I am bleeding

[Queen]

I just went to the drs this morning, got confirmed, she thinks I am about 9.5 weeks.

I got home not long ago and went to toilet and I am bleeding.:gloomy: I went back to doctors and she said I have to come home and "wait it out":gloomy: and there is nothing she can do. She thinks if my bleeding continues I will miscarry, but if it stops I may be okay.
I have an ultrasound booked for Thursday...
So I am in limbo til then.....:gloomy:

What do I do???:gloomy: How do I tell DP?:gloomy:

[QTB]

ohhhh hun!

this is not a good day for april ladies is it!

I hope everything is ok! :hugs: :hugs:

The waiting must be the hardest.....

let me know if there is anything i can do! :hugs:

[bAaM]

oh u poor thing:hugs: try and rest as much as you can.
:fingerscrossed: everything will be ok.
It could be in-plantation bleeding try not to stress and keep Ur feet up

[punkbaby]

I hope that all is ok i bled early with all of mine, please try and rest as much as you can and i know its easier said than done but dont stress either

Sending you some luck hun fingers crossed all is ok

[mumzdaword]

:fingerscrossed: that all is ok.....:hugs::hugs::hugs:

[HugsAndKisses]

Im so sorry to here this terrible news:hugs:
please try and relax and rest ill be praying that it passes for you and your bub will pull through:fingerscrossed: :fingerscrossed:

we are here for you:hugs:

[Myztik]

:hugs: :fingerscrossed: :hugs: :fingerscrossed: :hugs:

[shanz]

Ohh sweetie, I am so sorry you are having to go through this.
Waiting would be the hardest thing.
:hugs: to you
Dont know what else to say.

[TyBean]

Oh hun!!!

It really isn't a good day is it!!! :hugs:

I know exactly how you feel... and I am so incredibly sorry....

Please know I am here if you want to talk hun!!!

It is horrible..... :fingerscrossed: everything is ok with bubs though....

Lots and lots of millions of :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: for you!!!!

[Ange&Seth]

Oh Babe, I'm so sorry this is happening but like someone else said, it may just be implantation bleeding.

Talking to you know on msn babe, but :fingerscrossed: it's all good news. You know how to get hold of me if you need to.

:hugs:

[Eloise&Charlie'sMum]

I am so sorry to hear your sad news but :fingerscrossed: its nothing serious and just an early preg bleed :hugs: .

Whats happen to us April 08 mums today :no: ...:gloomy: ...((((((HUGS)))))) Big hugs to you and if we can do anything to help remember we are all here for you !!!

[Roopee]

I hope everythings ok for you.:fingerscrossed::hugs:

[*Sparkles*]

Awww... you poor thing. Try to rest up and not stress (easier said than done, I know). It's in the hands of fate and like the other girls said, it could just be an early bleed.
Please keep us updated :hugs:

[bunintheoven12]

I don't know if this helps but I bled three times during my first pregnancy and still went on to have a beautiful baby boy. It's an awful feeling and there's not much you can do. Be kind to yourself and try to relax if you can. I'll be thinking of you and sending positive thoughts your way.:fingerscrossed:

[Samaras Mummy]

:fingerscrossed: Hope everything is ok :hugs:

[Queen]

:hugs: Thank you ladies, I am so very lucky to have your support:hugs:

I just called DP, he was okay. He has only just started his job so he can not come home. I said its fine anyways, there is nothing he can do that will fix this.
I am having lots of cramping:gloomy: but the bleeding is still quite slow. Its just brown mucus more so (sorry TMI) than actual blood. What this means I am not sure.

I am finding it hard not to play the "what if game" though:gloomy: ..
What if we had not taolf anyone?
What if we had not have eaten that/gone there/done that? Would my little bub be okay?
What if I had picked it up earlier?:gloomy:

Limbo is poo, and I do not like it....:crying:

[TyBean]

oh hun I am playing the same "what if" game... and it sucks... it really does!!!....:hugs: but please know it is not your fault hun!!.... please don't kick yourself.. I know it is hard... but please don't. Nothing you did or didn't do caused this!!! :hugs: :hugs:

Won't your GP write you a referral for a scan to put your mind at ease??.... surely they will do that for you??....

[Manxie]

I am sorry you are going through this. I know you said A&E werent interested but I would go there and tell them you are in lots of pain and hopefully they will do a scan.

The what if game isnt a good one been there done that. There was/isnt anything you can/could have done differently.

I really hope you can get a scan done today, I dont think its fair to keep you waiting.

Take good care:hugs:

[Queen]

Won't your GP write you a referral for a scan to put your mind at ease??.... surely they will do that for you??....

:no: The earliest appt is Thursday, and that was hard to get.
She thinks that if my bleeding stays as is it was nothing, only if it increases that I will miscarry.

If I have an ultra-sound now it will only make it harder should I miscarry.
I do not want to see/hear bub until something changes...that way I can prepare myself. If I see/hear them and then I lose them I will be more heart-broken...Just trying to save me some pain really...:gloomy:

[catalicious]

My sweetheart I havent been around for so long I didnt even know you where pregnant!!

Congrats Firstly!!

And I am so sorry your bleeding.....

Just so you know and this might make you feel a bit less worried i bled with both of my boys from 7-10 weeks, on and off.... and they where both fine!!

I hope this is the case for you!!

Hugs babe!!
Love lots Cat

[Bumble]

:hugs: Rowie mate i have no words but :fingerscrossed: its nothing :hugs: If its not meant to be this time i will always be here for you :hugs:

[punkbaby]

Just checking how you are hoping things have settled for you :)

[forbetoel]

:hugs:

[FunkyMonkey]

I hope everything is OK and your bubs sticks. Rest up and take care OK!

[icugal]

I really hope everything turns out ok for you :hugs:

I don't know if it is any comfort to you but I just wanted you to know that I started bleeding at 10.5 weeks and continued bleeding until 15 weeks (a couple of times I even had major gushes of blood). I spent the best part of 5 weeks sitting in the emergency department of my hospital awaiting ultrasounds. Thankfully though, my little bubba was a persistant little thing and after all that stress, I eventually went on to have a healthy baby boy.

Not all bleeding means miscarriage (though I can certainly understand the stress you're going through). I read once somewhere (maybe even here) that whilst bleeding in early pregnancy is not 'normal', it is unfortunately quite common.

Good luck to you and your bubba...

[earthfairy]

Im so sorry that you have to go through this sweet pea...

Please know youre in my thoughts & prayers & im sending you oodles & oodles of Love & Light!!!!!!

Big Hugs to you hun:hugs:

[bAaM]

Hi darl just thought i would see how your going?



I am having lots of cramping:gloomy: but the bleeding is still quite slow. Its just brown mucus more so (sorry TMI) than actual blood. What this means I am not sure.


Brown blood normaly means old blood if that helps it could be just your body getting rid of old peried blood.
Hope you and bubs are ok:hugs:

[Queen]

:gloomy: Morning ladies.

I have miscarried.
I was woken this morning with cramps, and floods of blood (sorry TMI).
I have just returned from hospital where my greatest fear was confirmed, I have lost my baby.

I am still in dream world, I think, hoping I will wake up and everything will be fine.:snow:

I guess I wanted limbo to end...so now it has...:gloomy:

[Bron]

I am so sorry. How heartbreaking for you.

Thinking of you. Take your time to grieve and heal.:hugs:

[Roxy]

I am sorry to hear that you have lost your bubba :gloomy:

[Bewitched]

Rowie i am SO SORRY to hear this news sweetheart :gloomy: I am sending you all the hugs in the world during this very difficult time :hugs: :hugs:

[Chelle123]

I'm so sorry for your loss rowiechb. Unfortunately I have been in exact same position as you, almost a year ago. There seems to be way too much of this going around at the moment.

:hugs: :hugs: :hugs:
Chelle

[V8]

Aww, Rowie, i am so so sorry for your loss. :hugs:

[Myztik]

:crying: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs:

[TyBean]

Oh Rowie hun!!! :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: I am so sorry... and know exactly how you feel!!!

I too am in limbo... and hope to wake up from my 'dream' which is on going saga as Beany just does not want to come out by itself... :gloomy:

Please know I am here if you ever want to talk...

And once again I am so very sorry!!! :hugs: :hugs:

[cheezelz]

I am so very sorry to hear of your loss.

Try not to play the blaming game because there is nothing that could have been done.

Chin up, take each day as it comes and try not to bottle it inside. We are here to help.

xoxoxo

[earthfairy]

I am so sorry hun:(

Please know that you are in my thoughts & prayers - if you ever wanna chat, please just PM me ok?

HUGE CUDDLES:hugs: :hugs: :hugs:

Love & Light
Kirsty x

[Eloise&Charlie'sMum]

I am so sorry to hear about your loss :hugs: :hugs: :hugs:

[cmd'smum]

so sorry :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs:

[Mum2Bug]

Rowie I am so sorry to hear that you are going through this. It is such a sad time for you and your family. Take care of yourself!!!

[hailsntwang]

Hun,

I am really sorry for your loss.

I hope that you can draw on the strength of your partner and together you can lean on each other to make it through this terrible moment.

My heart really does go out to you.

[QTB]

ohhhh hun! :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs:

Im so sorry for your loss...

RIP little :angel:

[Queen]

:hugs: Thank you all for your hugs, and thoughts, its so nice to have support at this poo time:hugs: :snow: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs:

[TeenyT]

Rowie, I've only just come across your post and I'm so very sorry for the loss of your little angel.

I cant even begin to imagine how devasted you are feeling right now but I am thinking of you and your DP. :hugs:

[Queen]

:hugs: Thank you all for your kind words of support, it means the world to me and my family:hugs:

[mum2my4]

I'm really sorry to hear of your loss :crying:

:hugs: :hugs: :hugs: