Why is this happening to me now?

[Mummy_Johnno]

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[my babyemmy]

im so sorry to read all this, all i can do is offer you a friendly ear(there will be a lot of those on here !)i cant really give advice but here are lots of hugs:hugs: & kisses:kiss: And please know that your son will always love you & you are not the one who has done anything wrong

[rynosmum]

Lyn, your baby-to-be will never think less of you. You've done nothing wrong.

If he chose to leave, have an affair and even father another child, then come back just to build up your hopes and then leave again....that is HIS choice, not yours.

You may still love him...but it's important that you start loving yourself more than that.

You will soon have a gorgeous baby in your arms. If DH has chosen to walk away from his family, he only has himself to blame.:shame:

Best wishes to you and your baby:hugs:

[Refresh]

Hi

I dont have any real advice for you as I have never been in your situation I just wanted to say that my thoughts and prayers are with you:)

Be strong for you and your bubba...you can do this, alone or with a partner. You will get through!

Take care of yourself:)

[claireandbailey]

its not easy but u can get through it. Just remember to try and be happy cos there is a little heart beat inside u that knows wen ur down.
And wen u get to meet ur little boy u will know that all this heartbreak was worth it cos u dont have to share him with anyone but urself.
Big :hugs: and :kiss: and remember to smile.

[LittleBoysRock]

Sounds like you are going through a really rough time. Just wanted to let you know that there are lots of women here to support you during this time.

I dont have any advice but I know it is hard being pregnant let alone having to do it in that type of situation.

I really hope you and DH can sort things out! If you need a friend or shoulder to cry on PM me. I am happy to listen and try to help if I can.

Take care of you and your baby! :kiss:

[rockabye]

Hi There!

I don't think i have any advise for you but here is a hug :hugs: .

In 47 days you will have a beautiful baby. He will bring you joy, a wonderous experience and a love that you have never felt in your life.

I'm thinking of you.

Remember: Women were made strong enough to handle anything.

[DB&O]

Hi, no advice to offer you but lots of ((hugs)). Your little man will soon be here & when he is, I swear everything else seems to be less important, hold him, smell him, cuddle & kiss him & somehow it makes things a little less painful. He will be the light in your life.:)

[shed]

What an awful thing to happen. What kind of a jerk does this?

You are probably better off without him if that's his idea of what is right.

[loopi1]

Lyn it's hard for anyone to advise you on what to do as we are not in your shoes, I don't partically want to either, it's heartbreaking enough hearing that someone is going thru it let alone experiencing it. My heart goes out to you at this time in your life but read over and over again what Rynosmum (well done:yelclap: ) had to say because she was right on the spot with her post.

You must stay strong for Lucas now and yes learn to love yourself more, give yourself the respect you deserve because if a hubby does that and was given a 2nd chance then do what he's doing now. :banghead: with his head.

Priorities for you now is Lucas and Lyn.

:hugs: :kiss:

[moonblossom]

I will never understand men, NEVER...

[lilly]

It may be hard to accept but I think you have to mentally prepare yourself for the fact that this man will not be around to support you or your son. Of course that is not the ideal but you need to make plans now, as much as you can to ensure you, especially, have support so you can be strong for your child.

Do you have family, friends etc., that you can turn to or ask for help from?

[kellee001]

I'm so sorry to read your situation. I think Rynosmum post was spot on aswell. You don't deserve this kinda stuff when ur not far of having your little bubba...Just make sure you put yourself and your baby first and as for the loser (sorry for the term i used) if he doesn't want to be there you can't make him, he's the one missing out... :kiss:

Keep your sunny side up...:hugs:
Thinking of you....:kiss: