feeling single

[meme]

this is the longest i've been single, and while i might not be emotionally really ready to be not single, i am feeling really single right now.

i think i'm ovulating maybe?:o yanno

anyway, i briefly spoke with this cute guy while out the other night and now am having almost obsessive thoughts about seeing him again ( no chance, he lives about 4 hours away, and we didn't get that intimate anyway, no arrangements to see each other again)

it's caught me by suprise a little. and i am not sure how to just keep on going with my life as a single woman.

it could be like this for a long time. i may never be physically unsingle for a while.
i hardly ever get a chance to meet any guys, and then how to get to know one with all the baggage i've got going on.

i miss that male attention.
i miss that physical side to being with someone too.

[SweetAngels]

Aww hun, I thinks its normal to go thru those sort of feelings, altho I'v not gone thru it yet, i'm only newly single, so don't have much advice, just lots of support!

Spend some time concentrating on YOU, nails, haircut/colour (all that), figure out your thoughts and feelings so that soon you can be ready for some1 special to come and sweep you off your feet!

And spend lots of time with your baby/babies, they're cuddles arnt the same, they're heaps better (IMO) hehe

[IheartOman]

Sorry darl, I am confused? Your sig says HIM-28. Are you single or do you mean you feel single?

Sorry I am lost.

[SweetAngels]

yeah, i didn't catch that, now i'm confused?!

[cheezelkat]

meme, what you are feeling is normal. Follow your heart - you do deserve future happiness. Hormones will make you a blubbery mess at the best of times but it is OK to feel the need for another partner.

:hugs:

[hayleysmummy]

i miss that male attention.
i miss that physical side to being with someone too.

I'm with you on that one I hat ebeing by myself but I'm scared no one will want me because I have baggage:gloomy:

[*babygirl*]

:hugs: honey...
i dont know if it ever gets normal 'feeling single' but we all need love... we all need to feel loved and to be pulled close.

you will find it again and when it happens it will feel right. you'll feel normal again lol.

its normal to miss what you have had.:hugs:

[hayleysmummy]

Sorry darl, I am confused? Your sig says HIM-28. Are you single or do you mean you feel single?

Sorry I am lost.

I dint notice that :confused: meme are you there?

[drewid]

Meme's partner passed away - hence the sig 28-forever.

(Sorry to butt in, didn't want any unnecessary speculation.)

For what its worth, I think what you're feeling is pretty normal. Its only natural to crave that kind of partnership - its what makes the world go 'round. Just go easy on yourself...and see what comes.

[SweetAngels]

Well in that case i MOST def stand by my 1st post!

[blessedmummy]

hey :hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs:lots and lots of hugs and condolences to you meme.... im sure when the time is right and you are ready for another relationship it will happen, dont you worry about that! :hugs:

[meme]

thanks, noo. for explaining that:)

[IheartOman]

Meme's partner passed away - hence the sig 28-forever.

(Sorry to butt in, didn't want any unnecessary speculation.)

For what its worth, I think what you're feeling is pretty normal. Its only natural to crave that kind of partnership - its what makes the world go 'round. Just go easy on yourself...and see what comes.

Oh sorry about that :rain:

[Issey]

the realisation of feeling really single can be pretty hard :hugs: not knowing how to go forward and wondering if you want to.

i think when you find yourself single, your thoughts and feelings are up and down and that is normal :yes:

[Mum2Bug]

Meme:hugs:

I have kept track of your journal entries over the past few months to see how you are doing and I read about your "moment" with that guy the other night. It is quite normal to start to feel a bit of that again as time passes. It is just the guilt of feeling it that makes it feel not normal iykwim. The fact that you say you are starting to feel single, even though you are not ready, is a new step towards your new life without Lee. It is a natural progression in your healing. I wont say dont feel guilty because it is impossible to control it. Just work through it, embrace it and take another step forward.

Lee will always be with you in your heart and in your gorgeous children. Continue as you are, one step at a time, one day at a time. Because one day in the future you are going to start to feel alive again and Lee will be a beautiful memory walking by your side through life, and guiding you and your children through your new journeys.

Take care. We are all here to support you.:hugs:

[Dooce83]

Meme:hugs:

I have kept track of your journal entries over the past few months to see how you are doing and I read about your "moment" with that guy the other night. It is quite normal to start to feel a bit of that again as time passes. It is just the guilt of feeling it that makes it feel not normal iykwim. The fact that you say you are starting to feel single, even though you are not ready, is a new step towards your new life without Lee. It is a natural progression in your healing. I wont say dont feel guilty because it is impossible to control it. Just work through it, embrace it and take another step forward.

Lee will always be with you in your heart and in your gorgeous children. Continue as you are, one step at a time, one day at a time. Because one day in the future you are going to start to feel alive again and Lee will be a beautiful memory walking by your side through life, and guiding you and your children through your new journeys.

Take care. We are all here to support you.:hugs:

Mum2Bug, you are fabulous. No one could have put that better!!

meme, my thoughts go out to you, i cant imagine how you must feel right now, but you sound like a strong, beautiful woman who will get through it. I dont know quite what to say, but i wish i could give you lots of :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: