Sad Day .........

[jessmarty]

Well I am out for May 2008 :(

I had a little bit of bleeding yesterday and so I went and got an ultrasound this morning. The lady said the baby was at most 8 weeks when it should have been 13 weeks old.

It was dead :crying: . The hospital said it looks like it died 5 weeks ago... I feel so weird and silly for not knowing though. I have had morning sickness up until about a week ago, I have had no cramps or bleeding.

I have to go to the hospital on Monday and get the baby taken out.

This is the worst day of my life!!! I am in total shock and can't stop crying...

[AquaDevil78]

Oh hun! That is such terrible news I am so sorry for your loss, i can't imagine how you must be feeling right now. :gloomy:



My thoughts are with you and your family during this tough time.

:hugs:

[V8]

Oh no, i am so so sorry this has happened to you. Don't feel silly for not knowing, sometimes our bodys don't show any symptoms like cramps or bleeding. Huge hugs and i'm so sorry. :crying: :(

[nayasmum]

Aww you poor thing!!! :crying:

I cant imagine what your feeling like atm!
My thoughts and prayers are with you

[jessmarty]

Thank you so much!!

I think I posted this thread in the wrong section - sorry!!!

[EmsMum72]

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Please don't feel silly for not knowing. I had a missed miscarriage earlier in the year and for 3.5wks I was walking around thinking I was carrying a healthy child, but it died at 8 weeks. My thoughts are with you :hugs:

[mikaylasmummy]

:crying: Oh Jess I am so sorry for your loss.. May your baby

:angel: R.I.P:angel:
:hugs: :hugs: :hugs:

[JeSka]

im so sorry 4 ur loss lots of :hugs: cant imagine wat u n ur family r going thru.. my thoughts r with u at this sad time :kiss:

[Kayangel]

oh hun i am so sorry for you loss. :hugs: if you need to talk pm me.

dont feel silly, this is not your felt and you had no way of knowing as your body didnt tell you.

My thoughts are with you and your family during this hard and sad time.

Take time to heal cry and scream.

Big Hugs...:hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs:

[4tiggers]

I am sorry:hugs: :hugs:

[Ruby Slippers]

I'm sorry for your loss :hugs:
I know how you feel I was due in May 2008
and I lost mine :crying:

[Nic71]

I'm so sorry :hugs: . Please don't feel silly, my baby died at 9 weeks and I didn't find out till 11 weeks when I had a scan - I would have been due in March 08. I'm really hoping my baby will come back and join us again, when he/she is ready.

There are a lot of wonderful women on here who are there if you need a shoulder to lean on or just someone to talk to you, they have all been so wonderful when I needed someone to talk to. Please PM me if ever want to talk.

[Leishie]

I am so sorry to hear of your loss.

:hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs:

[sammum]

I wish I could reach thru the computer and give you a :hugs: and my shoulder to cry on. I want to reiterate what everyone else has said .... our bodies are bizzare things & I don't know why they don't give us signs about these things.

I wish I could wrap you up in a warm blanket until the hurt wasn't so intense.

[Bel1978]

Sorry to hear that :hugs:

[jessmarty]

Thanks heaps for the support ladies :hugs:
It is greatly appreciated !!!
Hopefully things will start to get easier.

Thanks again, it means so much to me

Jess
xoxo

[Kayangel]

Your welcome jess, we are all here if you ever need anything :hugs:

[gillybilly]

Jessmarty,just wanted to say Iam so sorry for what you are going through. Dont feel stupid that you didnt know I too had the same thing happen to me. I remember when I went for my ob appt and she told me there was no longer a heartbeat. I argued with her because I couldnt believe I didnt know. I still looked and felt pregnant even still had ms. After having the DC I then felt I could come to terms with what had hapen and grieve properly. All the best for you and your family.:hugs: If you want to chat PM me.

[inka2980]

I'm so sorry. I lost my baby the day before you...... my second miscarriage.

I hope you and your family are OK. I understand what a tough time this is. Feel free to PM me if you want someone to chat with.

[kristi001]

:hugs: :hugs: :hugs:

So Sorry Hun!

[zera06]

i found out on friday my baby died at 12 weeks and i had my scan at nearly 14 weeks.

i have to a op on monday to get it out.

i also didnt have any signs it was happening i thought i had a healthy baby