How often to BD?

[adelaideannie]

Hi guys I'm feeling a little down got AF on friday :gloomy: and was so sure this was the month! I was wanting to ask a little question as I keep getting different advice! How often is it best to BD and what CD should you start trying if your cycles are never the same? My cycles are between 25-28 days! I was told start on day 8 and go through to 14!I don't really know when I O i dont get much CM and when I do it is the thick stuff and that means I have o'd yeah? I am starting to feel like a failure. WHY CAN'T I BE ONE OF THE LUCKY ONES WHO JUST HITS THE RIGHT DAY? SORRY am just feeling down have been on night duty since thursday night so have only had 17 hours sleep since thursday 8am and it is now 530 sunday! I can't temp as my hours are everywhere and the only sign I get of O'ing is a little bit of niggle pain in my ovary area. I spose the main question I want to know is how often should we be doing it to better our chances when I dont know for sure when I am going to O each cycle?:ecomcity: :rolleyes:

[Pixie]

I had no idea of my cycles so after my last AF we did it every other day any sign I got of possible fertile times we did it twice a day until the phase had passes...

I thought I was going to die from that amount of sex lol but it worked!

So try that :D

[adelaideannie]

THANKYOU THANKYOU THANKYOU I am willing for any advice I can get and your the second person to say morning and night works!

[MilkOnTap]

Just bed as much as you can! And try to enjoy it too... :yes:

[honeydew]

I suggest what Pixie did- BD every 2nd day, then when you think that you are close to ovulation try to do it every day or even twice a day if you are up for it!

Sperms can last a couple of days so even if you don't do it on the day of O there is still a chance you will catch the egg!

Good luck, ttc isn't much fun when you want a bubba sooo bad. I hope things start looking up for you soon :hugs: