I can and can't do, getting cranky at me about every little thing I do or say and then abit more of the cheating accusations. He's also told me he thinks I'll eventually divorse him.

Im not quite sure how to deal with it coz he's quick to snap attitude means Im walking on egg shells around him. Will it pass? And when?!

[JorBai]

Aww Steph I cant say that happened to me and DH but I have heard of it ALOT and I think its totally natural, especially since you guys have been together for a while and have kids. You probably already feel married and this just formalises it.

:hugs: to you and I bet your DH will be back to normal in no time! Im sure we all get nervous in someway and everyone deals with it differently.

Hope someone can help you with better advice!

[Benji]

Sounds like he's a bit stressed about the wedding.

I've been a bit snappy lately because I'm worried about organizing it, money, everyone behaving on the day.. It's enough to send someone over the edge.

I'm guessing if he's not usually like this he might just be nervous.

[QTB]

yep we both got jitters, but they are normal...

what your DF is saying doesnt sound like pre wedding jitters to me though...

unless hes been cheated on by an ex maybe and now hes scared your gonna get married then cheat or something? (sorry thinking outloud!)

[blissfullybonkers]

i was meant to have my wedding on the 29th of march but DF has been a complete twit lately :hair:so we have post poned men are so immature sometimes he has said much the sameness yours has been saying to you and and just generally freaking out i can tell!!!:thumbsdown: its the second time we post poned it so third time lucky i hope!!!and we thankfully havent lost deposits all the ppl i have booked with have been really nice about it.
I wont be making anymore babys til the wedding is done aswell thats our deal.
i hope myDF grows up soon and realises what he has got b4 its too late!!:shame:

[declansmum]

Woah!! Thats pretty harsh words sweetie.. My husband didnt get pre wedding jitters..


He shouldnt be accusing you of that kind of stuff unless he has some kind of proof!!!




If I were you, I would sort out the problems before it wrecks your marriage.

Good Luck
xox

[Lil X-men]

Oh hun, sorry to hear he is being like this. I think he is just nervous though and insecure, especially being that you have been working out so hard and are looking so fab.
No excuse to go throwing around accusations of cheating though.:shame:
We didn't have jitters but then our wedding was so informal and at short notice (we planned it in four weeks and had it at the regisrty office) so we didn't have time to think about it lol!

Have you taken time to stop sit down and ask him why he is feeling so insecure? Maybe he just needs reassuring (they are like children sometimes lol) that you love him and cant wait to marry him.
I think he loves you alot and is maybe scared you are going to get up and leave him for someone else, again maybe fueled by how good looking you are post baby lol:thumbsup:which is ridiculous but he may have that fear in him.

:hugs: Hope he sorts his insecurities out before the bigday:fingerscrossed:

[kymmy]

Hope you can work through this before the wedding, you don't want it continue afterwards.

My husband and I were both very excited about getting married. Its a big step but we were committed and we talked a lot, and openly.