shanias_mum
02-03-2006, 16:34
Hi all, my DD (3 yrs) has been very naughty and cheeky the last month! And i mean VERY NAUGHTY!!!
Her attidute has changed dramatically, she pokes tounges, chats back, runs away, does the opposite of what i say, has screamming tantrums when she cant get her own way, is bossy to everyone, and will flat out ignore me. :eek:
Take yesterday for eg, i was at my sister inlaws place having a coffee and dd was happily playing, i gaver her a sandwich which i made earlier, she was eating eat then all of a sudden she threw one at me and it hit me in the face, after the innitial shock i got up to which she ran away, and i asked her why she did it, and she said cus.
She went to close the door and i told her not too cus it was tooo hot and she looked at me and closed the door!!!!! OMG She poked her tounge out at me, and she was in arms reach so i tapped her on the face, and she just turned and walked away!! OMG
Before we left to go to my SIL i picked up dd from my mums and had her bag on my back, plus her back, pluss her books and paintings in my hand, and she wanted her teddy that was in her bag, i told her she would have to wait till we got to the car and she could have it, well............all hell broke loose. She had a screaming tantrum cus she couldnt have it, and in the middle of her screaming my mother yells to me to just give it too her, so i closed the door on shania and walked out to the car. I came back inside and found shania having a whinge on the couch so i picked her up to taker her to the car........well all hell broke lose again!!!!! She kicked and screamed and said that she wanted to walk, so i put her on the floor, and she layed there crying so i picked her up and carried her screaming to the car!!!! :banghead:
My MIL thinks i talk rubbish cus when she has dd she is fine, also when my df has her by himself she is good too. But when she is at my mums or with me she is just plain naughty. I need some hellp cus i cant take much more of it, she is jsut soooo naughty that i am scared that i am going to snap one day and smack her tooo hard!!! :crying:
I realise smaking does nothing to her (and some may not approve, but thats how i was brought up) half the time she doesnt even cry, and will do exactly the same thing that she just got a smack for again. Is it cus i have made her so independent, that i dont spend alot of time with her or that i am a bad mother??? :crying:
Her attidute has changed dramatically, she pokes tounges, chats back, runs away, does the opposite of what i say, has screamming tantrums when she cant get her own way, is bossy to everyone, and will flat out ignore me. :eek:
Take yesterday for eg, i was at my sister inlaws place having a coffee and dd was happily playing, i gaver her a sandwich which i made earlier, she was eating eat then all of a sudden she threw one at me and it hit me in the face, after the innitial shock i got up to which she ran away, and i asked her why she did it, and she said cus.
She went to close the door and i told her not too cus it was tooo hot and she looked at me and closed the door!!!!! OMG She poked her tounge out at me, and she was in arms reach so i tapped her on the face, and she just turned and walked away!! OMG
Before we left to go to my SIL i picked up dd from my mums and had her bag on my back, plus her back, pluss her books and paintings in my hand, and she wanted her teddy that was in her bag, i told her she would have to wait till we got to the car and she could have it, well............all hell broke loose. She had a screaming tantrum cus she couldnt have it, and in the middle of her screaming my mother yells to me to just give it too her, so i closed the door on shania and walked out to the car. I came back inside and found shania having a whinge on the couch so i picked her up to taker her to the car........well all hell broke lose again!!!!! She kicked and screamed and said that she wanted to walk, so i put her on the floor, and she layed there crying so i picked her up and carried her screaming to the car!!!! :banghead:
My MIL thinks i talk rubbish cus when she has dd she is fine, also when my df has her by himself she is good too. But when she is at my mums or with me she is just plain naughty. I need some hellp cus i cant take much more of it, she is jsut soooo naughty that i am scared that i am going to snap one day and smack her tooo hard!!! :crying:
I realise smaking does nothing to her (and some may not approve, but thats how i was brought up) half the time she doesnt even cry, and will do exactly the same thing that she just got a smack for again. Is it cus i have made her so independent, that i dont spend alot of time with her or that i am a bad mother??? :crying: