i found you

[liams mummy]

omg i found you guys after being a member for a month yey people just like me lol

Bit about me

im a 21 year old SAHM to a lovely 14 month old boy and love it i have a wonderful partner and we are getting married sometime in the future lol.

i think im ready for number two but i just cant quite get the guts to stop taking my pill !!! lol Someone just take it off me lol

i always wanted to be a young mum and we have everything we need to raise a family i know i dont want to have a bigger gap then 3-4 years between my kids and i dont want to be having kids for the next ten years. (pushing them out not rasing them i know you never stop that lol)

Am i mad for wanting my family first and my career later? i want to be a midwife and thats like 3 years hard study and work and then you have to get the experince ontop of that. i think it would mad to do the study become a midwife and then have to give it up as soon as im done to finnish my family what would you guys do? Have babies first then study when they are at kindy/ school or put my family on hold and study im just kinda worried that ill regret later in life that my kids are so far apart.

OK writing this down really helps alot lol just reading it kinda made my mind up hehehehe funny that.

Hope all makes sence and hope to get a responce soon just want to make sure ive thought of everything


:ecomcity: i talk way too much lol

[my babyemmy]

hello:hugs:

[liams mummy]

i must sound mad lol

:hugs:

[MumsieMel]

Gee thanks! :p
If your mad then i must be insane!!

Im a married mum of 2 cherubs, working fulltime shift work, im 22yrs and am....

Trying for my 3rd!

good luck

Oh and i dont think your mad at all! :kiss:

[2SPUNKRATZ]

OMG

you sound just like me. i am pregnant with my first. i was trying to decide whether to study first and have family later or not when i fell pregnant. i guess fate decided for me. i to want to be a midwife. but i am choosing now, to have my family first and career later. i to always wanted to have my family while i was young. and now i am.

i like the idea of my kids seeing me study to. it may make them more interested in study. or maybe not.
either way, my family is coming first.

jess

[liams mummy]

thanks guys its just nice to know that there are some people out there that are just like me!!lol

Well we have desided that as soon as AF has gone dam it it came early too which it has never done (maybe its a sign hehehe) we are going to try make babies l:hugs:

oh its just so scary

[MumsieMel]

Glad you made a decision.

Looking forward to seeing you in the TTC threads :D

[my babyemmy]

execellent:yelclap:
all the best:fingerscrossed: