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matthewsmum
22-02-2006, 18:25
I am a mum in my 40s and have a big age gap between bubs 16 yrs to be exact. Although loving it i do find i am a lot more exhausted this time around.
jasminesmum
22-02-2006, 20:08
Welcome:smiliedance:

I am getting closer to 40. Not quite there yet.
I have a 7 yr age gap and a 8 yr age gap.

It is definately harder when you are older. I'm alot more tired.:sleeping:

Looking forward to chatting more.

Michelle:)
matthewsmum
22-02-2006, 20:18
Yes i hope we will chat as im a sahm too and i do need adult company through the day (dont we all) so chat to u real soon
shaz:thumbsup:
jasminesmum
22-02-2006, 20:24
It can get pretty lonely when you're at home by yourself all day.

Bubhub keeps me sane. I have met a couple of lovely ladies on here from my area which makes life easier. Hopefully you will too.

If you are wanting someone to talk to feel free to email me or I'm on msn sometimes.

Take care,
Michelle:)
matthewsmum
22-02-2006, 20:31
that would be great i live in syd and i have 2 older girls from a previous marriage 23 and 18 i am just getting used to hubbubi have only just realised how to reply
matthewsmum
22-02-2006, 20:35
i can see the green light on your name and mine but once i post a thread how and when do i know u have without going back to the main screen and clicking on new posts?
jasminesmum
22-02-2006, 20:40
It does take a bit to get used to it. But before long i'm sure you'll be addicted like the rest of us.

I have to go now, talk to you another time.

Michelle :smiliedance:
jasminesmum
22-02-2006, 20:42
You can click on new posts on any page that your on. I think that is the only way you can tell. :)
matthewsmum
22-02-2006, 20:44
ok thanks i am going for awhile too to bath matthew talk to u soon
moonblossom
22-02-2006, 20:57
hey everyone, I'm definately in the age bracket LOL. Nice to be here and HELLO to everyone.
matthewsmum
22-02-2006, 21:20
you really are busy arent you. secone marriage too?:smiliedance:
moonblossom
22-02-2006, 21:25
Yes married twice, and no not silly enough to go down that road again LOL. Have amazingly good relationships with my ex's, i really admire and respect them. Ummm this last one came as a total surprise to my third long term relationship, and when I think of the odds, this little one REALLY wanted to be here LOL
matthewsmum
22-02-2006, 21:30
good on you i admire you. i want another one but i had such a bad pregnancy and birth im too scared im 44 in may and i had pre eclempsia my feet were like washing up gloves blown up
moonblossom
22-02-2006, 21:36
LOl well your discription did have me laughing, but I do sympathise. I never thought I would be doing this again at 42, but I must admit things are going well, feeling pretty damn good and just at that BLOOMING stage LOL, yeah right ;)

My children are all very supportive and I consider myself extremely lucky to have them. All the tests look good with this little one, but I decided against amnio, even the doctor talked me out of it.
matthewsmum
22-02-2006, 21:40
yes amnio was nerve wrecking i must say. r u a sahm too?
moonblossom
22-02-2006, 21:53
Oh yeah, I have worked in between, but always found the house fell to wrack and ruin without me to sort things out LOL. I had amnio with my third son because they said he had downs...he didnt.

They had to put the needle in twice, the second time my uterus was contracting and it was AGONY, never again. Also it was such a fluke this one came alone, we really didn't want to take the risk of miscarraige. Whatever will be will be hey? :)
matthewsmum
22-02-2006, 21:57
yes i know i dont think i would risk miscarriage either.
do u have msn?