Wat Should I Do Im Confussed!!!!!!

[mandy31]

Hello everyone well i am so confussed me and DH have been trying for bub number #2 now since aug but now i just started a new job and wanted to wait awhile but in another way i want another baby now wat should i do im lost dd is 14months i dont want a big gap between them i know i can always go to work after i have another bub but u know time away from home is sooo good i dont know wat to do any ideas or advice would be good to hear thank you

[Nomsie]

IMHO, keep TTC- you never know how long it will take. A job is just a job, but a baby- well that is something that you can't put limits or prices or anything on!
I want a BFP now so I don't inconvenience my boss too much next year- my job is 12 months contractual and I have to reapply every year! It's great to keep your options open!
I guess in a wonderland we would be able to have our cake and eat it too (weird saying) in that we could have both babies and dream jobs waiting for us when we are ready to go back, but it just isn't so.
I think if you look into your heart you know what you want. (And I am fairly sure a new little bubba is it?!?!?!) ;)

[bindiloo]

Hi:wave:
we are also TTC for bub number 2 our DD is 17mnths old and we have been trying abit here and there since sep. But because i fell first go with my DD i guess im now getting abit anxious but trying not to worry myself
I think you should keep trying especially if you want one then go for it. If we waited to do all the things we wanted with our first then we'd still be childless.
I agree a job is a job and it will never compare with sitting down with a coffe at home and watching you littlies playing together.
;)

[plumptobump]

One thing Ive learned on this ttc journey is not to put your life on hold. I would do both. Keep ttc, but enjoy your new job as well. We have been trying just over a year now and who knows how much longer it will take...but I try not to stop living my life "just in case" I get pg. Like Nomsie said, you dont know how long it will take. Good luck! :)

[mandy31]

thank you for all the comments well i have decided to keep ttc but my partner thinks im on the pill and he dont want to ttc anymore not 4 awhile but argggg males i was meant to be taking the pill since umm sat but i havent taken it at all wat should i do how do i tell him