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Femme la Phoenix
30-09-2007, 15:05
If You Are Going Through Infertility (Read This to Yourself Every Morning!)
By Kristine Elam, RESOLVE of Georgia Member

If you are going through infertility and you get out of bed in the morning,
You are doing well.

If you are going through infertility and you hold down a job,
You are amazing.

If you are going through infertility and you are still remotely pleasant to others,
You are a lot nicer than me.

If you are going through infertility and you go to a friend's baby shower,
You are a good person, a stronger person than me, and I hope they appreciate how hard it is for you to be there.

If you are going through infertility and you cannot go to a friend's baby shower,
You are still a good friend and a strong enough person to know what is best for you.

If you are going through infertility and you decide to do that first IVF,
You are brave.

If you are going through infertility and you decide that an IVF is not something you want to put yourself through,
You are also brave.

If you are going through infertility and you decide to do "just one more treatment",
You are strong and have truly inspirational perserverance.

If you are going through infertility and decide that you can no longer do this,
You have the strength to know yourself and you are wise.

If you are going through infertility and you decide to adopt or use donor egg or sperm,
You have an open heart and are an inspiration to others.

If you are going through infertility and decide to live child free,
You know your heart and are able to open that big heart to all the children in your life.

If you are going through infertility and you cry daily,
You are normal.

If you are going through infertility adn seeing pregnant women or those with babies makes you sad, angry, jealous and worse,
Join the club.

If you are going through infertility and feel that your husband truly understands and is 100% supportive,
He is rare and a keeper.

If you are going through infertility and you have a good support system,
It will help ALOT.

If you are going through infertility and you don't have enough people who understand what you are going through,
I strongly recommend joining a support group or Bubhub TTC & IVF forums!

SpecialMumma
30-09-2007, 21:23
thats amazing!

:crying: is me right now!

Thankyou Femme La!

meltux
01-10-2007, 07:42
thanks a lot femme ...it puts a lot of things into perspective...#1 We are NOT alone and are NORMAL for everything we feel!!!!:hugs:

hugs for you Princ33sah:hugs:

aden2005
01-10-2007, 09:36
What a lovely poem !!!!!

Femme la Phoenix
01-10-2007, 13:04
Your welcome Princess, Meltux and Katherine
glad you liked it, it's not easy and it made me feel better having read it :yes:

I've printed it out and have it near by to refer too:babydust2:

babywanted
08-10-2007, 21:17
Thank you. I really needed to read that poem.
x

lilly25
10-12-2008, 11:01
thank you for this beauitiful poem. i will put it in the drawer with my Maybe Baby and Ov themometer. i was feeling low after finding out not preg again on same day i found out aunt can't have babies at all with out egg donor. thank you:rain:

chhandita
11-12-2008, 18:02
:)This was so good....I dont feel like an evil woman anymore

kerri Adams
23-02-2009, 11:51
Women undergoing IVF or have unexplained infertility ask your fertility specialist about the role of relaxation and visualization. IVF clinics through out Australia have a copy of the True Wisdom audio CD programwww.truewisdom.com.au to support women undergoing medicated fertility cycles. Using relaxation and visualization techniques you can find strength and serenity while augmenting your body's natural rhythm.

heatherm
23-02-2009, 14:47
thanks for sharing this inspirational poem.

Blueberry Crumble
23-02-2009, 14:56
Wow, this post started a year and a half or so ago, and it is fantastic to see that some of the posters have since conceived!!!!!