How do you?

[~*clairesmum*~]

no when its the right time to have a 2nd baby?
me n DP where going to TTC ext yr near claire 2nd birthday but today he was asking questions about if i got preggeres ow how old would claire be? i said 22mhs he just wants to have a 2nd baby so he can be there for this one as he wasnt there for claire liked he wanted to i want a seond baby soon as he only wants 2 n i want thm to be a close age, but the only thing is that my SIL just had a bub 2wks ago my sis is ue in april n so is my cousin so i dont want them to feel like im taking the lite away from there babys :confused: im so confussed, also with people that have 2 babys close ogether is it easyer close to age or harder???

thanks so much if u have made it to here

[JnA]

No-one can really answer when is a good time for you to have another baby. It's all up to your family and the dynamics.

We had our second (three and a half weeks ago) and our first is 25 months. So far this is working out fine.

As for your sister and cousin, I personally don't see it as taking away any limelight. I would think how neat it would be for the cousins and second cousins to grow up together so close in age.

I hope you can come to the right decision for you all. Good luck.

[Mahjong]

There's no "Right" time answer for everyone, just when you feel it's right.

When people asked DH and I if we were having more 12-18 months ago, we would have replied "Hell NO!"

But now DS is nearly 3, we feel it's the right time for US and our family IYKWIM?

Good luck!