Dad's with lack of interest in their children

[Xanthic]

I've been reading Bubhub for over 2 years. During this time I was amazed so many dad's take so little interest or want to be a part of their children's lives.

I can't think of anything better than spending time with my kids. I leave work early on Friday to pick up and I miss them when I'm driving away after dropping them back at their mum on Sunday. They are the cutest most beautiful kids around.

I wish I could spend time with my kids every day.

[whatwasithinking]

That's fantastic Jeff.

I truly envy your children - they are very lucky.

My husband spends as little time as possible with the girls and then when I take them away from him for a week all he did was complain he missed them. I returned with the girls and he wants nothing to do with them!

Go figure! :confused:

[SweetSerenity]

I too envy your children.

I only wish my sons father felt the way you do about your children.

They are blessed to have you :yes:

[our little treasures]

My husband loves our kids like you do yours! DH is always doing the late nights and like before he went to get nappies and on the way home he took them to the park. I got a text letting me know. :hugs:

[OJandMe]

my husband is the same. He's a full time Dad first, and everything else second. He's incredible. Loves spending time with the boys and me. Does 50% all housework. He's brilliant, couldn't ask for any better!

[Xistenze]

As at Stay At Home dad (at the moment) i completely agree with you, i enjoy the time i spend with my son and can wait for #2 (due march next year) to be here, i am going to be working soon as my wife is stopping coz of fainting spells and am going to miss ds very much, hopefully one can i can work from home but at this point i doubt that is possible, for now all i can do is try and provide for my family and try and spend as much time as i can with them :) to all the parents who dont want anything to do with them :shame: :shame: :shame:

anyway, thats my piece

[forbetoel]

Well Done:thumbsup: My husband knows only too well the important role he has in our boys lives, and is always spending time with them. After we started our family he decided not to pursue his career if it meant longer work hours, and has so far stuck to this. Money has taken a back seat in our house to the kids happiness. I know lots of great fathers and I would be quite confident in saying that there are more good ones than bad. Our children have what I would consider to be a wonderful home life, and want for nothing, especially attention from myself and DH.

[punkbaby]

Ahh we need more dads like you i admire you all its nice to see that you are such a big part of yourchildrens lives they grow up too quick and to have a special bond with both parents is great to see :)

[OJandMe]

When our twins were born DH decided to do a change of career... so he's been a uni student their whole life so far... it's been great for them and him, as he's only on campus a few hours a week, and gets heaps of time on hoilidays and stuff.. the boys have never had a distinction between who is the primary carer, as DH and I have both always been here. :thumbsup:

[blubber]

Good on you guys. Now thats what i call real men, not the ones being discussed in another thread.

My DH is amazing with our girls despite the amount his work takes him away from them.
He is theirs and theirs alone the minute he walks in the door. We do tea together, baths, teeth and books.
He will take DD1 with him at any opportunity as he enjoys it as much as she does.

Nice to hear some good positve stories out there.