mystit2000
25-11-2007, 07:40
Hey evry1,
I need to get others perspective on this one! I'll try and keep it as brief as possible.
I'm a mum of 3 and have a bub on the way (25wks). My daughter 17yrs is from my first relationship (her dad and I are good friends), My 2 boys 14 & 11yrs are from my past relationship (and their father wants nothing to do with them until they are older) and my bub along the way is finally with my soul mate whom I love very much. My partner already has a child from a previous relationship,she is 14yrs and desperately wanted another child in his life.
As I'm not getting younger, we decided to have another bub - together. I love my partner to death and seems like the right thing to do! He is a great dad to my boys,
As we are in transition moving interstate, he is already there working and its been awfully tough for me working full time, cleaning the house and organising furniture etc before I move there with him. I've missed him so much (now been over 4 wks since he left) that I know I've been up and down emotionally and because of this, I have called him sometimes up to 3/4 times a day just for support. He is getting angry with me for calling so much and thinks I'm checking up on him...which isn't the case. I just need his support and love.
Nyway, yesterday I missed a phone call from him (my son answered phone) and couldnt' tell who actually called my phone. I txt him asking did he call...and he said "Where have you been I've been worried sick, who were you with, what are you doing" all in front of a mate who he had been fishing with. I called him, and I heard his mate laughing in the background..and he was laughing too. This really really hurt me inside, as I felt he was putting me down again in front of his friend.This isn't the first time its happened! I spoke to him later in the day, and he said he was 'joking'. I failed to see it as a joke, as this has happened a few times before. We seem to be argueing over the phone so much since he left, and I'm starting to think dreaded thoughts of 'god am i going to be a single mum again?' There have been many other issues since he left like financially (he is free to have a good time with money, but I am getting priorities in order and not spending so I can be with him), as well as many other things like talking to me like he is my father. Its really really got me sad. What is going wrong! I never thought he would be so insensitive, uncaring and selfish.
I'll soon be with him on the 16th Dec and will be glad when its all over.:crying:
Kim
I need to get others perspective on this one! I'll try and keep it as brief as possible.
I'm a mum of 3 and have a bub on the way (25wks). My daughter 17yrs is from my first relationship (her dad and I are good friends), My 2 boys 14 & 11yrs are from my past relationship (and their father wants nothing to do with them until they are older) and my bub along the way is finally with my soul mate whom I love very much. My partner already has a child from a previous relationship,she is 14yrs and desperately wanted another child in his life.
As I'm not getting younger, we decided to have another bub - together. I love my partner to death and seems like the right thing to do! He is a great dad to my boys,
As we are in transition moving interstate, he is already there working and its been awfully tough for me working full time, cleaning the house and organising furniture etc before I move there with him. I've missed him so much (now been over 4 wks since he left) that I know I've been up and down emotionally and because of this, I have called him sometimes up to 3/4 times a day just for support. He is getting angry with me for calling so much and thinks I'm checking up on him...which isn't the case. I just need his support and love.
Nyway, yesterday I missed a phone call from him (my son answered phone) and couldnt' tell who actually called my phone. I txt him asking did he call...and he said "Where have you been I've been worried sick, who were you with, what are you doing" all in front of a mate who he had been fishing with. I called him, and I heard his mate laughing in the background..and he was laughing too. This really really hurt me inside, as I felt he was putting me down again in front of his friend.This isn't the first time its happened! I spoke to him later in the day, and he said he was 'joking'. I failed to see it as a joke, as this has happened a few times before. We seem to be argueing over the phone so much since he left, and I'm starting to think dreaded thoughts of 'god am i going to be a single mum again?' There have been many other issues since he left like financially (he is free to have a good time with money, but I am getting priorities in order and not spending so I can be with him), as well as many other things like talking to me like he is my father. Its really really got me sad. What is going wrong! I never thought he would be so insensitive, uncaring and selfish.
I'll soon be with him on the 16th Dec and will be glad when its all over.:crying:
Kim